Would you marry a short guy?

[Cybermetal93]

Yes

No

I'm a guy

[888theGreat]

yea right , I see women lining up

[Cybermetal93]

I laughed, but the truth is so painfully real

[faeriicloudss]

Hell yeah!
I said it once, I'll say it again.
HEIGHT DOES NOT MATTER. in my opinion at least.
A guy could be everything you have dreamed of and be short, it's no big deal. I understand that some girls have preferences but I really don't think guys should get rejected for being short, it just hurts their feelings and self-confidence. Even if I am short and all guys I've met are taller, to all the short kings out there, I respect you :D

[MelissaMarie9614]

Sure, it just depends how short. I'm short myself, so I guess around my height

[MCheetah]

It's funny how almost half of all the women said no.
FYI, I'm a short dude (< 6') myself.

[MCheetah]

I nominate the Statue of Liberty squad to answer.

@nerdyandtall
@JennieF
@Subarugirl
@Moimaris
@JosyJosy
a_bell
tallandsweet
not_a_twinkie
elliegirl
cindyruns
solstraale
luminair3
saarr

[NerdyAndTall]

Yep, not sure how many more times I need to answer jt

[MCheetah]

@NerdyAndTall
You said "shorter than you" though, and you (for some unknown crazy reason) don't consider those in the 5'10"/5'11" range to be short, even though you're way above that.

In other words, would you date someone who was "short" by your criteria? (And if not, would you look your nose down on her for not being tall enough?)

[LavenderLuna]

Lol it’d be hard to find someone much shorter than me

[Cybermetal93]

How tall are you?

[LavenderLuna]

5’2 which I guess isn’t that short but I’ve never met a guy less than 5’3 lol

[nowama]

I don't want to marry anyone. I'd date a short dude though.

[LonewolfMeme]

I’m 5’1 so I could honestly care less about the height as long as I love them.

[Davidhk]

Why women even care about height at all? It's not so important in my opinion, better to date a person who have a big heart then dating somebody only because he's 1.80m.

[anniisa97]

@Davidhk geez, I dunno. Why do men care about breasts, butt, hips and waist size?

[Davidhk]

Personaly, I don't care about it... In my opinion the personality of the person is more important to me🤷‍♂️

[Cybermetal93]

@anniisa97 As far as I know, there's a whole lot more men that care less about the body traits a woman has than women care about height. Most women wouldn't even go for a guy shorter than them, let alone same height. Seen plenty of guys with women of different breast size, butt size, hip size, waist size, different weights, etc.. How often do you see a woman with a man shorter than her or same height? I'm 5'4 and there are a ton of women my height. Not once have I seen that many or hardly any women my height with a guy that is also the same height. Tons and tons of 5'4 women are with men 5'10+

[Davidhk]

A good example, my father is 1.60m, and my mother is 1.70+-
In addition my father is older in 7 years then my mom so...
Women takes thing too serious sometimes, life is life, if you find your partner attractive, so you don't need to care about other not so important things like heights and such.

[anniisa97]

@cybermetal93 thats just not true. There are plenty of guys that claim they wouldn't be seen dead with a chubby girl. There are plenty of men who have a body type in mind and stick to it. You're just speaking from a biased viewpoint because what men like in women is not your problem since you're not a woman or attracted to men, you're basically favouring your issues over the others because its important to you.

You're not the one that has to rely on beauty. Regardless of how smart a woman is, we still have to look good otherwise those other traits aren't appreciated. This isn't about being a victim to society, its just the way things are. There are still men that would date a big woman and there are still women that would date a short guy, there's plenty of them.

[anniisa97]

Its quite tiring to see the amount of men that put all women together as we all function with one brain, complaining about how women don't want them due to their height. You can see under this question a lot of women do not care. I know so many guys that are short and are in relationships and get women quite often. Its just the same excuse fat women make to put the blame off of themselves, and to form a petty party

[anniisa97]

Pitty*

[Anonymous]

I’m 5’8” so I wouldn’t mind a guy shorter than I am. My boyfriend is 5’9” and we see eye to eye and love each other very much.

[kyleelyn199723]

Depends is that short man worthy of getting married to me?

[Cybermetal93]

Depends on the type of person you are. Just by this question I dont think so.

[kyleelyn199723]

I’ll accept dating a short guy, but it really depends on many other factors including personality, his overall looks, his ability to protect me, etc

[Cybermetal93]

Yeah thats fair enough I guess. What do you have to bring to the table? Don't think women aren't the only one with standards. If you want requirements, expect guys to also have standards from you. We aren't that simple minded to accept every woman just cause she's a woman or she's hot, most guys aren't that stupid. If they think that way then they certainly are.

[Cybermetal93]

*to have standards toward you, worded that wrong

[kyleelyn199723]

And who are you to say I don’t bring anything to the table? Way to jump to conclusions because I have standards like anyone should. My man started dating me because of what I bring to the table

[Cybermetal93]

I'm honestly just curious i'm not trying to assume anything, you want a guy that has a good personality, has good looks, etc.. but do you? Because you can find a guy that's like this, but that doesn't mean he'll like you unless you might possibly be the same.

[kyleelyn199723]

1. I think good looks is subjective , so honestly I can say much as far as looks, that depends person to person. I have an overall good head on my shoulders, I make my own money, I go to school, I am very supportive , I have helped my boyfriend put together his business, recently have helped him with appliances since his roommate won’t help him, I am sexually satisfy him even when I’m not in the mood, I am a friend/a partner and a person to listen to, he can come to me for anything , I do clean and help out around his house. I think I am a good girlfriend 😉 I don’t do drugs, I barely drink, and I don’t smoke cigarettes , I don’t go out and party and I am introverted

[kyleelyn199723]

I sexually satisfy *

[kyleelyn199723]

I also talk to him about hockey more than his friends do and I show overall interest 😉he plays hockey and I’ve probably only missed 1-2 games of him playing season round for a year and a half

[Cybermetal93]

Okay well I mean you have a boyfriend already so this isn't really an issue to you since you found someone that accepts you and vice versa. But usually when people have standards such as "I want a good personality, I want a good looking guy etc..." They usually tend to be the opposite of what they're looking for. I dont really even know you, but I guess based on what you said you seem to be a good person I don't know. I'm obviously not the one to know how you are because we've only conversed for about 15 minutes and I haven't officially met you. But yeah introverted people tend to be chill and good. I'm also introverted and don't do stupid crap either.

[kyleelyn199723]

I don't know why people have a problem with other people that have certain standards 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think having standards is 100% okay , even if you aren’t the best pic out there. I sure as hell know I’m not the most beautiful or overall every guys cup of tea

[Cybermetal93]

I didn't say it was wrong, I'm just saying usually the people that have certain standards tend to be the opposite of what they're looking for. I'll give some examples. Ugly people want good looking people. People with shit personalities want people with good personalities. Fat people want people that aren't fat. People that are poor want someone that is rich. In certain circumstances people want what they don't have, but that doesn't mean that someone that has what they want won't always accept them.

[kyleelyn199723]

I disagree with that one lol. There’s a reason why majority of couples are same level of attraction and usually of the same status, but I can agree that many people go for people above their league look wise. There is not one guy that I couldn’t pull that I went for

[Cybermetal93]

Well i'm not saying this is the case all the time, but in some case its like this. One person wants what they don't have and the other person rejects them because they're looking for someone similar so yeah what you're saying is true. I've never actually seen ugly people with good looking people. I haven't seen poor people with rich people etc... Its more often than not that people want to compensate for what they don't have but it doesn't always work like that. Honestly speaking, do you really think an ugly person would want to be with another ugly person? Or a poor person to be with another poor person? Most likely not.

[kyleelyn199723]

It’s not about if someone wants an ugly person, it’s the reality of who they can pull. Most couples, not all couples are mostly the same level of attractive. Also if poor people didn’t want to be with poor people , you wouldn’t see couples living in welfare and in the projects

[Cybermetal93]

Pull? Unless you're talking about hooking up yeah then pulling matters in that case. But what i'm talking about is a long term relationship. No one is going to really sacrifice their time with someone that they aren't really looking for, thats unfortunately how it works a lot of the time with standards. Like the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, people with similar standards that meet both standards end up together. Often times there isn't a choice if you have a negative trait. I'm pretty sure an ugly or poor person doesn't actually choose to be with another ugly or poor person, it just seems realistic thats what happens because the two similarities create better love and connections.

[kyleelyn199723]

Pulling can be long term relationships as well. It’s who you can get. They might not choose it, but reality hits and that’s who they can get.

[Cybermetal93]

I mean it depends on what the intention is it can go both ways. Pulling to get sex or pulling to get a relationship, people have the intention of just going at it one way or both ways, but I'm pretty sure at this point we both have come to an agreement that people of similarities, status, attraction w/e end up together.

[toohot4evr]

How tall are you by the way

[RaeShirley]

I am a very short girl so he would still be taller then me so I'm good 🤭

[Sugar100]

My boyfriend is short but I’m short too we r same height

[disgustingfather]

Yes, i like short and a little weight guys. I adore guys between 160-169 cm heights.

[toohot4evr]

What's your height

[brittany867]

Uhhh... yeah. I'm 4'11", so almost everyone I know is taller than I am, with the exception of kids that are Elementary school age or younger.

[ClassyMe]

I personally couldn't date anyone below 5'10. I would say 6'0-6'7 would be fine by me.

[Larvonite]

Whats your height

[ClassyMe]

I’m tall enough thank you! Lol jk. I’d say about 5’5-5’6 (on a very good day).

[Larvonite]

Well i am over 5'8 but on that same good day of our date ill be wearing shoes and would be 5'10 right:))

[Iron_Man]

How come Girls don’t like short guys but guys like short girls

[Cybermetal93]

Because women are more picky about height

[Iron_Man]

Right

[River1234]

No, cause i look like a kid in comparison to other girls.

[Cybermetal93]

What does that have anything to do with short men?

[River1234]

Seriously, It's nothing.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

So i guess you will only date someone just to make yourself feel more secure. Now thats "true love" sarcasm.

[_Troian_]

How short you talking about? I heard men below 5.10ft have hard times when it comes to dating.

[LadyMarmaladeee]

Sorry no I like taller men than me to hold me up and carry me.

[toohot4evr]

What's your height

[LadyMarmaladeee]

5’1” tall

[Cybermetal93]

Thus is one of the most cringe things I've ever heard. Are you a baby or an adult? Not once in my life have I ever seen a grown women being "held up and carried" by a guy. That's extremely weird

[LadyMarmaladeee]

Lol, what girl wouldn’t wanna be held by her man and be carry? You should explore more into dating

[Cybermetal93]

A girl that wants to be a baby or child. I've never heard a grown woman say this. A little girl might do you might be right about that

[LadyMarmaladeee]

You’re weird… girls love being piggy back.. lift off under her butt to be hugged… and such. You can think whatever you want 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Cybermetal93]

Yes girls do. Not women that are adults. I think the weird one is you. I've never actually heard this in real life or seen it. Don't be delusional.

[Cybermetal93]

I can't believe you're even 30 and still think this. I've heard this plenty of times from little girls that are 2 - 6 years old that want to be held by their father. So when you have kids do you want your husband to hold you and your daughter at the same time? If you do then I can say for sure you are regressing

[LadyMarmaladeee]

Then don’t ask what you can’t believe, you’re a delusional definite here 😉

[Cybermetal93]

No I can say for sure you are delusional. You're fucking 30 years old and not even married yet. I wonder why... maybe have a mindset of an adult instead of some teenager or kid

[LadyMarmaladeee]

Must be hurting you as you’re getting defensive and douchey ☺️ Look in the mirror and ask why you’re still single 🤢

[Cybermetal93]

I mean idc. You're 3 years older than me and not even married yet, speak for yourself. I can assure you that most adult women do not like being picked up. This isn't really a common thing at all in any way

[LadyMarmaladeee]

Hehe you must be a fool then. Marriage is not mandated to be one’s happiness 😌 I didn’t imply all women, but some of us do. You’re sayin as if no women do. Look at instagrams, it’s all over. Open your mind more and use your tongue wisely, no one likes a douche. Bye Felicia.

[Cybermetal93]

You realize instagram isn't a good representation of the world right? For someone thats 30 years old you should know this. You have the mind of a 13 year old. I guess the reason why you're single is because most guys can't "hold you and pick you up" so it's a dealbreaker or very close to one.

[dray995]

@Cybermetal93
Man, you sound like an idiot!
Is English not your main language?
I understand perfectly what she meant and nothing about it sounds weird. Just try not bring a total douchebag.🤷🏻‍♂️

[dray995]

*not being

[Cybermetal93]

@dray995 did you even read what I wrote? Is English not your first language or are you just a dumb ass? I clearly said most adult women don't like being picked up literally and I have never once heard this nor seen it.

[Pandupillu]

He has to at least an inch taller than me. I am 5'3

[Cherry234]

Yeah if he's my height or taller than I am

[toohot4evr]

How tall are you

[Cherry234]

I'm 5'5

[milkacikolata]

As long as I love, it does not matter to me.

[Sarahr123]

What do you define as short?

[yourbabygirl921]

Nah only tbh i prefer 5'9 above only

[gaguser30]

Im 5 9

[VanillaSalt]

Lmao … what was the point of your comment dude

[IveGotNoName]

How do you define "short"?

[toohot4evr]

A man between 5'3 and 5'7
Then?

[IveGotNoName]

Not sure why I asked 😂 I don't give a damn about a guy's height, many women do though sadly

[toohot4evr]

How tall are you

[IveGotNoName]

I'm 5'8

[toohot4evr]

Wow tall
You ok even with so called short men?

[IveGotNoName]

Yes. Don't see an issue with it. I fall for personality not the length of their bodies which they certainly don't control.

[poneglyphs]

I'm short dude, what's wrong with that?

[Cybermetal93]

So am I, since the dawn of the human species most women have wanted men that were bigger and taller than them. Most short guys usually aren't unfortunately that is if you are usually under like 5'7 probably.

[Subarugirl]

I married a man shorter than me

[AnnaCavallii]

Fuck no!

[SpiderManFan2002]

Yeah.

[Anonymous]

Depend how short? Guy around my height are short

[Opinion Owner]

Guy shorter than me. I don't know I really can't answer

[JosyJosy]

Sure!

[scooogy]

🥰🙈

[Babygirl_S]

No way

[Cybermetal93]

How come?

[Babygirl_S]

I like tall guys.

[toohot4evr]

What's your height

[Babygirl_S]

5'5"

[toohot4evr]

That's not too tall anyway
How tall do you like men?

[SalvatoreCordileone]

I dont date men

[Cybermetal93]

That's why I put an option option "I'm a guy"

[SalvatoreCordileone]

I know, but I wanted to be a smart ass

[zagor]

No, I'm not gay.

[ChocoBat]

Sure dude.