Definitely! Sometimes it can even be a problem, coz when I'm dating a girl exclusively, I wanna spend all my time with her just goofing out together, drinking nice wine, making love, people watching, teasing, etc. But then I kinda forget things like taking time to myself for working out or advancing my career. So I end up short on money and packing on some extra pounds and suddenly she finds me less attractive, so in the end I kinda have to step away from the romance in order to ultimately keep it from fizzling out. But I'm a romantic for sure, that much won't ever change lol
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OF course!! Classical education, and knowing Shakespeare, and the Sonnets, and good wine, food, and so much more to share!
Sadly, SOOOOOOO many ladies, today, don't know these things, and don't bother, or care, with the "Romance," of old, and taking her hand, on stairs, or taking her coat, and adjusting the chair?
For many, it seems "SEXIST" now, when it was just an elegant way to respect a Lady, in times past.
So much has been lost, with so many forcing their ideals on society.
A few of us, remember the elegance, of the past, and those things live on, with the Ladies that appreciate those things. . .
Depends on the person I'm with. It's either I'm really into someone or not into them at all. If i really really like someone, then I'm insanely romantic. I'd want to cuddle, hold hands, do all the silly romantic things that couples usually do. Tbh, I read lots of romantic books and I'd be lying if I said I do not watch cute couple tiktoks at 12 in the morning and bitch about the fact that I do not have someone to do cute things with. When im reading romantic books, I get jealous of the female lead. This sounds stupid, but trust me, those books are super super romantic haha
I can be in the right situation but generally no.. I’m a simple girl. Typical Romantic scenarios, dates, travel destinations make me cringe and flowers are probably the worst, but at the same time I’d still like to cook a good meal if I loved someone and leave a little gift by the bedside table if at work. That being said at least I’m low maintenance, no fancy restaurants or expensive bracelets thanks.
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I honestly Dk. I’m very tactile tho I suppress this for the most part. It only comes out in very narrow set of circumstance and I think In romantic settings, that can be confused with romantic. And I just Dk if I am.
hmm... how do you define it for yourself?Yes, I love to cuddle, kiss., hugs, hold hands, show affection, hold hands, and public displays of affection
No, I’m aromantic. Doesn’t mean I won’t do nice gestures for someone special though. It’s kinda like Sonic the Hedgehog and Amy. He’ll always care about her or save her from danger but will also attempt to flee from her romantic advances and never say “I love you.”
I would rather not be. It's a catalyst to both sadness and happiness, a double-edged sword that can either give or take away all the hope. It's also impossible to talk about it as most people are not as sensitive.
Okay so basically my issue is I mix romance with sex LOL. So anything sexual for me is romantic. That’s my type of romance and that’s the only romance I like.
No I’m not. I try to be but it feels unnatural. But I can still appreciate a guy who is romantic though. They’re weird sentimental creatures but like they say, opposites attract. :)
I can be... with the right person, and at the right moments.
Of course I can be romantic.
When I REALLY try, I can even remember to put the toilet seat down or the cap back on the toothpaste! :DI love romance but I dont know how to be romantic I am an awkward person lmao. However, I wouldn't mind learning how to be romantic.
No not really, I won't be like oh so romantic this dance, this dinner. More like this is fun or we should go there again. And I'm not a fan of flowers or sweet talk
well I think i'm a romantic person but I haven't been in a relationship in a long ass time.
I listen to romantic music.I'd like to think so, but I think most people do :)
No, im always busy. Women have to initiate the romance with me
Absolutely. Always have been. Gitls would always say i was so sweet and i couldnt figure out why.
Im super romantic
Even some of girls can't stand that 😢
I love kissing, fucking, huging.. etc every single hourNo, I am not romantic.
Women beat that out of me.I used to be a very cheesy romantic.
Unfortunately past experiences have permanently discouraged me from being like that anymore.Very romantic I will wine you and dine you and take you over to Europe and take you on a nice cruise ship and buy you gifts and diamond earrings
Hell no. I am an INTJ, a nerd and an engineer. Everything must be practical. If she wants to be romantic, I'll let her organise it.
I just play along with it because in Disney movies when you don't play along she turns into a witch and an evil bitch. So just play nice and maybe you will get some action.
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