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He is not interested in her but don't want to hurt her feelings.
For him it was only infactuation thats why his interest got changed.
Ghosting someone is a part of mind games.
If you don't like someone you should tell them and should leave eachother.
Girls that seem to busy to get back to you, girls that are constantly online but always say they're busy, girls with loads of guy friends, girls with loads of tattoos and piercings, girls that say things like mixed race babies are cute and think black guys are cute/good looking as they're media brainwashed sheep, girls that brag about biggest dick they've had, and people they've fucked and how many, single parents also, All are major red flags and avoid, avoid and avoid! You can do way better as they're just trash
Anyone who ghosts has the human decency and emotional maturity of an ant. It is a cruel, cowardly thing to do.
I'm sorry it happened to you. I've been ghosted too, and it sucks. I don't know why he did it, but try to think of it this way. You dodged a bullet. He did you a favor by showing you his true colors early on rather than wasting years of your life with someone who can't have an adult conversation or be considerate of your feelings.
You aren't wife material. Often its related to sex, you had sex too soon or with too many people to be seen as more than friends with benefits. You could also be very career focused or annoying in some way where you're fun for short periods but not someone he wants to live with and rely on. Alternatively he always wanted casual sex from the jump and you ignored what he said and now he's just fulfilling what he said he wanted. It is surely one of those 3 things.
I am thinking this is after some kind of relationship was established. It could be because the guy wanted to break up but didn’t have the courage to tell you to your face. So he took the easy way out. I have to admit, I have done this before.
I personally dont ghost. I've told women straight up. It hurts. Not proud of it. But feel im a better person as a result.
For a guy to ghost after 6 months, its likely because they moved on with someone else.
I had a girl ghost me after 9 months of dating. To be fair I didn’t see it lasting forever. But I didn’t expect her to do that bullshit. That was 5 years ago. But nowadays you can almost expect ghosting to be a risk. It’s actually more of societal problem that started with female cowardice but now more guys are doing it. It’s fucked up all the way around.
I don’t ghost people either. I broke up with my last ex face to face and had to endure 2 hours of her crying, screaming and going ballistic (actually confirmed I made the right decision). As much as that sucked I know she can look and have a peace of mind that she said everything she wanted to say. It will help her recover quicker.
@backblueblack22 I get ghosted by female friends quite regularly. And im married. Maybe thats why lol
Well serves you right then lol. You shouldn’t be doing side chics man. I don’t know your whole story but c’mon.
@backblueblack22 I said friends, not side chicks... lol.
The only girl I ghosted was my 2nd cousin's friend. She tried to set me up on a date with her friend and left out the fact the girl was a solid 5 inches taller and significantly heavier (I was fat as a kid, no way around saying it, but this girl was obese). I tried being nice but tbh I was embarrassed and didn't know how to let her down kindly, so I just kinda ghosted her but I told my cousin to let her down easy for me.
I just Replied to a Guy on Reddit whose Date, Ghosted him for a Second One, hun. No Balls nor Boobs to Let anyone Know. No Heart. Go back On and Find someone Who is Better. He is Out There. xx
In my experience, girls ghost way more often. I don't like it, and besides one woman (seemed nice, but pissed me off and broke my heart when she implied she only wanted to date guys six feet and taller), I've never ghosted anyone before.
rejection, fear of rejection, boredom, feeling like she doesn't contribute to the conversation enough to be interested, he could be a player/cheater/trash, she may not be his "type", could have work or a busy life, stress, bad internet, or he's not a texter and nobody calls anymore.
I noticed bad behavior or in congruency in what she said, and also Because women get emotional when they dont get their way. Im not a therapist so id rather not deal with an emotional tirade
Disrespect and bad behavior. Some women think they can do whatever they want.
If I feel she is not into me is another reason and only wants attention is a common reason. I know most women want the guy to take charge, but some traits of interest is necessary.
In all honesty if I’m not really into a girl I ghost after I hit. If she becomes a booty call then when I wanna get laid I’ll hit her up and then disappear until I want some again. If we weren’t sexually compatible then I’ll ghost after hitting one time unless nobody else is giving me kitty. Bad sex is better than no sex.
How do you think this is a good way to treat someone?
Your gross... your the example of man I tell my daughter's to RUN from
@Jazquee they’re the ones opening up their legs
Why do women? It's pretty sad that this has become so common, that many consider it "normal". Very immature, selfish and disrespectful. And that's why. These people are 100% self absorbed and don't think of you AT ALL.
That's a long time. Have you reached out to ask him.
Basically people go because they can't reject somebody over text
Because in. my humble opioion they dont want deal with the fallout of the conflict so just walk away.
Women do this all the time. We text back and forth several times a day in between dates and have a couple good dates and by date 3 she's nowhere to be found... They don't care that they wasted a months worth of texting back and forth.
Could be you were just going too slow and he wasn't willing to waste time?
Obviously you weren't as "all good" as you thought.
Because it is a lot easier than having to tell somebody that they do not want to go out with them anymore.
My ex ghosted and moved and got married in the span of like a month. Guess all that working late was a lie lol
For real though, could be a number of things. Too many variables to ever really know.