Has your taste in women/men changed with a past partner?

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For me it did. Since the last guy I messed with I like balds with beards too 😂 I never really noticed balds until him, tattooed, slim, tall balds with a nice beard are now one of my types.

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

Yes and no?

He showed me what I didn't want, and what I needed most. No real aesthetic differences, though I did end up with a very different looking partner.

He helped me refine what I wanted in future partners, which is really valuable and even though he cheated I genuinely appreciate the lesson.

Now, I have a partner who manages his mental health. One who buys me things, without wanting anything in return except my happiness. One who encourages all my odd little quirks and finds them endearing - and whose little quirks I find endearing as well.

But, I mean... I also realized I was bisexual and could find happiness with anyone - regardless of gender.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

with Guys, i have to admit the last 4-5 since 2015, were all "dad bods".

as far as girls, i really liked girls with poor self esteem, chubby or skinny did not matter. Their self esteem made them Needy and want to be with 'anyone' that would give them attention.

My last real girlfriend was older, full figured almost chubby, and very very very aggressive.. she was the Dom in the bedroom and out!

before her, i was with a super goth chick with WAY too many piercings, even for me. She was super skinny, not petite, and was super tomboy!

blank_expression · Accepted Answer

My taste always changes and is experience based. Several partners have e. g. convinced me the small boob thin-wired women are the wettest in existence. So far, every one of them has been puddle wet. Those small nipples are ultra sensitive and two women in particular have fully orgasm-ed on nipple play alone. How the hell can a woman completely cum with a cum puddle to a cold vagina finish by tiny AAs and nipples only while never having time for me to reach her vulv-package? For this reason today, I think that I may be drawn to the little ones more. The huge boob girls while fine, never O-ed that extreme.

Midwestlatin77 · Accepted Answer

Hmmmm. Since I’ve never really had a type, I’d say it changes according to needs, wants & desires at the time. The one thing that never fails to get me is when they catch my attention w/ their intelligence. That, is for sure my biggest turn-on in life! There’s nothing worse than a goodlooking face or above normal endowed guy & have him be a bit on the slow side. No. Just NO!

kyleelyn199723 · Answer

100% I used to like the guys with tattoos and steroided looking guys until I dealt with one. His sex sucked unless he was on steroids, he had a small peewee, and it seems like I only stuck by him for his looks. He had only bad qualities bad money handler, didn’t want to work, at the gym for hours on, cheated on me. The list goes on

little_rose · Answer

omg YES!!!
I used to have a preference for guys around my age, maybe a year or 2 older than me but I've been seeing someone older... well 6 years older than me so not that much, but still older than what I'm used to

It has changed my life!! He's so mature and understanding. We don't feel the age gap. He says it's mostly because I'm mature and we have a lot of common interests.

The sex is better too since he is more experienced than the guys I've seen in the past.

IveGotNoName · Answer

I mean, I had a crush on a very outgoing "dramaqueen" guy who honestly wasn't a very nice person and cared more for his looks than his personality back when I was 14, and my boyfriend now is truly the most kind-hearted, honest and intelligent person I have ever met. I just see that as an indicator that I grew up and figured out what was good for me.

Anonymous · Answer

For me it's an opposite reaction now. I will never be with anyone who is like my exes.
I'm not gonna accept any average or below looking person because they cling to you, lie to you and are very selfish due to lack of options. So they will literally start controlling you and will be jealous without any reason.
I'm not gonna tolerate a guy who's cool and carefree by nature anymore. I want a serious, honest and emotional guy. No more fucking games AT ALL.

Avicenna · Answer

I won’t take chances now like I did a couple of times in terms of her flaws. No ones perfect, but if she’s had mental health issues, doesn’t have a great personality, has health problems, or she has poor finances, it won’t go any further.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Not as such, I still tend to go for confident girls, with attitude, sense humour, intelligent etc and tattoos and piercings,  it seems to be where I gravitate to.

kaylaS91 · Answer

When with my ex, I was into Asian guys and didn't care if who I was dating was shorter than me (5'10"). Smoking/drugs were a huge dealbreaker to me.

My current guy is white, almost a foot taller than me and smokes cigarettes/weed. 🤣

soe11 · Answer

My ex was pretty gorgeous but she wasn't attractive and sexy but simple.
My current girlfriend is my type and choice, she full of feminine, sexy, attractive, pleasureble and liberal, I really appreciate and proud of her as well as her mom.

Feelicks · Answer

Yep, my type has gone from smoking hot, to preferring someone I can talk to without getting annoyed or bored to death. I guess that's the cooling of age.

Leavesbound · Answer

Yes I dated a woman who was very curvy with a big butt and after her I have a preference for larger butts. It's her only feature I actually miss.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

Yeah, i no longer go for latinos because of one of my exs...

NathanDavis · Answer

no, not really... I still keep it the way it started smart, interesting and funny...

ArztSchlachthof · Answer

Yep, my standards rose. Want more from a relationship since then.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah he was bald guy too. Unfortunately, I won't be gravitating towards that type because of that guy. I don't want to be reminded of my ex.

Floppy2112 · Answer

Yes, I won't mess with anyone who gives off 'crazy' vibes. Before I didn't care. Big mistake.

JennBITx · Answer

Yes. It always changes. I learn something that might be more important to me

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Yeah. Now I refuse to even consider women with any mental health issues.

AdithyaR · Answer

I've lost any kind of interest to have a partner if that counts.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. I used to hate hairless pussy, now I think it can look good depending on the girl. I also used to not like tattoos and nipple piercings but I do now

grega239 · Answer

Yup. I've become paranoid about their intentions and i don't trust anything they say. Im almost completely indifferent towards them

Anonymous · Answer

Let's just say that I don't date many white women anymore. I would still date one if she was based and reasonable but so many are zealots and activists these days

Anonymous · Answer

I liked a woman who was the same height as me but was very materialistic. We never dated, but I asked her out and she invited friends. :/ Ever since then, I’ve only wanted shorter women who weren’t into too much makeup and material things.

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

Yes. In my younger years I only liked white women and i still do. I do like all races of women now.

MudRucker · Answer

Lately I find myself more attracted to black girls.

Romeocuck · Answer

Yes. It did. I like my girl to be a slut and that way she won't have to lie about things

Slim57 · Answer

Nah but damn do I think its time I should change it haha

Sambelfast198526 · Answer

I used to go for younger woman about 18 to 25 when I was a bit younger now I go for 40+

tatianamay · Answer

Depressed, anxious people

bannacookies · Answer

No. Just strengthen my taste.

Supernormal · Answer

Tattoo  , just looks good

scott04sa22 · Answer

Tried so hard finding someone but simply can't

KrakenAttackin · Answer

No more crazy chicks.

Janessa2021 · Answer

Lmao "improved" is the word I'd use

888theGreat · Answer

I think bald guys with a beard look weird

Zygum · Answer

Different partner have different choice and taste

Gentlemanhard · Answer

yes, today i only like women who live near me

JosyJosy · Answer

Nopes!

_no_one_ · Answer

A lot

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely

Kkoalalita · Answer

Definitely.

Shihab91 · Answer

Not much

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes.

CantGetItUp · Answer

Das good 😊

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