Since When Is It Considered A Masculine Trait To Have Work Ethics Or Put The State Of Finances Over Flirting On The Job? (Page 2)

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So I was told I'm acting like a man because I don't date coworkers🤔 WTF On the job you being paid  To do a job not flirt... So I had a co-worker try to get my number and I told him I don't date people I work with... Mentioned it to a user on here and he pretty much said only men should make that decision, only men could have repercussions dating someone at work TF.. Women can/could get fired for not doing their job well too, not just men.. Part of the thread: Back to your work rule... You can make whatever rule you want to protect you from possibly having a bad interaction. But that rule is a man's rule, hence a masculine trait... You're moving like a man. Men can't/ shouldn't date people from work because its a life ruining proposition if it falls on the ears of the wrong woman. Simply, a man can lose everything, simply for asking a woman out, it's not worth it. But if it happens to a woman, it's not the same thing. Nothing will happen to you. This isn't a rule for women unless you choose to make it one. Can someone please explain why men can protect themselves but if a woman does, it's "masculine".. If I provide for myself, I'm masculine if I date a man for his money, I'm a gold digger.. You people need to gtfu already... Same user told me I'm acting like a 25 year old, and I'm gonna wind up a spinster😂😂 Well, at least I'll have a roof over my head (need it for all the cats I'll have🙄😂)

crazy8000 · Answer

Don't shit where you eat 😉

A lot of people have no understanding what that really means even if they think they do.

Yeah.
A lot of female's doesn't get that one have I noticed.
Had a female boss ( on a company that rent out worker's ) that behaved funny around me. a college did mention that she was taken when I mentioned what she did do. probably married.

( didn't find her attractive in the first place
haven't really been a fan of that big breasted female's or that body shape )

Everything is allowed in love and war attitude.
only fuck up everything for them.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

At the company Christmas party, his anonymous gift (from you): a box with a bag of Tide Pods inside. It's the new dunce cap.

Bang5luts · Answer

That's ignorant. Listen, I over heard my grandma telling my aunt who is close to my age, "Don't get your meat the same place you get your bread! " in reference to a guy at my aunts work she wanted to date.

ODC2112 · Answer

In Rome there is a popular saying that "You don't have to put your dick in your work and in the building" (originale Nel lavoro e nel palazzo non ci deve mette er cazzo). He's definitely masculine, but only because women didn't work except at home. It is a traditional thingh.
This is only because when things go well everything is perfect, but when they go bad they suffer from the rest of the families (the building where you live) and your work situation.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I agree with you. I haven’t been much of a flirt on the job since I got my first real job (my clerkship right after law school).

Slartybartfast · Answer

Men should definitely avoid women at work.

Even more than women, this is back assward, it's obviously much more dangerous for a man to flirt at work than a women.

Whoever is saying this (it seems really far fetched that a guy would say these things) is probably pulling your leg, or is not a man.

hahahmm · Answer

May not be masculine but the reality is that the number of guys who will make a federal case out of a woman "sexually harassing" him at work is close to zero. Then you have tons of women who will make up stories when the guy did nothing or do it as revenge because he rejected her advances. So it's not the same.

Yes, you as a woman are being smart not to flirt at work too. Think it's more of an issue for women in executive positions since they'd be more likely to run into a problem. Still less likely than a male exec.

exitseven · Answer

I agree that double standards are wrong. But they work both ways. When a guy gets sexually harassed and brings it to HR he gets laughed at. When a good looking guy flirts with a co-worker it is good natured fun. If the guy is older and not good looking it is sexual harassment.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

They still don't know the real miss brains muffins, she haven't released the kraken yet 👾 The spongy forehead must be bitten so she turns into a lizard and make them run away 🦎

krin_m · Answer

I don't think it is masculine at all. It is just a rational approach regardless of your gender.
As far as dating people from work, I personally do not agree with the policy. We are all adult professionals and we can take those decisions without being dictated by the organization and if things go wrong, like any other decision in our life, we can face the consequences!

cth96190 · Answer

Women have created a workplace environment in which only the most idiotic of men would display any interest in a female co-worker.
It is also likely that, after the relationship has ended, the female will make it her mission to destroy the man’s capacity to earn a living.
Men cannot usually defend themselves against false allegations, so the only rational course of action is to not become involved in any way with female colleagues.
Do not even speak to them, unless it cannot be avoided.
I have seen ‘good morning’ twisted into a false sexual harassment complaint by a psycho bitch.
With 25 per cent of the adult female population on prescription psychiatric medications, there are self-evidently a lot of psycho bitches out there.
Dating female co-workers is another case of the only way to win is to not play the game.
Rejoice, women. You got what you wanted.

douride2 · Answer

Wow just wow. I'm with you on this. Work is work play time is for days off. As for dating coworkers I don't do it.

Supernormal · Answer

Dont date you co-worker. Dont evenbgive it a thought. Date the guy you meet in a football 🏈 game rather 😇

DocJones · Answer

Sounds like a bunch of bs to me to say a man can do it but not a woman. I don't date anyone from work also and I think it's a risky thing for anyone to do.

Shihab91 · Answer

If I provide for myself, I'm masculine if I date a man for his money, I'm a gold digger.. You people need to gtfu already..."  solve it if u can, LMAO XD

Surely · Answer

Nothing wrong with you setting boundaries and sticking to them.  I know what it is like being a single wage earner and not doing stupid things that might have you loose your job.

princeofromance · Answer

You are not at work to pick up a date. You are there to make a living for yourself.

AndrewMG · Answer

It's a great question Mate, but more importantly is it coming home tomorrow? lol

Massageman · Answer

Rule, schmule.  Stick by your choices, Brain. naarrff

KatherineJ · Answer

There are some really warped people with some really insane ideas on here.

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