So I started online dating and I didn’t put in my bio that I’m plus size. I do have pictures of my full body and you can see that I’m plus size or thicc or curvy. The last 5 guys I’ve met up with, ghost me after seeing me. We have a good time talking and keep that same energy when we meet up but I’m blocked right after the date. I did tell one guy that I’m plus size before our date and he ghosted me, another guy told me I should really disclose that to people before we meet up. Now I matched up with a guy and he’s pretty cute we’ve been talking for a week and he’s giving hints all day that he wants to meet up for dinner tonight. Do I tell him I’m plus size before hand or do I just let him see me in person? I really don’t wanna screw it up.

Please explain what you mean by plus size

Well you can always try me out for size

Fat. Don't hide it with disengenuous pictures.

You tell him you are overweight

hasn’t he seen pics of you before?

Meet him in person, let him see you and decide

By telling him that you are not a minus size

You probably should have at the start?

I think honesty is the best policy up front.

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Please explain what you mean by plus size

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  Size 12.
  
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- Bklynbadboy12
  
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  Thats not plus size that's PERFECT!!!😍
  
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- TessCasie
  
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  Size 12 is overweight not plus size or obese
  
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- Bklynbadboy12
  
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  Size 12 sounds perfect to me
  
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Well you can always try me out for size

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Fat. Don't hide it with disengenuous pictures.

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You tell him you are overweight

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hasn’t he seen pics of you before?

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Meet him in person, let him see you and decide

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By telling him that you are not a minus size

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You probably should have at the start?

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I think honesty is the best policy up front.

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lose weight fatty

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- Asker
  
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  Get a better personality shithead.
  
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- TheFlak38
  
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  You're so fat and slow that you only replied after 5 days.
  
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- TruthBringer
  
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  @theflak38 YOOOOO 😂😂
  
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Just lose the weight and address the min problem.

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- Asker
  
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  That’s just a dumb answer.
  
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- StunningANDbrave
  
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  No it isn't, if you're having trouble dating because of your weight lose the weight.
  
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- Asker
  
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  I’m not gonna explain to a stranger why I can’t lose weight.
  
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- StunningANDbrave
  
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  But you will bitch and complain to strangers when you have issues dating because of it.
  
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- TruthBringer
  
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  @stunningandbrave You're dealing with a toxic feminist. She wants the world to conform to her rather than her adapting to the world. Reality is, she is fat and she needs to lose weight. Something she doesn't want to hear, but needs to hear.
  
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- StunningANDbrave
  
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  @TruthBringer indeed, these people don't even realize that they are causing their own problems.
  
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- TruthBringer
  
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  @stunningandbrave I find it amusing how she doesn't want to "explain" why she can't lose weight. I can bet my arm that it's one of those first world excuses like "thyroid disease" or what not. The most logical explanation is simply her needing to quit shoving the types of food down her throat that will make her gain weight
  
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With a hug.

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send a pic...

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I got with coach.

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Get naked

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Text him

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Its a cruel world.

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