What would you do if another person asked you out and you said “Yes” but than later they told you it was a joke?

[Anonymous]

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By the way this is a pretty pathetic thing to do to another person and I think anybody who would consider doing this to another person is a loser and should grow some sympathy for other people’s feelings

[Lucy68]

From middle school all the way towards high school I would unfortunately have guys do that towards me a lot (which is probably why my self esteem and confidence was extremely low and i mean it was extremely low back then). Back then I would either run into the restroom at school and cry (which was more humiliating) or wait till i got home and cry. Nowadays i probably wouldn't care to be honest and this is why, if a guy is willing to toy with someone's emotions like that then they're seriously (in my opinion we can all agree to disagree) a pathetic piece of s*** that seriously needs to grow up, cause what goes around comes around cause that's karma

[SweetDumplings]

I would reject them completely and never talk to them again, I would say to them "Stay completely out of my life now, I'm done with you, do not talk to me or even look my way"

[InferiorElegy]

This did happen to me, I was already feeling depressed, girl approaches me for her friend who she told me thought I was cute and wanted to get to know me, my stupid ass forgot for a moment that yes I am an ugly monster with no hope in love and romance, and I go to meet her friend only to be laughed at not just by the 2 of them but pretty much everyone else at the bus stop. That feeling of despair followed by a false hope just to be destroyed like that, I almost walked out into traffic but I had made a vow not to attempt suicide again at least until I turned 35. My life is still shit and I only have 9 months left on my vow.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would be extremely upset and probably would start contemplating revenge but it's unlikely that I would ever actually do something for revenge.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Sounds like some elementary/middle school bullshit. I would tell them to grow up and laugh about it.

[helppls]

wowww... so something similar happened to mee...
my crush told me he liked me over text... but then he said it was just a prank...
he often send me heart emojis and stuff but then it gets awkward and doesn't speak to me...
he says those are his 'crazy' moments...
his words not minee...
he always hearts my texts and stuff as well...

[ohshee]

No they are the joke well you didn't want to go out with them anyway because they just prove to you exactly who they were I would chalk that one up is a win for you it's still bulshit though sorry you had to go through that

[jaykumar123]

You should give him a response that you actually considered him but it's fine, you saved some time and money haha.

Well on a serious note. He shouldn't have done this joke. Not with you, not with anyone.

[Kate090]

He knew I actually liked him, I regret admitting my feelings for him haha. Oh well the trash took itself out. His Instagram is full of instasluts he follows , he’s a hoe anyway. He was with another girl the whole time he was messing with me and I didn’t know that until later. He always just needs a piece of ass and he’s gonna use her and discard her soon anyway. It’s disgusting.

[jaykumar123]

Lol. Cheers you are saved.

[Kate090]

Lol yes!

[ChrisMaster69]

Thank is horrendous and hopefully their friends would cut them from their lives.

playing with someone’s emotions it’s shit and terrible to do.

i have seen it or similar been done and it is just a really nasty thing to do.

[Kate090]

I had a guy toy with my feelings for a while, he would tell me these lies about how he felt about me and then one time we were gonna meet up and he completely ghosted me. Still dealing with the pain to this day.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Kate090 that sucks.

Sorry for you

[Kate090]

Kind of my fault. I kind of knew he was a player and should of not expected more from him

[ChrisMaster69]

@Kate090 while it’s okay knowing someone is a player or how they are, we tend to fool ourselves that this time it will be different, then get burnt

[Kate090]

It’s easy to fall prey to them because they appear to be so sweet and charming. They know how to get you addicted to their hot and cold behavior. I hate guys/girls who do that, it’s cruel but at least now I know what to watch out for and stay away from assholes.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Kate090 yeah watch out for being played early on

[EllaLouisee]

You do not need people like that in your life they are using you for a laugh and your worth more than that

[slatyb]

That’s is childish and cruel. I would tell them that and then have no further contact with them. That’s so nasty that I wouldn’t continue the relationship even if they apologized.

[275153]

I would say, “thank you for showing my your true side so quickly so I wouldn’t waste my time with you.” Then I’d just walk away without waiting for a response.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I'd probably call them the F word, or if I was feeling more polite, say "your loss loser"

[OlderThanILook]

Whichever day that happened on becomes chest day. Pyramid workout. Every set until failure.

[InYourHead]

I'd be like, your loss buddy... and go out with someone else

[IAmMichael]

I would be a little insulted, but really this isn't likely to happen, certainly not at my age.

[Phoenix98]

I’d be disappointed but also kinda pissed that’s not a cool thing to do to someone who likes you.

[donnny2367764]

I'd block and cut them off my life without hesitating. No person like that deserves your attention or friendship

[Jamie05rhs]

That's really f'ed up. I'm sorry that happened to you.

[Anonymous]

I'd say "so was my response". Then never speak to them again.

[PeterSmith1983]

I would think he is a loser and you can do a lot better

[MohammedAhmed12]

I would say nothing tbh i would be embarrassed at that time I don't know what to say

[exitseven]

People can be such assholes.

[XXblack88]

If someone did this, I would stay away from them.