Girls, would you be disappointed if your boyfriend booked twin beds in a hotel instead of a double bed to share?

[Anonymous]

Yes that’s weird. I’d prefer to share a double bed with my boyfriend

No, that’s fine if he wants that

[Cynicaldreamer]

No, I anything that sounds like he knows me very well! That's a smart boyfriend there!
I'm a cover hog and hate anyone sleeping next to me for long: I get hot easily and don't like people clinging to me for long.

To me, him doing that says he knows me and wants me to be comfortable.

... and before anyone asks, "How are you going to have sex together?"

Assuming we're at that stage of intimacy, we can still make it work; that's not an issue.
Then it's cuddle a bit, go to our respective beds, and sleep~

[SueShe]

As a matter of fact, I would much rather sleep in my own bed than to have to share the space with someone else.

The reason is that I want my space to move around in the bed and not to feel constricted and cornered.

I also don't like the body heat of another person besides me. Finally, when the other person moves or turns around, the mattress is also moving and that is highly disturbing when you want or need a good sleep.

[JuliaStyles]

I don't know where it is a written law that if you have a boyfriend you have to have sex with him all the time, including in a hotel room. If you want to that is fine but booking a double/Queen size bed kind of assumes it. I have a queen size bed because I like to stretch out and roll all over but that doesn't mean I want to have sex on it.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Depends. How long have we been dating and what's our usual sleeping arrangement?

Also, is it cheaper? (Sometimes it is.)

If it were my current partner and temperature wasn't an issue (if it's super hot and there's no A/C I don't mind separate beds for sleeping), I'd be concerned.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Circumstances I'd be ok:
- there were no single bed rooms left
- it was significantly cheaper
- this room had a refundable deposit
- he wanted the option of having two beds
- he's religious and you've not slept together before
- he's inviting another friend on the trip

Maybe I'd be mad:
- he wasn't paying attention when he booked the room

[muscularbumblebee]

If it’s early stages of a relationship or you knew he was pretty religious then yes but if it’s a case where if you always sleep over at each other’s place in separate beds for comfort and it’s been a while since you’ve been together then no he’s just making sure you’re comfortable I guess

[IveGotNoName]

I wouldn't like that at all. When we stay over at each other's places we always share a one person's bed, so I would be worried if he didn't want to share a bed with me at a hotel. I would also think it was weird that we didn't just sit down and book the room together, but that's a whole other thing 😂

[NicoleNatZZ]

If he books it like that he isn't going to fuck me so i would go down to the bar and get it somewhere else

[desidoll]

You know what, I actually prefer that because I would love to have that big space all for myself. We can still have sex but sleep separately in the same room right? Definitely not an issue for me.

[EmmaMary]

I would naturally be a little puzzled and disappointed, but we could always push the two beds together!

[Asker]

It’s nice to have your own space when sleeping?

[EmmaMary]

That's a very good valid point.

[Asker]

I’d go as far as getting 2 separate rooms to be honest. You only need to be in the same room and bed when being intimate. Otherwise it’s nice to have own space.

[EmmaMary]

That's entirely your choice and prerogative, but it might very well not be that of your girlfriend.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

a lot of time there's no single beds left.. you can still share one bed.. its nothing to be disappointed about! Its an amazing night out!

[FictionalCharacter]

No. Cause you got 1 bed to have fun on, while the other one is to rest.

Also, if we are barely dating then that is a respectable gesture.

[LonewolfMeme]

It wouldn’t matter to me as long as we get the room to ourselves. Like we can kiss, make out, have sex or whatever as long as no one is there including potential children.

[somesoul]

I would climb on him anyways how does it matter lol. Will just fuck the shit out of him way too hard

[Alyssa11]

Easy we'll just sleep on the single bed together. :D

[Anonymous]

If he does that without any reasonable explanation. I would think it's his way of telling me low key that he wants to break up soon.

[Aquariusmystery]

I mean I’d be a bit disappointed bc who doesn’t want cuddles? But it could just be the case there were no double rooms left only twin rooms

[Anonymous]

Hhmm. Given that my boyfriend and I are very (physically) close and affectionate, it would certainly be off putting and I would be disappointed.

[TacosRAwesome]

Meh if he feels safer that way. I know I'm violent while sleeping.

[JennieF]

Yeah. When I was dating my husband and guys before him I never wanted twin beds. Always double or even bigger.

[mvpverona]

That shows that he wants to give you space.

[sage2021]

Either way, we would end up in only one bed.

[JustAnj]

Hell no that's pizza money right there!!! 😜

[Azaelia]

No cause I like big space

[Gwenhwyfar]

Depends. In this hypo are we sexually active?

[pleasestopthis]

I'm okay with that

[Anonymous]

very odd...

[Babygirl_S]

Weird.

[FunnyT-girl]

I dont know