Would you spend a lot of money to find out the truth, that someone is cheating on you?

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Would you spend a large amount of cash just to find out if someone's cheating on you?

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

As a woman you should know how it works... you're supposed to have 007 level spy skills. You investigate everything without them even knowing you're doing it. No need to pay anybody.

Cheaters are never spending a ton of money on hiding so why would it take a ton of money to find out? All it takes is them saying, "I'm working late tonight" and you seeing that they aren't actually at their job. Or they say "I'm going to XYZ early this morning" and you go see if they did.

I'm not saying paranoia is healthy BUT don't listen to the fools who say you should never check on a girlfriend/boyfriend ever. They probably get cheated on more than anybody else.

MikeTheBartender · Accepted Answer

I make a lot of money and no... Here's the thing, whether they are or they are not, the fact that you're asking this question says that something is wrong in the relationship. So it's time to either discuss that or cut the cord. Do you guys have kids?

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

If I had a lot of money 💵 I would.

I used to watch that program "Cheater's" every Saturday morning. I already knew he was cheating and one Saturday morning while we were having coffee ☕ I turned Cheater's on. I looked at him and asked if he'd like to watch it with me. He said sure. About 5 minutes he got up and quit watching it 😅.

Even if I hired someone to catch him at it, I'd have to wonder if there was more than just one. Humm...

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I won't risk the possibility of jealousy. If a guy makes me jealous, I avoid him like the plague and never speak to him again. I've left churches when I got jealous over guys I liked. It happened 3 times. And I told the last guy I dated if he made me jealous once, I would never speak to him again and our relationship would end then and there.

Finchie40 · Answer

No, my gut instinct is free , if she all of a sudden starts treating me like an option whether she is cheating or not, her ass is out the door. Never be an option to someone , becoming an option is your answer that it’s over.

AviatorTom · Answer

No, I wouldn't waste the money. I'd find out myself.

Mr_twoface · Answer

No! I would say that a relationship is based on communication and trust! If you believe your partner is cheating on you and you see a change in their demeanor and body language after asking them straight up, then you need to move on since no matter the outcome whomever tells you what, you will still have doubts.

deus_ex_sisyphus · Answer

No, because trust, when lost is rarely returned. If she pushed me to a point where that trust was gone Id rather break off the relationship and find somebody who respects me than having to constantly feel the need to micromanage my "partner"

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

$50 maybe. If I have legitimate reason to believe you are then we're going to have a talk, and one way or the other it ends, my concerns or the relationship. To get there though, I've got to have some pretty incontrovertible evidence.

rosemilk · Answer

nope. i would just talk to them. and also ask to see their phone. and trust my gut instinct.  girls are smarter at this and we are our own fbi agent.

its_amelia_c · Answer

There are ways and means to find that information out yourself!!! You just got to get crafty and think outside the box!!!

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nah im pretty good at playing private investigator. people should hire me

HawkPerception · Answer

Wouldn't spend my money like that. I'd just figure it out myself.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Nah, it is not the end of the world.

Billlewis · Answer

I'd rather spend a lot of money spoiling her.

slatyb · Answer

Only if I were married and there were a large amount of joint assets.

Agape93 · Answer

No, if I suspect it, I no longer trust you, and I will leave you.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no, if I suspect it, it probably is true. Now it isn't that hard to do.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, I'd just find ways to find out on my own.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Nahhhh if it's going to happen let it be no point in causing more drama. Feel's amazing knowing whatever happens I'll be okay

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. If I even suspect that she is cheating, my trust has already disappeared and I just break up.

Booklover_90 · Answer

Not, not necessary. Everything comes to light eventually.

getwiththepg · Answer

No. If I have to go that far obviously the trust is gone.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Unless we were married and I hadn’t gotten a prenup and there was a lot of money at stake, no.

OddBeMe · Answer

Seems like a waste. If you’re at this point, it’s already over psychologically. .

Anonymous · Answer

If you feel that he's cheating, he's cheating. You don't need to pay money to discover it

laly520 · Answer

nope it would be waste of money

ChooChooHaha · Answer

No. The destruction of cheating alone...

Kaneki05 · Answer

No? It's not hard to stalk someone.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

If I ever felt I had to, its already over.

exitseven · Answer

If I was married I would.

jahaims · Answer

No need to. It would be obvious

pickles77 · Answer

You could do it for cheap

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Nope it don't trust them I'll end it

Francesca1994_ · Answer

No I can do it myself. I got ideas on YouTube.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't have to. Open relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Girl move on. Stop being a psychologist stalker

iFarted · Answer

No...

riverrat3 · Answer

Nope

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