You ask someone out and they say “ 🤔 hmm ok sure 🤷‍♀️ Oh & d just so you know - I always f*ck on the guest date! OK ☺️?

[VIVANT]

NOT autobiographical ! 😂

I saw it on a show. I guess it’s meant to be funny on the show, I’m just wondering how y’all would react IRL if that actually happened.

[The person appeared normal in behavior, somewhat conservatively dressed, and attractive.]

My mouth would drop open nothing would come out.

I’d be stunned but smile & say sounds great.

Id be stunned Lose interest and walk away.

Take it in stride & plan the date.

Other.

Ask of they are serious.

Tell them I’m still up for the date but I don’t do first date srx.

[Lliam]

I honestly can't imagine someone saying that in real life. Why would they?

The thing is, I don't have one problem with engaging in sex early on. But don't you need some chemistry first?

It's great if make a strong connection during the date and decide to take it further. But a date isn't merely a formality to precede a guaranteed hook up. If that was the case, why not just skip the formalities and say "Let's go fuck."?
I want to feel like she thinks I'm special, not just some guy. I want her to feel like I think SHE'S special.

For a woman to say she always fucks on the first date would be a big red flag. WTF? It's almost like saying she will fuck anybody who asks her out. She may as well say "And I charge $200."
I'd give that one a hard pass.

And if a guy says that, he essentially making a demand. He's saying that he doesn't respect women and only uses them. He doesn't care to get to know her. If she doesn't agree to his conditions then he won't bother dating her.
I can't imagine a woman with any self respect agreeing to that.

[ZackBan]

So far all the girls that I had sex with it happened on the first date so I have no probelm with that but I probably wouldn't give it as a disclaimer like "if you agree to go on a date you agree to have sex later" it's all about the chemistry, sex kinda comes natural when both parties are up for it

[bannacookies]

C. Because that's not funny, making a joke at another's possibility of uncomfortablyness isn't cool.

[VIVANT]

Oh no she wasn’t joking I just meant the show was doing it as a comedy but the character was serious. So I was asking the question as if you are being told seriously by the person who asked you out. They are not joking. not that I imagine this changes yoir answer I just wanted to make the question clear 😊

[bannacookies]

Oh I see. I'd run away from them even faster then. 😆

[VIVANT]

Lol yeah 😊

[Nxtawm]

I’d ask if they were joking, if serious I’d lose interest and walk away

[VIVANT]

Same ☝️

[Sevenpointfive]

i'd ask them what the hell they are talking about. wtf does that mean?

[VIVANT]

I think it means they are always eager to have sex on first date.

[Sevenpointfive]

@Rangkhus_ it happened because of the AI bot MHO. i don't know what to do now. do i reincarnate myself on here?

[zeitgeist057]

It's obviously a joke, so I would just play along and say something like, "Okay great, will you be bringing toys?"

[JackSmy]

I would retract the invitation, as I am not that way!! No one-night things, nothing sleazy, and jut sex!!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would never date that person cause I don't feel comfortable with sex on the first date
plus I have some spiritual beliefs, I don't believe in sex until after marriage

[Jamie05rhs]

I'd ask them if they were serious. As in, "That's a joke, right? ... Okay; just making sure."

(But that's if they're lucky and I'm a good mood. Otherwise, "next.")

[Jamie05rhs]

Bella's expression, though... 😂
Priceless!!

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You and your click baits 🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃

[VIVANT]

Where’s the clock bait. Oh no I wasn’t trying to give the impression it happened to me. There’s just no room in the Title to say that it didn’t.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃😅🤣

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I know lol the question is funny though

[Aakash_Hangargi]

With my looks lol I dare them to say those words 🤣🤣😂🤣

[pink_and_inlove]

I’d be shocked, lose interest, and feel bad

[VIVANT]

Yes I can understand that.

[Adam_West]

i would advise her to use her fucking mouth and tongue for licking, not for talking shit like that.

[Anonymous]

I'd be sure to plan accordingly!

[VIVANT]

Loll

[Opinion Owner]

I mean, what ELSE is a guy to do? :D

[VIVANT]

Of course 😁

[Opinion Owner]

Everyone wins!

[KatherineJ]

Yeah, hard pass

[VIVANT]

Yup 😊

[KatherineJ]

@VIVANT yep. Who knows what diseases he might have.

[VIVANT]

You know I wasn’t even thinking of that it’s just too abrupt for me. And since I def dont and guru say they always do there’s no middle ground. Plus it’d be hard to take them seriously. I guess bc it was a woman it was supposed to be funny to the audience but it’s really self involved. 🤷‍♀️

[KatherineJ]

@VIVANT gotcha

[VIVANT]

I meant it’s a fair point I just hadn’t thought of it

Course you can be active and very safe but I’d be dubious lol

[KatherineJ]

@VIVANT and the presumption that someone is going to have sex of the first date.

[VIVANT]

Yes that landed weird like you do but what about the other person do you just decide for everyone 🤨

[KatherineJ]

@VIVANT exactly. I mean that’s arrogant

[VIVANT]

Indeed 👍

[DanishSaint]

I see it happening. Strongly.

[TallAnon]

"Fair, let's go"

[VIVANT]

Lol be intersting to see if this splits dien the middle.

[VIVANT]

Down*

[Massageman]

I'd leave - verrrrrry quickly!

[zagor]

I would ask "WTF is a guest date?"

[Juxtapose]

I'd be all for it at that point lol, it's on!

[msc545]

What is a "guest" date?

[Tstrbrainer]

Wonderful, I'm more into sex on first date

[FunkyMonkee]

What's a guest date?

[Likes2drive]

I voted B