Whats a good set of boundaries for a first date?

[Anonymous]

He said he wants to hold hands and cuddle on our first date. Is cuddling to much on a 1st date? What does holding hands mean to a guy?

[OlderAndWiser]

On a first date, I expect that a lady will hold hands with me. If I feel that we have had a very good date, I night hope for a good night kiss. I would NEVER expect anything more than that, and I consider cuddling to be more intmate than a good night kiss.

[lycanthrope3]

Play it by ear, what ever feels comfortable