If you were cheated on would you want to know?

[Anonymous]

If things were going great in your marriage and you were cheated on would you like to know?

[WaterIsland]

Yes of course. And there is no such thing as the marriage going great if cheating is involved. Those two things can’t coexist.


Great relationships are built on trust, communication, and dedication. Clearly when someone cheats, none of those things have occurred. If the person cheated, they clearly don’t wanna be with me. So why shouldn’t they tell me and end things? You’re lying to yourself if you cheat and say you’re perfectly happy. Have the courage and honestly self respect to end things.

[Gent207-2]

Honestly I would just be impressed that someone could summon the freak in the sheets.

But after that goes away I'm going to need some biodegradable bags and a boat.

*insert Dexter theme song*

[Anonymous]

Of course. Thinking of who my partner is now it would be extremely hurtful but that’s a secret he should never keep. Fear of hurting me should’ve kept him from doing it in the first place.

[Fanfare690]

Yes because I could be getting other dick on the side too. Maybe even better. Why the question?

[Oldschool1981]

I wouldn't break up if she was cheating but I would want to know if it's just a one timer, a booty call or an affair. I wouldn't ask for names so as to respect her privacy. I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever had, so I'm more accepting of this and allow for leeway

[SnowedIn]

Nope.

Just keep it a secret and keep doing what you're doing.

BUT... if it's about to get out, better tell me first... don't let me find out from somebody else.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Same.
And especially don't humiliate me publicly and don't bring me home a child that's not mine.

[SnowedIn]

Yessssssss!

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

My opinion is going to be unpopular but no, I wouldn't want to know.

Don't ask, don't tell.

[SnowedIn]

I agree with you.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

@SnowedIn yep, my wife and I had a chat about this. We are human after all, and in life you never know.

[SnowedIn]

Smart people.

[JustMeL120]

Nothing just leave its a loveless marriage. I only truly live one man is my life and i would have dreamed of evem thinking about anyone else thays true love.

[Blackcupcake]

yes I would like to know because obviously there wouldn’t be any cheating if things are going great.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I want to know and need to know.

[Stressyalaire]

I mean Duh! I could find a better man!

[DreamGlow]

I would't give a shit.

[shortster]

Yes, so I can leave them post haste.

[La_isla_bonita23]

I would't give a shit.