A person you have a crush on is a different race then you thought, does it change the way you feel about them?

[artsygirl457]

if you found out the person you had a crush on wasn't the race you thought they were, would it matter to you or no?

yes

no

not sure

Updates

+1 y

to me makes zero difference

Updates

+1 y

im mixed and i have had people stop talking to me over it- even in person, so thats why i asked

[Anonymous]

I screwed up I clicked on the wrong thing I was trigger-happy yeah yeah I know if you're attracted to somebody you go with that maybe your spirits are meant to be together but if you're both coming from a hostile background you need to add that to your consideration about dating them if you ignore that it's like pulling your blinders you have to look at everything in order to make a relationship work successfully and with that I say good night and good luck

[llcanon]

If It is real love it will not matter. When real love claims your heart for someone all that you think matters vanishes away and what is left is the love

[NathanDavis]

It doesn't really matter to me... there's many people in here, that I know online, and I still don't know about their race or ethnicity and other things about them, it would not make a significant difference to me... at least not in a negative way.

and also, it can happen with me as well, since I do "look in a certain way'" which is not exactly "related to my background" or it does not connect right away for many people, it can surprise them a bit but it does not really change things dramatically, at least in my case it has not been bad experiences with this.

[Still-alive]

Ok here's my most non pc answer on this question.

i tend to be more attracted to brown eyed brunettes in this order
hispanics and Asians at the top
white girls below that
black girls below that.

there are extremely beautiful looking black girls who id love to date based on looks alone.

but none of this means id turn down a beautiful looking girl just based on her skin color.

[Coulis]

I picked not sure but I think yes was a better option.

I found out my exhusband was a totally different ethnicity than I thiught whichbonly made me more intrigued at the time.

[Jamie05rhs]

Generally speaking, yes. Because when you have a certain image in your mind, but it turns out not to be true, that's always going to be a letdown.

But in your case, I think you're cute, so the question is irrelevant.

[artsygirl457]

i wish that was true for people in rural pa to think

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm sure someone does. :)

[JBlade]

Possibly. I may still, at the very least, get to know them a bit to see if we are somewhat compatible.

[DarkWinterNights]

Initially probably, but not a dealbreaker. I’ve never been a big fan of blind online dating so I probably wouldn’t put myself in this position anyway.

[queenkitty7]

You're already attracted to them. Is knowing their race really changing anything? You already like how they look

[Slim57]

No... I was already attracted to them regardless of their race

[magiusX26]

any place that feels that such matters us a place people should not bother to even visit.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

No thank you. Most of them are more animalistic anyways. A certain group don’t even have faces

[Anonymous]

Yes 100%
These days most races have a fetish for another race
And if you're not that race , then chances of them cheating on you are 10 times more than usual

[JustinTimberlegs]

Nope, she's still the same person ☺️

[JennBITx]

Race has never been an issue with me

[888theGreat]

apparently no if you can't tell

[dudeinohio]

Would not matter at all.

[Schizoaffective]

Why would it