Girl you ask if we should make the first move and ask a guy out?

[Tiptoetamm]

I say go for it. I've don't it a few times. Men love it even they are asked out. We as women should put in a little bit more time in asking out men. Making them feel special and wanted. That's my opinion, what's are your thoughts?

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Hahaha

[djmzes]

Simple

Whether you approach or not, it is a personal choice. Sometime it is going to be a plus and sometime it is not. Do not think that if you are approaching as a girl, it will be a 100% success. You may fall hard and really hard maybe. But that is not the point. You did what you feel right and whether you want to do it again or not after a failure, is up to you. Because if one fails does not mean all will fail. It also does not mean that the second will be a success.
It is a choice and it is success rate is 50 and failure rate is 50

[Tiptoetamm]

Absolutely agree with you

[FunkyMonkee]

DAMN STRAIGHT!!! Just WALK up to a guy, grab him by the dick and say, "YOU'RE taking me to the movies, mister!!! LET'S GO!!!"
"What about my wife?"
"I'm not interested in her!! I don't swing that way!'

[Tiptoetamm]

Hahaha your so fucking great. I knew I had a reason I liked you lol

[Tiptoetamm]

I'll have to try that sometime lol 😂😂🤣🤣 she would be fucking pissed off he was like she said so I have to lol

[FunkyMonkee]

Really? What was it? I wanna know so I can like me, too.

[FunkyMonkee]

Alternate version:
"What about my wife?"
"She can get her own date!!"

[Tiptoetamm]

It's your personality I love your humor is so great. Love the way you think

[FunkyMonkee]

Of course, you can always try hunting this way.
https://youtu.be/mdcvJIc6uBk?t=76

[FunkyMonkee]

Oh, THANK YOU! May be I SHOULD go into comedy!

[Tiptoetamm]

Maybe I'll try it on you first😉😉 🤣🤣😂😂

[FunkyMonkee]

I'mmmmmm, headin' for the hills right now!! BYE!!

[FunkyMonkee]

Besides, you'll have to bring a step ladder!!

[kyleelyn199723]

It’s definitely something I wish I did in my relationship. We spent many months wondering if we liked each other

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah I am not afraid to go for what I want even when I'm turned down it happens just dust off and try again

[kyleelyn199723]

Yeah I think it’s easier when you aren’t already involved with each other sexually lol. Me and him were sexually involved and I didn’t want to ruin what we had but at the same time lol we would’ve been dating for 3 months prior to when we started dating if I just spoke up

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah I know what you mean girl do fix what ain't broke right

[Gramkabir]

U still can do, during relationship you can make some decision which you might expect from your guy.

[FunkyMonkee]

I can vouch for that!!

[moviedude714]

I thought you were against women making the first move or asking guys out? Asking Kylee

[kyleelyn199723]

@moviedude714 typically I am, but in some cases it does help if the girl does. My man at the time didn’t know I liked that as we weren’t going to be more than friends. Ever since then he now makes the first move wink 😉

[moviedude714]

Sadly I don't see it ever becoming more common, I have a strong feeling it will always be extremely rare for women to be the initiators in starting a relationship

[sullyk1234]

im 55 and did just that and he thought it was rude he's 67

[JackSmy]

I LOVE it, when she asks me out!! Sometimes, because I didn't know she liked me, and always, because it shows that she knows she is an equal, and women should be equals, in every way!

[Tiptoetamm]

Exactly

[JackSmy]

@Tiptoetamm I am SO GLAD, that any are getting beyond the old, BS stereotypes, and realizing that they don't have to just "wait by the phone, hoping he will call" but they can say "Hey, let's get something cold, and walk in a park, or around a lake, or just be together.
Like I said, several, over years, I NEVER would have thought were at all interested in me, until they asked me out!! I was surprised, but DEFINITELY, Yeah of Course!!!
I wish I could say that I met her, when she asked me out, and we married, and had kids, and a Happy Ending, but not yet, but several GREAT relationships and a LOT of great memories with the ones that asked!

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah same

[ChrisMaster69]

That’s what I grew up with, guys asking girls and girls asking guys.

On a night out in Newcastle you would have girls chat you up, or either them or their mate would ask you to go back with them or meet up some place next night or so.

[exitseven]

Yes, you don't have to be really aggressive about it. Be gentle and just suggest maybe that you hang out sometime.
Some guys just need a little push.

[TheOracle10]

In today's age, asking a woman out is much more difficult, you can get arrested for harassment if you believe to be onto something but turn out to be wrong, you cannot be bold anymore as it is too risky and not worth it.

you have to be exceptionally confident as a man and have little objective flaws to feel like approaching a woman boldly, the social implications of approaching someone you have mutual friends with is even worse.

[spartan55]

If I were a women why would I not want to choose who I date?

[IHateBeingaMan]

its probably the number one thing i've always hated about being born male, guys being expected to take the lead or made the first move, be the initiators

[Gramkabir]

I believe in equality... so when every other aspect women are getting equal rights then why not here women should ply the equal role?

I believe in sex also equality matters, right dear?

[loves2learn]

Yup. I agree with this. But having a confident guy ask me out is very sexy.

[Tiptoetamm]

Yes very much, both are great

[moviedude714]

I'm absolutely all for this happening more often and becoming mainstream or normalized but a part of me doubts that won't ever happen

[Cowboy6666]

I would love it, If a girl flirts and ask me out ;)

[Still-alive]

yes women need to ask guys out more often. needs to be more normal

[rebeliouse]

yup if girls want equality then they should live equal and ask guys out simples

[NightOwl8801]

I love a woman with initiative

[Tiptoetamm]

Right

[NightOwl8801]

Says a lot about her when she takes a first move , very attracting quality

[Tiptoetamm]

That's awesome. I didn't think about that. I just think why wouldn't I go for what I want.

[Tunasub]

Yeah sure. Can't hurt anything..

[lycanthrope3]

yes, sometimes ladies need to break the ice first

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes that would b an honour

[dudeinohio]

I agree

[jomil]

The sound I heard was that sweet sound😂