Would I ruin my chances with a guy if I tell him that I’m not into parties?

[Anonymous]

[TheorionMage]

Define "parties"?
Are we speaking of 'casual meange-au-troi group sex?
"Swingers clubs'?
Are you afraid your limiting your dating by NOT wanting to be someone's "+One" fantasy?

[Dchrls78104]

It depends on the guy. The best thing to do is be upfront about and tell him, and let him decide for himself if he wants to be with you. If he doesn't, so what? Seek someone else with whom you are actually compatible.

[Emii_Urashima]

It shouldn't. I guess it depends on if he is the type that goes to a lot of parties. Many guys feel the same as you.

[OutWestBandit]

i think thats a plus - just get it over with in the most direct way possible.

his personality type might completely hinge on attention and people - so if thats the case then you want to get this over with fast

[JackSmy]

I hate parties too. I much more prefer a quiet chat, getting to know a Lady, than drinking, and being fake, at some "party!"

[Astarlessnightsky]

Depends on the guy, if is the number one party addict, it may ruin your chances.

[MrCommodore]

I dont think it would, it won't be a deciding factor for him.

[Darth_Fidelis]

Depends on his preference. Personally, I don’t like parties, but I don’t know of any other guy that feels the same way, so there’s that.

[Andres77]

If it ruins your chances then that's a good thing. He's a shallow flake and you're better off without him.

[FilmGuy93]

You wouldn't ruin your chances with me, but I'm also not a partier.

[dudeinohio]

Not necessarily. There are plenty of guys that don't like parties.

[Joshua0213]

Depends on the guy, for me it would be a plus cause I dont like partying

[Guanfei]

If I was the guy, that would be a plus, not a problem.

[Nik_92]

Definitely not dear but yes he may loose you😉
Don't be worry wait foe right one.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. I am also not into parties; unless it is a game night. Board games are where it is at for me.

[tallcuck]

Only if he is attention seeking party boy. Most man don't like parties. We just go there to fins pussy not for the party...

[EaterPeter]

If you do, let it be.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Asker]

Thank you for commenting 😊

[EaterPeter]

You're welcome

[EaterPeter]

You might be keeping wrong crowd away from you. Hope you consider it a good thing.

[Asker]

I agree. He said he liked the way I think etc. But maybe he's just saying that to be nice. I'll see what happens.

[EaterPeter]

All the best!

[exitseven]

Maybe , if he is a big party guy.

[Shamalien]

If it does ur better off without em

[es20490446e]

What kind of party?

[Asker]

Cualquier tipo de fiesta

[es20490446e]

Por qué?

[Asker]

Cuando no estoy trabajando me gusta pasármela en paz en casa, irme de compras o paseando por diferentes lugares con mi familia. Pero las fiestas nunca han sido lo mío.

[es20490446e]

Y salir a cenar con los amigos?

[Asker]

No tengo amigos 🤣

[es20490446e]

A eso me refería 😵

[Asker]

Pues, cuando le dije el le respondió con el típico... me gusta tu manera de pensar etc. Todavía anda allí pero supongo que solamente es cosa de que se aburra y se vaya.

[es20490446e]

Yo no bebo alcohol, o me paso la noche de fiesta.

Sin embargo me divierte mucho hacer actividades con otras personas. Ya sea ejercicio, ir a cenar, yoga, correr por la montaña, ir en bici, o incluso ver alguna película divertida.

No entiendo como alguien no le puede gustar eso. Además hacer amigos es sencillo, simplemente vas a algún lugar que hagan algo que te guste y solo por estar allí conoces gente interesante.

[Asker]

Nunca dije que no me gustaba salir 🤣 Si salgo pero con mi familia porque así lo quiero yo. La cosa está en que nunca me han gustado las fiestas. Pero nunca dije que no me gusta viajar, ir de compras y hacer ejercicio en los afueras... si me gusta, pero en familia.

[es20490446e]

A mí sí me gusta con todo tipo de personas. Me lo paso estupendamente.

[LonelyDeer]

I do not believe so.

[anylolone]

Nope.

[In_Trance]

I doubt it

[Texasguy99]

Not in my opinion

[Anonymous]

Nope