Is this weird? Masturbation question?

[emelylove]

So I love my boyfriend very very much and I know when he masturbates he thinks celebrities, porn stars, or even porn stars that look like /remind of me. And I rarely masturbate to celebrities for me I mainly do it to him, people I know from childhood or even people I’ve met in college…. but recently…someone popped into my head one of my bfs friends…my fantasy is usually of me and my boyfriend and then the friend is just watching to walks in/by but sometimes boyfriend isn’t in the scenarios at all but it turns me on …. that’s when I feel super dirty and weird…. so is this weird? I’m scared if my boyfriend finds out he’ll be mad at me or think I don’t find him attractive…but I really do …. we don’t have sex that often because I typically develop vaginal infections and it makes sex painful when I get treated for it it always comes back … I need to know cause it works for me…

[Leavesbound]

It would feel much less weird if you and your boyfriend watched porn together then shared your sexual fantasies with each other. A lot of people of both genders, perhaps most, fantasize about people who they are not in a relationship with while having sex with their SO or while masturbating alone.

[alexis6996]

It's not weird at all girl! My boyfriend and I are open. He masturbates to his exes and that's fine with me. He even masturbates to pics of my best friend! I allow it because I'm like that too. He knows how hot I think his friends are. And sometimes I can't help to masturbatr to them. Since we're very open, we don't see with others, only oral. I've given some of his best friends blowjobs and some of my girl friends have given him blowjobs in front of me

[bowenw]

You sound perfectly normal and shouldn't feel it's dirty or weird. He will never find out your fantasies unless you tell him, so don't worry about it. If you haven't already spoken with your doctor about the recurring infections, I suggest you do.

[FunkyMonkee]

What's the difference between you mentally fucking a movie star or the kid next door? They're just people. It's just that the kid next door is easily accessible.

[Luckycharms12]

We all have weird fantasies and desires but doesn't mean want them come to life and boyfriend doesn't need to know. Just like you don't need to know what he wanks too

[2ndTryatThis]

I’m sorry to hear about your challenges health-wise down there.. but there’s nothing wrong in my opinion with a little naughty fantasy as long as you’re faithful and truly love your boyfriend.

[quipjohn]

Use what works for u... Keep ur mouth shut about it.

[007kingifrit]

fantasies are fine, they help prevent us from doing a thing in real life actually. nothing to worry about

[Andres77]

Think about whatever makes you cum.
Nothing wrong with that.

[Anonymous]

i masturbate to the person i love and they know it. lol
as for the friend i wouldn't tell him it might make him jealous and piss him off just tell him you flick your bean to him he'll like that a lot

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thats hot and if you don't tell him there is no way he can find out just keep it to yourself but I want to here more about this fantasy

[Marioz86]

I can elaborate for hours, but that's totally normal. Try to watch porn with your boyfriends share same fantasies.

[BUNroaster]

Have sex, and if it ain't as interesting as masturbating something is off, try new things.

[jjj101010]

I don’t think it’s bad, doesn’t mean u r going to act on it, I have masturbated over other girls whilst in a relationship

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Some people would say even fantasizing about another person, is cheating

[Anonymous]

Whatever turns you on.

[In_Trance]

whatever works for ya

[lycanthrope3]

No need to tell anyone, just enjoy

[Pterodon]

You’re normal

[Fuentes]

You a cheater