Would You Cheat On Your SO If It Was Guaranteed That You Would Never Be Caught and Nobody Would Ever Find Out?

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zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

That's not possible because I would tell my SO, so she would find out.

The reason I would have to tell her is that there's no point in being in a dishonest relationship for me. Intimacy to me is about knowing the other person and having them know me. Hiding things from them means they don't know me. If they don't know me, they can't love me. If they can't love me, I don't want to be in the relationship.

Would You Cheat On Your SO If It Was Guaranteed That You Would Never Be Caught and Nobody Would Ever Find Out?

MelvinGeek · Accepted Answer

It's not that getting caught is the main deterrent...

It's more that I'm afraid of losing my dignity, breaking the oath I took, and the dreadful thought of what my SO would think of me now after all those years we've spent together and thought it meant something.

It would destroy the image of myself that I've worked so hard to achieve. Both, for myself... and for her.

victoriaxoxo · Accepted Answer

Don't hate me but I said yes. This is because my current circumstances are that I'm in a long LDR and we are monogamous by his request. My preference would be to be in an open relationship but that's not an option. I wouldn't want to risk losing him so I won't cheat but if there was a 100% guarantee he won't find out then during the LDR part I might consider. I'm just being honest.

Paulalove98 · Accepted Answer

No way. That’s a terrible, disgusting thing to do. I don’t care about other people either once I’m into a guy I have feelings for and share a deep connection with. I don’t care how hot the guy would be or how much of a little risk it is. I don’t care at all. I could never ever hurt someone in such a cruel way.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I would know and that's all it would take to absolutely ruin my self-esteem.

dustybiker · Answer

I would know. I have more respect for him and myself than that.

genericname85 · Answer

No, cause i think cheating is wrong in principle. I don't do things that are wrong to me in principle even if i can't get caught. I wouldn't murder for the same reason. It's not even selfless. I think the consequences for my own psyche would be bad.

Xylem1992 · Answer

There a time a few years back when an ex kind of made a move on me and it seemed like I might get away with it if I cheated. I didn't do it.

Though in her story, I DID do it and lost the relationship I was in. So many life lessons learned.

BlueScorpio · Answer

He'll nah, I'm married and even if no one finds out, you will have to live with that and not everyone is good with living with guilt. Plus someone will know, you can't hide from God. What you do in the dark will eventually come to light.

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

No because I would have to live with that. I won't get caught but I get to live with the guilt. Not worth it.

BCRanger10 · Answer

No. As a matter of integrity, one ought to do the right thing even when no one is looking and when they are not likely to be found out. In this case, remaining faithful to one's companion.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Maybe... if she's been good to me then I'll be good to her. But if she's been shitting on me, then I don't fucking care if it's right or wrong. It no longer matters.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, and if someone would, then they shouldn't be in the relationship to begin with

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Nope, cause I'd know I did it and I'd thus find out. Then the guilt would eat me up from the inside.

Finchie40 · Answer

If I cheat on my partner I want the relationship to be over , I already answered my own question that I don’t love and value her

Midgetmcwidget · Answer

I& I’m lucky enough to have a guy who I like want to date me, sure as hell know I’m not going to mess that up.

sixsixsix · Answer

No because I once loved a woman more then anything on this planet and it ended with me feeling the worst pain I've ever felt so even if I knew I wouldn't get caught I couldn't do it to someone because I wish that heartache on anybody plus if I was happily in love why would I want to

Vesuvius87 · Answer

No because that means you aren't serious and you shouldn't be in a relationship.

MCheetah · Answer

No. Cheating is for scumbags. Just break up with the other person, if you hate them that much.

JDavid25 · Answer

No, I value loyalty and would treat my SO the way I wanted to be treated..

Alaric_ace · Answer

Cheating is a lighter word for betrayal. Do you love someone you betray?

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

No. I have too much respect for her and our relationship. I'm also not a scumbag.

NathanDavis · Answer

for no reason whatsoever  being caught was never a ~reason to not do it~ I just don't do things that are so wrong like that, it's a principle, not a conditional

bolverk · Answer

No, my sense of self and personal honour would not let me cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

We are in an open relationship, so that is something we don't have to worry about.

Gentleman900 · Answer

Never. She may never find out... but God sees it all!

HaveNoName · Answer

God always knows. That is all I am concerned about.

Juxtapose · Answer

I take myself too seriously and have too much empathy to do that.

Shamalien · Answer

I’d catch myself and that’s more than enough reason not to

BLP11520 · Answer

You have to live with what you have done. My self-respect is still intact with many opportunities to cheat even being older like I am now

Sixgun77 · Answer

No. Wrong is always wrong regardless of whether or not you get caught.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Of course not, if I wanted to cheat I wouldn’t be in a relationship to begin with

DRTguy · Answer

A guarantee that you’ll never be caught is not a good reason to be immoral; you still have to live with yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

There's always somebody who knows who you are or your SO. Also your conscience will give you away at times.

Aaron93 · Answer

Anyone with a shred of respect for themselves and for their significant others, will not.

BJP21 · Answer

A cheat is a cheat and Karma will find you guaranteed.

Anonymous · Answer

No because that person has to live with that decision for the rest of their life

musicbrain5 · Answer

Never! I would never do that to him.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

Ill_made_Knight · Answer

I would know, and that's what matters most... no

CateM · Answer

I'd most likely be in an open relationship

cth96190 · Answer

No, because I would know and so would God.

exitseven · Answer

nope, one time I did this and I regretted it.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I love him way too much

ElvenMr · Answer

No, i would never do that.

admles · Answer

No, I can't do that.

Zolly99999 · Answer

No I would not... I'm very loyal to a SO.

9214xs · Answer

No, the guilt alone would kill me

slatyb · Answer

Unlikely, but I wouldn't say never.

Msputiton · Answer

No..

Hawner · Answer

No. Simple as that.

WhitneySnow · Answer

No..

Anonymous · Answer

Yes in a heartbeat.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex never found out so yes

Blackcupcake · Answer

No I would not

Phoenix98 · Answer

Nope.

TroyDT2 · Answer

I would know.

AsaKyo · Answer

Nah..

Dnice1 · Answer

NEVER.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

God would still know

prosmind · Answer

May be.

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