Is being a side chick ever a good idea? (Page 3)

[midnightmoon05]

no it’s not a good idea.

How would you feel if you became his girlfriend and he has a side chick?

[dillbill561]

Don’t do it. Tell his girlfriend though in a non-confronting way. You will regret doing the wrong thing but feel good for doing the right thing. And please go for better guys there are plenty out there

[Lillie_xo]

well !! no ! you're not doing any good for them or yourself ! in my opinion at least ! (^∇^)

[Anonymous]

So he's obviously a cheating piece of shit. Just know that if you choose to be his "side chick" then you are every bit as big a piece of shit as he is.

[Jazquee]

Yay... nicely stated

[FilmGuy93]

No. It has literally never once in the history of humanity ever been a good idea.

[420Rachel]

Um... Use your brain and it's pretty easy to figure out if it's a good idea or not.

[Still-alive]

Hmmmm

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm

No? 😬

[420Rachel]

Lmfao 🤣

[MotorcycleMan]

Sounds like a recipe to lose you friends and job at the same time.

[Clarke498]

I never understood it. Why would you date a guy that's comfortable with cheating. Says a lot about you (if you were to actually do that)

[Eva2015]

No, in fact it is never a good idea. It will only cause pain. Just stay away from guys in relationships.

[pleasestopthis]

No. It means you're only second option and discardable when he gets caught. No woman with self respect likes to be a side chick

[Minamikun]

No, it isn't
Unless if both of them are polyamorous

That situation happened to my friend and she gave up of him because he didn't want to break up with her girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Please do it bitch
I really want you to experience being cheated on
Karma exists LMAO

[GenaBaby1995]

A long as you know ur both using each other for a limited time, go for it!

[loves2learn]

He sounds like a real untrustworthy loser. I feel sorry for his girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

If you’re asking us that means you’re already headed in the wrong direction. I would advise against it. He’s going to give you the cold shoulder after u fuck and will probably ghost you.

[Biancam13]

No because if he actually liked you enough, you would be his main and only chick.

[spartan55]

Yeah sure, give it a try and see how it goes... 😂 😂

[bamesjond0069]

Well i have a girlfriend and a second girlfriend but they know about and are supportive of each other. So if y'all get the ok sure go for it. If you just being sneaky, nah you just going to end up w a ton of drama.

[Ninani]

It can be fun if you're not looking for deeper emotional connection and reliability.

[Jazquee]

Can be fun to destroy another person..🤔🥺

[Ninani]

He's the one destroying their relationship, either with me or someone else.

[888theGreat]

you are just an evil person with no morals

[Ninani]

I have morals, just not the same as yours.

[888theGreat]

your morals are immorals

[Ninani]

No, they are natural desires.

[888theGreat]

Oh, so you just an animal like a dog in heat

[Ninani]

We're all animals. It's unhealthy to deny it.

[888theGreat]

We are different or supposed to be. We can reason and think. Well some of us can.

[Ninani]

Some animals can too. But apparently we can't accept our primal desires and get butthurt claiming to be monogamous, when we are biologically meant to have several partners. Clinging to an ideal that is against our nature isn't morals, it's stupidity.
I don't break up relationships, I'm the "side chick" to open relationships. Nobody gets hurt with open communication.

[888theGreat]

You are foolish

[Ninani]

Really, because I can think for myself and not blindly follow outdated, restricting societal norms?

[888theGreat]

Actions that damage institutions and society

[Ninani]

Actions that goes against the collective control.

[888theGreat]

Your soul is dead

[Ninani]

It's probably more alive than your oppressed one.

[888theGreat]

Nope , I play it safe and I have no worries. You don't and never know when that last guy just killed you.

[Ninani]

If I die that's it. Won't affect me afterwards. If he does anything to harm me short of killing me I can report him.

[888theGreat]

Yea, but you would go to Hell. A terrible price to pay for a little fun

[Ninani]

Good thing hell doesn't exist. Another ruse to control you.

[888theGreat]

Keep thinking that. You are in for a rude awaking.

[Ninani]

So are you 😘

[Jazquee]

Wow @Ninani you really faught hard here to prove your not a souless whore... no one buying it...

[888theGreat]

@Jazquee Her life is a pathway to self destruction, unfortunately she is going to take a lot of others down with her.

[Jazquee]

Like some poor in expecting commited loving girlfriend...

[Jazquee]

(un-expecting)

[Ninani]

Must feel great to put all the blame on other people.

[Ninani]

Even Jesus accepted a whore at his table. Which part of this makes you loving and worthy people? If you truly believe in hell, then you know that this is what paves your road to it.

[Jazquee]

You are the cause and effect... women like you are the reason men have the option to cheat. Karma is a bitch and sooner or later she will find you...
I hope you grow up and settle down fall madly in love with the perfect man... have kids and a dog buy a house then come home early from work one day to find your husband fucking a side chick in your bed... that would truly be poetic justice

. hey not her fault right? He is the one doing it...👍

[Jazquee]

And I don't believe in "heaven " or "hell"
I believe in good and evil and you are pure evil
Even the Budda would weep for your soul

[Jazquee]

What do you think @loves2learn this chick? Trying to rationalize being a nasty hole wreaking slut... any thoughts?

[loves2learn]

@ninani your advice to the asker isn’t very sound. Being a homewrecker and perpetuating dishonesty is never good.

If people choose to have honest open relationships that is one thing. More power to them. But it kinda sounds like you are backpedaling your poor advice here.

[Blueeyes81]

If 2nd place is what you strive for than sure it could be a good deal. For a normal person its never a good deal.