Is it weird to want to be with someone more than wanting kids?

[Anonymous]

I previously haven't been sure if I wanted kids, but I've been with this woman who doesn't want them and I really love her. I feel I'd rather be with her and not have kids, rather than have kids but not be with her.

[Finchie40]

If you don’t want kids’ and she doesn’t want kids’ then don’t have kids’ period. Not weird at all , not everyone wants kids’. Now that I already had kids’ and my kids’ are almost going to be on their own because they are older , I no longer want kids’ I can’t see myself starting over raising kids’to be honest with you , So I look for girls’ that don’t want kids’ or girls’ that already has kids , that do not want anymore. I was fixed so my baby making days are over unless I want to drop a shit ton of money on getting it reversed , which isn’t on the top of my to do list lol. So I been open to meeting a girl that wants to fall in love and spoil each other , travel and do things together , a girl that wants to be by my side the same way I am by hers’ A girl that is happy and content with whatever we do. And hopefully enjoys sex as much as I do lol

[DrPepper12]

Then live your truth. Just DONT EVER throw YOUR choice in HER face. Be a big boy about it.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

No it's perfectly fine to not want kids. They can be a handful, they are expensive, and frankly they are mentally exhausting at times. They also have great qualities and your love for them never fades even when they are at their worst.

That being said, not wanting kids is not a reason to not want to be with someone that you like. They will have to decide if that's a deal breaker for them though.

[IslaTheWitch]

have kids ONLY if you really want them... don't make their lives miserable only because you complied with the needs of your partner...

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love, the ultimate game-changer! Being head over heels for someone can totally shift your priorities and make you reevaluate what truly makes you happy. It's not weird at all to prioritize love and companionship over having kids, especially if you've met someone who lights up your world like she does. Everyone's journey is different, and your dream life might just be a picket fence with your partner and no kiddie chaos. As long as you're honest with yourself and your partner, that's what matters. Follow your heart! ❤️✨

[trumpetplayerforlife]

That's perfectly normal it means you truly care about her

[Anonymous]

Not weird at all.