Has your taste in women/men changed with a past partner?

[postempestas]

For me it did. Since the last guy I messed with I like balds with beards too 😂 I never really noticed balds until him, tattooed, slim, tall balds with a nice beard are now one of my types.

[wingattebaby16]

with Guys, i have to admit the last 4-5 since 2015, were all "dad bods".

as far as girls, i really liked girls with poor self esteem, chubby or skinny did not matter. Their self esteem made them Needy and want to be with 'anyone' that would give them attention.

My last real girlfriend was older, full figured almost chubby, and very very very aggressive.. she was the Dom in the bedroom and out!

before her, i was with a super goth chick with WAY too many piercings, even for me. She was super skinny, not petite, and was super tomboy!

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Yes and no?

He showed me what I didn't want, and what I needed most. No real aesthetic differences, though I did end up with a very different looking partner.

He helped me refine what I wanted in future partners, which is really valuable and even though he cheated I genuinely appreciate the lesson.

Now, I have a partner who manages his mental health. One who buys me things, without wanting anything in return except my happiness. One who encourages all my odd little quirks and finds them endearing - and whose little quirks I find endearing as well.

But, I mean... I also realized I was bisexual and could find happiness with anyone - regardless of gender.

[blank_expression]

My taste always changes and is experience based. Several partners have e. g. convinced me the small boob thin-wired women are the wettest in existence. So far, every one of them has been puddle wet. Those small nipples are ultra sensitive and two women in particular have fully orgasm-ed on nipple play alone. How the hell can a woman completely cum with a cum puddle to a cold vagina finish by tiny AAs and nipples only while never having time for me to reach her vulv-package? For this reason today, I think that I may be drawn to the little ones more. The huge boob girls while fine, never O-ed that extreme.

[Midwestlatin77]

Hmmmm. Since I’ve never really had a type, I’d say it changes according to needs, wants & desires at the time. The one thing that never fails to get me is when they catch my attention w/ their intelligence. That, is for sure my biggest turn-on in life! There’s nothing worse than a goodlooking face or above normal endowed guy & have him be a bit on the slow side. No. Just NO!

[kyleelyn199723]

100% I used to like the guys with tattoos and steroided looking guys until I dealt with one. His sex sucked unless he was on steroids, he had a small peewee, and it seems like I only stuck by him for his looks. He had only bad qualities bad money handler, didn’t want to work, at the gym for hours on, cheated on me. The list goes on

[poneglyphs]

So, what's your type now and what kind or person do uou look for @kyleelyn199723

[kyleelyn199723]

Normal looking men, men that have respect , drive, don’t do drugs, work out but don’t need steroids to look good

[poneglyphs]

@kyleelyn199723 ahh, cool. Well, did it better your relationships so far or have seen a change in them?

[kyleelyn199723]

I’m currently in a relationship with the guy I just described and 100% makes a difference in a better way

[poneglyphs]

@kyleelyn199723 oh, that's nice, I want to be in a relationship just that most girl's ghost me :(

[little_rose]

omg YES!!!
I used to have a preference for guys around my age, maybe a year or 2 older than me but I've been seeing someone older... well 6 years older than me so not that much, but still older than what I'm used to

It has changed my life!! He's so mature and understanding. We don't feel the age gap. He says it's mostly because I'm mature and we have a lot of common interests.

The sex is better too since he is more experienced than the guys I've seen in the past.

[Bright_blue_eyes]

YES!!! I love it. As an older guy dating younger women, I'm so happy you discovered the benefits of older guys. We have wisdom, life experience, a perspective on the world beyond Facebook, way more money, we're not selfish lovers, and most of us don't lie and pay games.

Please tell all your friends...

[little_rose]

@Bright_blue_eyes it's not something I'd tell all my friends but it feels nice to have a drama free romantic life

[IveGotNoName]

I mean, I had a crush on a very outgoing "dramaqueen" guy who honestly wasn't a very nice person and cared more for his looks than his personality back when I was 14, and my boyfriend now is truly the most kind-hearted, honest and intelligent person I have ever met. I just see that as an indicator that I grew up and figured out what was good for me.

[Anonymous]

For me it's an opposite reaction now. I will never be with anyone who is like my exes.
I'm not gonna accept any average or below looking person because they cling to you, lie to you and are very selfish due to lack of options. So they will literally start controlling you and will be jealous without any reason.
I'm not gonna tolerate a guy who's cool and carefree by nature anymore. I want a serious, honest and emotional guy. No more fucking games AT ALL.

[Avicenna]

I won’t take chances now like I did a couple of times in terms of her flaws. No ones perfect, but if she’s had mental health issues, doesn’t have a great personality, has health problems, or she has poor finances, it won’t go any further.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

I can handle depression or anxiety but I’m a ghost the moment I start recognizing a personality disorder. I’m actually quite good at training people to manage their anxiety and depression; I’ve had two exes that had their problems cleared up for 6 months with me before stopping their mindfulness practice and going batshit.

[Avicenna]

@DeltaCharlieEcho: Yeah, well, what I dated two years was a woman who admitted to having anxiety, depression, OCD, and ADD. I thought I could build up her confidence, but it turned out she also had Borderline Personality Disorder. As my example indicates, there is a lot of co-morbidity with mental illness. She may not know she has a personality disorder (or won't tell you), but it's common to have one in addition to depression and anxiety. So it's best to avoid any woman with depression and anxiety.

[Avicenna]

* two years ago

[ChrisMaster69]

Not as such, I still tend to go for confident girls, with attitude, sense humour, intelligent etc
and tattoos and piercings,

it seems to be where I gravitate to.

[kaylaS91]

When with my ex, I was into Asian guys and didn't care if who I was dating was shorter than me (5'10"). Smoking/drugs were a huge dealbreaker to me.

My current guy is white, almost a foot taller than me and smokes cigarettes/weed. 🤣

[soe11]

My ex was pretty gorgeous but she wasn't attractive and sexy but simple.
My current girlfriend is my type and choice, she full of feminine, sexy, attractive, pleasureble and liberal, I really appreciate and proud of her as well as her mom.

[Leavesbound]

Yes I dated a woman who was very curvy with a big butt and after her I have a preference for larger butts. It's her only feature I actually miss.

[Feelicks]

Yep, my type has gone from smoking hot, to preferring someone I can talk to without getting annoyed or bored to death.

I guess that's the cooling of age.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Yeah, i no longer go for latinos because of one of my exs...

[NathanDavis]

no, not really... I still keep it the way it started


smart, interesting and funny...

[ArztSchlachthof]

Yep, my standards rose. Want more from a relationship since then.

[Anonymous]

Yeah he was bald guy too. Unfortunately, I won't be gravitating towards that type because of that guy. I don't want to be reminded of my ex.

[Floppy2112]

Yes, I won't mess with anyone who gives off 'crazy' vibes. Before I didn't care. Big mistake.

[JennBITx]

Yes. It always changes. I learn something that might be more important to me

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Yeah. Now I refuse to even consider women with any mental health issues.

[AdithyaR]

I've lost any kind of interest to have a partner if that counts.

[grega239]

Yup. I've become paranoid about their intentions and i don't trust anything they say.
Im almost completely indifferent towards them

[Anonymous]

Let's just say that I don't date many white women anymore. I would still date one if she was based and reasonable but so many are zealots and activists these days