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That's not possible because I would tell my SO, so she would find out.
The reason I would have to tell her is that there's no point in being in a dishonest relationship for me. Intimacy to me is about knowing the other person and having them know me. Hiding things from them means they don't know me. If they don't know me, they can't love me. If they can't love me, I don't want to be in the relationship.
It's not that getting caught is the main deterrent...
It's more that I'm afraid of losing my dignity, breaking the oath I took, and the dreadful thought of what my SO would think of me now after all those years we've spent together and thought it meant something.
It would destroy the image of myself that I've worked so hard to achieve. Both, for myself... and for her.
Don't hate me but I said yes. This is because my current circumstances are that I'm in a long LDR and we are monogamous by his request. My preference would be to be in an open relationship but that's not an option. I wouldn't want to risk losing him so I won't cheat but if there was a 100% guarantee he won't find out then during the LDR part I might consider. I'm just being honest.
Hey Victoriaxoxo, the vast, vast majority of girls feel the same way and would do the same thing but they will like their asses off feeling it's their duty to have to give off this innocent image. That's the man difference between guys and girls. Most guys would be honest with their friend or friends and say Hey, sorry but if some hot chick wants to bang and she knows we won't be a couple then hell year I'd do it or if a guy said, Nah I'm happy and can handle the LDR then their buddy would say, hey that's cool, whatever you want. Then you get these girls that are all like "Oh no, never I'm Mother Theresa, blah, blah, blah yet they wind up the one divorced some day because their husband found our they were screwing some loser dude at their job.
@WellEndowedinNJ I agree.
No way. That’s a terrible, disgusting thing to do. I don’t care about other people either once I’m into a guy I have feelings for and share a deep connection with. I don’t care how hot the guy would be or how much of a little risk it is. I don’t care at all. I could never ever hurt someone in such a cruel way.
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I would know and that's all it would take to absolutely ruin my self-esteem.
I would know. I have more respect for him and myself than that.
No, cause i think cheating is wrong in principle. I don't do things that are wrong to me in principle even if i can't get caught. I wouldn't murder for the same reason. It's not even selfless. I think the consequences for my own psyche would be bad.
There a time a few years back when an ex kind of made a move on me and it seemed like I might get away with it if I cheated. I didn't do it.
Though in her story, I DID do it and lost the relationship I was in. So many life lessons learned.
He'll nah, I'm married and even if no one finds out, you will have to live with that and not everyone is good with living with guilt. Plus someone will know, you can't hide from God. What you do in the dark will eventually come to light.
No because I would have to live with that. I won't get caught but I get to live with the guilt. Not worth it.
No. As a matter of integrity, one ought to do the right thing even when no one is looking and when they are not likely to be found out. In this case, remaining faithful to one's companion.
Maybe... if she's been good to me then I'll be good to her. But if she's been shitting on me, then I don't fucking care if it's right or wrong. It no longer matters.
No, and if someone would, then they shouldn't be in the relationship to begin with
Nope, cause I'd know I did it and I'd thus find out.
Then the guilt would eat me up from the inside.
If I cheat on my partner I want the relationship to be over , I already answered my own question that I don’t love and value her
I& I’m lucky enough to have a guy who I like want to date me, sure as hell know I’m not going to mess that up.
No because I once loved a woman more then anything on this planet and it ended with me feeling the worst pain I've ever felt so even if I knew I wouldn't get caught I couldn't do it to someone because I wish that heartache on anybody plus if I was happily in love why would I want to
No because that means you aren't serious and you shouldn't be in a relationship.
No. Cheating is for scumbags. Just break up with the other person, if you hate them that much.
No, I value loyalty and would treat my SO the way I wanted to be treated..
Cheating is a lighter word for betrayal. Do you love someone you betray?
No. I have too much respect for her and our relationship. I'm also not a scumbag.
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@Msputiton lmao
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She has to agree. She'd be insulting herself otherwise.
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for no reason whatsoever
being caught was never a ~reason to not do it~
I just don't do things that are so wrong like that, it's a principle, not a conditional
No, my sense of self and personal honour would not let me cheat.
We are in an open relationship, so that is something we don't have to worry about.
Never. She may never find out... but God sees it all!
God always knows. That is all I am concerned about.
I take myself too seriously and have too much empathy to do that.
I’d catch myself and that’s more than enough reason not to
You have to live with what you have done. My self-respect is still intact with many opportunities to cheat even being older like I am now
No. Wrong is always wrong regardless of whether or not you get caught.
Of course not, if I wanted to cheat I wouldn’t be in a relationship to begin with
A guarantee that you’ll never be caught is not a good reason to be immoral; you still have to live with yourself.
There's always somebody who knows who you are or your SO. Also your conscience will give you away at times.
Anyone with a shred of respect for themselves and for their significant others, will not.
A cheat is a cheat and Karma will find you guaranteed.
No because that person has to live with that decision for the rest of their life
Never! I would never do that to him.
No, absolutely not.
I would know, and that's what matters most... no
I'd most likely be in an open relationship
No, because I would know and so would God.
nope, one time I did this and I regretted it.
No. I love him way too much
No, i would never do that.
No, I can't do that.
No I would not... I'm very loyal to a SO.
No, the guilt alone would kill me
Unlikely, but I wouldn't say never.
No..
No. Simple as that.
No..
Yes in a heartbeat.
My ex never found out so yes
No I would not
Nope.
I would know.
Nah..
NEVER.
God would still know
okay but God won't tell anyone, cos' you're best buds, right?
@zeitgeist057 He doesn’t need to tell anyone
May be.
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