Hiding your body/money to test the other person?

[Shihab91]

So we always hear about men and women complaining about gold diggers and guys only sex, do you agree that a person should hide what he/she have?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Nope! Games and lies of omission isn't the way to start a relationship... Neither is "shit testing" someone... Anyone does that to me, see yah don't let the door hit yah where the good Lord split yah... Those aren't the kind of "games" I play or want played on me...

[PantherMime]

Sure. Some women are gold diggers, so boys should hold off on being too open with their finances early on. Most men will have sex with a woman while having no intention of dating her, so women should hold off on having sex early on. I don't see this as a test so much as a reasonable precaution.

[Shihab91]

correct

[coachTanthony]

------------If you are a man with money and worried about all this shit then just go date a woman with money. Why test every one that comes into your life. Just date someone who doesn't need it.

~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

[Shihab91]

What if he liked a non rich girl?

[coachTanthony]

You don't need to test people. If she is all about expensive dinners, trips and talks non stop about shopping and traveling then you probably know. There are clues.

[Shihab91]

Are you Always able to spot these clues even if they are good at hiding it? Or are you able to spot them when you already have deep feelings for them and breaking up will hurt?

[coachTanthony]

The only ones that are good at hiding it are going after millionaires and they are called Grifters. So unless you are a millionaire you will be able to tell because they always give it away.

[exitseven]

No, you are what you are and being honest about it in a relationship[ is the only way to go.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Coulis]

Yes, this is about the only mind game I approve of.

[Shihab91]

i agree :)

[Anonymous]

Only until you know them better. I used to lie about where i am from in chat sites. Because some guys there would be asking me for help to get a visa.

[Shihab91]

Yes sometimes its ok because if they really like you, they will like you for who you are.

[Opinion Owner]

True !

[Jamie05rhs]

I have known women who have done this, and I respected them for it.

[iseekpinetrees]

Not if they are serious.

[loves2learn]

Nope. Honesty is the best policy. Always.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's not dishonest, though.

[loves2learn]

How is it not dishonest?

[Shihab91]

Because simply i hide that I'm rich and she won't ask if I'm rich she will ask what do i do for a living and will answer honestly. So where im dishonest? Also if the woman dress modesty how come she is dishonest?

[loves2learn]

I don’t think modest dress is dishonest. And it’s only dishonest if you like about how much you make.

[Jamie05rhs]

@loves2learn No one's talking about lying.

[Shihab91]

Why would she ask how much i make? I would answer that with " I'm financially stable enough "