No sex on first date, is it a dealbreaker? (Page 2)
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I'd be happy if a first date lead to simple cuddling I feel no need to rush to the climax of the relationship on the first night.
It says more about the women you date. If I was on a first date I wouldn't want sex right away. Especially if I wanted something serious.
If no sex in the first date is a dealbreaker for a woman you date, you don't want a second date; she has already told you her whole story and you don't need to hear it again.
I won't have sex in the first date unless I'm really feeling him and i feel the same in return
If the girl don't show any sign that show she want some sex or don't accept mine, then 100% hope we will never meet again.
If anything I think sex on the first date is rushing it and definitely not something I’d ever do in general. I personally don’t have sex unless I truly love someone. So no it’s not dealbreaker, especially if it’s a date and not a hookup.
No, it is not. I respect women more who wait, as long as they aren't being a c*cktease.
Because they wanted just a one time thing. I assure you a girl who wants a relationship or even being taken seriously, will never fuck with you at first date.
You owe penis to the ladies you date. No wonder they ghosted your sorry ass.
Is it a kind of trolling? Men don't owe a penis to any stranger woman they met
@SilverRain92 no they dont, should women have to bow and su ck a mans dick constantly because she "OWES' it to him?
no so @supercutebutt your answer is wrong entirely
@Jakekk7634 Thanks for setting me straight!
It really depends though, because sometimes you will be in a relationship before a "date", Im fairly young but the first date tends to be more than 3 months after we start seeing each other, and I think it would be weird to wait half a year for sex.
Even a kiss is too much for me on the first date. I need to get to know them properly before anything physical.
I dont have to have sex on the first date and if a women ghosts me because of it then I am happy to have avoided someone like her
If I don’t sleep with the girl on the first date I’ll cut her off.
Because usually she’ll play a lot of games if I don’t Sleep with her the first date also.
I was actually giving an ultimatum of we can’t be in a relationship if you won’t sleep with me. Which was crazy considering she knew I had purposely not had sex much waiting for my spouse.
Anyone looking for sex on the first date is not relationship material.
I have given a bj on a first date
very rarely will I ever have sex on a first date
For me it would be a deal-breaker if there was sex on the first date. I'm saving that for marriage
you must not be from America. either or you from ride of die liberal town
I guess for those girls it was. Sounds like being a whore has become a virtue in the eyes of many.
Guess it depends on how well you know them. I’ve had friends that became gfs and technically we fcked on the “first date”.