Why would my boyfriend get upset when I try to communicate him about our relationship?

[Anonymous]

Recently my boyfriend has not been a good to me. When we go out with a group of friends, he will pay more attention and flirt with other girls right in front of me. I caught him talking to a girl and he was rubbing her inner thigh right in front of me and thought that was disrespectful towards me. Our friends notice that and they question our relationship and what my boyfriend did to me was not right especially touching a girls inner thigh. It made me not in a good mood all night and I did not want to be around him. When we got home he notice I was quiet and asked me whats wrong. I told him that him rubbing that girls inner thigh made me upset and questioned our relationship because he pays more attention and flirts with other women in front of me. He got really upset and started yelling at me calling me names and putting me down. He always does that when I try to communicate with him about our relationship. I think its an immature way to solve conflict in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Narcissists do that all the time. They do something wrong and turn things around so that they end up blaming their partner. It seems to me that something is too toxic, if he does that in front of you without respecting you at all and when you talk to him he yells at you and gets angry apparently he is tired of the relationship and is waiting for you to end everything. If you allow things like this it will get worse, believe me. Ask yourself why are you still in a relationship like this? You deserve someone who respects you, loves you and values ​​you.

[Asker]

Thanks! He went out of town this past weekend and texted me he still likes me. I did not respond back because its obviously a lie and trying to manipulating me.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah! Thats good, show him you know your worth and that he missed someone he should have appreciated. 👍

[natured]

THIS IS SO TOXIC !!! That is not just an immature way to solve a conflict because he is not even trying to slove.
If I where you I'd run away as fast as I could. Please, I usually am one of the most romantic people here in G@G believing in love and all but this is not LOVE... this is TOXIC.
You deserve so much better, I'm really sorry but this relationship cannot be saved.
HIM TOUCHING ANOTHER WOMAN'S INNER THIGH? I'd seriously GO NUTS...
Please save yourself while you can you deserve so much better.

[Luckycharms12]

Just leave

[hopelesslyhappy]

I've dated very few men who didn't do that crap! It's ridiculous. They always talk about how awful women are but they have no idea how disrespectful & degrading those things are! Or else they just don't care. I don't know. I know they would 4ather believe some BS one if his friends told him or some other chick than to ask you or me about what they heard. Imagine if you were out with him but Everytime you went out you flirted with all theen around and you were nicer to other men than your man! He would be beside himself with rage. They never realize that

[Dazed0N0Confused]

It sounds to me like a toxic relationship that just needs to end.