Boyfriend left my food on the floor?

[Anonymous]

and then said i should be happy he opened up the door , to take the delivery

[Tunasub]

Sounds like an internal problem.

Here is what I'm putting together from the collective stupidity.

you are more stupid than I first thought.
I just couldn't imagine the minisquel amount of brain activity there is collectively, yet my fears have been validated. Humans are in a world of shit for the future.

There is no self respect so how do you expect others to respect you..

What you should be asking is " how is my ex boyfriend going to eat with 3 teeth left in his mouth because that asshole left my food on the floor"?

If you have no boundaries just lay down and let him wipe his feel on you before he walks in the house.

Once you realize that it's ok to be alone for a little time things will change. People are afraid to be alone for fear of being lonely. I guarantee that lonely is better that being in a relationship and feeling lonely.

There is no parenting and this is the result of it The collective stupidity that I speak of.
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It's sad because the parents have no idea that they have failed in preparing Thier child or children for the world. It's just sad.

To the asker I mingled your situation in with my rant and instead of focusing it all on you... this.

Read this over and over because there are not that many statements that can be the definition of the truth

[wise5]

Short answer:

Then tell him he knows where the door if he can't clean up after himself.

Long answer:

You need to set boundaries, otherwise this will keep happening and get worse. It's not his house so he shouldn't treat it as such. He also has no respect so that's a red flag right there. If he wants to be a slob now when your dating what's it going to be when you get serious? Is it going to be that he expects you to cook, clean, and care for the children like some 1950's housewife while he goes off to do lord knows what? Set him straight, tell him your not his maid.

[Asker]

No i orderedfood and he left it on the floor to let me pick it up

[wise5]

Are you his maid? If not he can pick it up himself or show himself out the door.

[Asker]

No it was for mr

[wise5]

Let me get this straight.

You ordered food.

Your boyfriend delivered the food?

Your boyfriend opened the door and set your food on the floor for you?

Am I understand this right?

[Asker]

Yesss

[wise5]

There is sort of a pandemic going still on. I know he's your boyfriend but he still had to follow company policy if the delivery place has a no contact policy in place he still has to follow that policy.

Look on the positive side it probably came down to he was trying to be nice and put the food in your house where it would be safer instead of leaving it outside.

[Asker]

No we live together, i ordered food , the delivery guy came, my boyfriend opened the door and left the food on the floor

[wise5]

So, tell him to sleep on the couch tonight if he's going to be inconsiderate to you. He answered to door and got the food from the delivery guy. He could have carried it to you. Though i don't see why you came to the forums to ask why he did that when he's right there with you in the house.

[Asker]

I asked him he said be glad i opened the doot

[Asker]

Door

[kyleelyn199723]

So why are you bringing this to a forum instead of not setting your boyfriend straight about your boundaries of respect?

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you thinking there's a future with this guy?