How can you be with someone who can't have kids but you can and you want more?

[Anonymous]

[just_a_potato]

If I found that out early in the relationship I would probably leave because I want bio kids really bad. If he is infertile and we find that out later in the relationship though (engaged or even married) I would try something else like adopt even though it isn't what I wanted because I wouldn't leave someone I'm that in love with. Maybe IVF if he's cool with it.

[tatianamay]

You can always adopt or try to get pregnant using a sperm donor

[Asker]

I don't want to have kids outside of my relationship tho I really like this guy

[tatianamay]

damn, then im sorry, you can't really do anything about this

[Hawner]

But if he can't, you can't with him. That is something you have to accept.
In any case, being a parent does not mean sharing dna, it is taking good care of a child. Adoption or semen donor allows couples like you to do that. The moment you get a kid, s/he is yours, both yours and his as well. Not by blood, that is obvious, but that is unimportant.

[Still-alive]

Adoption