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Either tell your crush that you like him/her and deny to go out with who asked you out OR go out with who likes you and forget your crush
If I was crushing but not committed, I would definitely go out with her.
Cool
If I liked the guy who asked me out I'd go out with them. If I wasn't interested I wouldn't.
“no thank you”
not necessarily because I’m crushing on someone but randomly being asked out is not my thing.
How do you like a guy to ask you out? Only after you’ve already known him for a while? (Actually, it’s interesting you mention that. The scenario I envisioned was a friend group where you like one guy but another friend asks you out.)
I like for it to happen more “naturally”. I have a hard time opening up to someone if they approach me with a direct let’s go out/I like you/Do you want to date me etc.
But if we start off by just talking, being friendly, having fun, getting to know each other and then see if we do have a “deeper connection”. If the spark is there then I think that things will progress more naturally and smoothly. Because the trust is already there.
So to answer your question, I don’t think I like being asked out in general. I shut off when that happens and walls go up instantly.
And in the scenario you mentioned, I would never date any of my friends and they would never date me either lol. We’re pretty tight and our friendship could never go to that level.
I totally agree with you. Except that I have dated my friends once or twice.
that’s cool😊
Depends on how interesting the person asking me out would be.
If nothing is happening with the one you are crushing on you should go out with the one asking, never know what could happen!
I would definitely say not cause I'm crushing on someone else that unfair to that person don't want to set them up for a let down
I would go out with the one that asked me out if I was feeling her. I mean I may be crushing on the other woman. But has she asked me out? No! So why would I put of someone who wants to be with me right now.
If you have interest you go. It's just a date.
What-if's are boring AF, cuz there's no end to it, there's no reality to it.
I would turn them down lol I know what and who I want
Gee, I guess that depends on whether the crush was available. You know, like if JLo was my crush but some hot redhead wanted a piece of me.
It depends on the situation, if my crush likes me back its a hard no, if I haven't asked, then I'll see where things go without labeling it and the same goes for if the crush didn't like me back.
I'd see if I could "crush back" on the one crushing on me, makes things half the work necessary.
Happened to me last night.. turned down a girls invite because she's not the one im crushing on.
Go out with both (one at a time) 😂
Until i see what's best
Id go out with them. feel them out.. see what their are all about.. keep my options
Been there. Accepted the date, had fun but bad decision. Now I'd just turn them down
If my crush wasn't showing interest, I'd move on. Better not to put all your eggs in one basket
This question makes me mad and pissed off cuz it's a reminder that asking someone out always falls on the guy shoulders and likely always will, probably the number one thing I hate about having a penis, guys being expected to court women
Well, men don't (generally) have to worry about childbirth, periods, pap smears, the pink tax, the wage disparity, being raped, being abducted, or your boyfriend "accidentally" putting it in the wrong hole... I think you got the better end of the trade lol
@LindsayR07
These are actually all reasons why it makes more sense for women to initiate. They can be more discerning and Jess likely to be caught off guard by someone acting in bad faith.
Anon this question can apply to men as well. It wasn’t specified to women- just any crush 😊
@VIVANT Viviant, are you saying you are all for it in terms of women making the first move or asking a guy out, being the initiators in starting a relationship?
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, as they say...
I have big heart...
I don't disappoint anyone. Lol.
Love is free love everyone. 💓
not sure. never had occasion to be in that position.
Crushing on someone? Why haven't I asked them out?
Maybe you’re shy?
Crushing on someone else should not inhibit you from accepting a date with someone else. Crushes come and go. If your goal is to find a life partner, then your strategy should be to meet as many possibles as you can before settling. But of course you can't wait forever to settle. The optimal strategy is to estimate how many potential partners you can meet before deciding. Reject the first 37%, then pick the next person better than everyone you've met.
I had several reactions to it.
My most common reaction is give them a chance if I think we are compatible.
T I didn't know I forgot to close old account. They closed the second one for a duplicate.
Please text if you are here.
Hey are you getting notifications for my PMs?
No. Hang on.
Obviously the person u crushing on not feeling u. Move on to who likes you
Oh been there and been on the other side too. It’s awkward but flattering I guess.
be shocked no girl has ever asked me out im to old and to nice
If the person in crushing on doesn't seem interested I'll take them up on their offer
If she wasn't off-putting I would at least go along as a courtesy.
Until you are in a pure dedicated relationship with one person, you should go out with another guy. He might be fun
Hmmm... I guess it would depend on my chances with the first and if the second was at all interesting to me...
Turn down that person and go for the one I want
I don't know. Will have decide depending upon the situation!
I would go out with the one who asked me out
I’d go out with both.
😂😂😂
probably agree to it. A first date is usually a good idea.
They will say that they have someone but deep inside she wish to know if he is rich and give her fairly tail wedding
Hmm would probably say yes and test the waters.
Respectfully trun them down unless i like them.
Depends on the situation.
But probably more inclined to wait for the one I have a crush on.
I understand
👍👍
I'd go out wiyh the other person if I liked them.
Move on what else can you do?
So you would say yes to the other person?
I’d give her chances plus who know the Fantasy isn’t what reality is.
True
Or maybe not that good for you.
Also true
if I like that person too sure, I would say yes
date both of them
I would go Supreme Gentleman
Go out with the person who asked me out.
I would turn the person I’m not crushing on down
Go out with the one who asked.
Usually it will be a no
Go for the love that is close.
I would go out with them. What about you?
I’d still have a crush on that person
Depends on how it is with both of them.
I will go with both...
Or if crush is not responding... a bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush
First I’d say stop crushing me, then ask them out.
Always choose the girl with the biggest tits.
Imma toss my hair and laugh
You have to like who like you
I'm free game!
Sure why not