My (20f) boyfriend (20m) always gets mad at me if I let him know my feelings. How do I work it out?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend always asks me to open up and let him know if he did something that I don't like. However everytime I voice it out, he'll get mad, defensive and proceeds to give me solent treatment for a few days. For example we wanted to go out for a date last Wednesday and he only told me he can't go after I'm already otw there. I told him to maybe tell me earlier about it and he just shuts me out until today. Doesn't happen only once. So how do I work it out? I really want to keep this relationship going.

[Alonelyf]

You should rant this to him not here. Sometimes it's tough to break the bondage. But you must know that your happiness matters. You only have one life do you want to live it as per your choice or his choice?/Maybe it's a sign that you will meet someone better. That's why he is trying to disrespect you. Maybe it's a sign from the universe trying to transition you into another phase of your life. If he truly loved you he wouldn't do such stuff, because when you love someone it has to be mutual support, care, and most importantly respect, not just being judgmental and trying to control another person

[ChrisMaster69]

Talk to him, tell him the facts as above.

if he can’t take it, ask him how it feeling being an ex boyfriend?

[iseekpinetrees]

He has communication problems u might wanna dump him he sounds immature. If you want to talk to someone n they shut u down why stay?

[spartan55]

Why would you want to keep a relationship with a guy like that going. He has ZERO respect for you.

[JosyJosy]

Tell him exactly what you told us, sit him down