yes and no. imagine if love & care were currencies... the guy is giving her Dollars. She's giving him pesos. He says, "I gave you $100". She says,"yeah and I gave you 100 pesos" with a straight face. Ignoring that her 100 pesos is only worth $5. Why? Men and women have many biological differences which manifest as different needs/desires. For example, he needs to feel like her protector. He's willing to take a bullet for her. Her version of this is needing to feel like he protected her so being really good at using him as a human shield or expecting him to have a life insurance policy that pays her when he gets killed. I have even seen hardcore "independent" feminists with high paying jobs say... "a man needs to give me things so that I know he loves me." Replace things with "whatever I want" and it means the same thing.
If she's a good mom she can find $100 in her piggy bank for that child tho. Then she can give 1000%.
I'm not hating on women here. Just saying we don't think the same way. Her patience is typically less for certain things to. If a guy was half as emotional as her he'd be "too much trouble". Some guys say... don't bother with women. I say, just be very, very careful who you choose (pick higher quality) and be careful what you give. If "less is more" doesn't work for her then she's not the right one. The "princess" types are the worst.
Yes I am one, though with all that I am also fiesty.
I am a very strong willed person who loves helping and giving. If it makes you smile my heart is filled with warmth best gift I could receive. I am very confident and love debates which is why I'm fiesty. Lol So I can be quiet intimidating. But you ever meet me you'd know in an instant how much love I have to offer.
Since I am all these things I have been taken advantage of and it's been tough trying to stay away from those who do not respect me because they seemed to be good friends until I knew the truth.
I am also a taken heart to a broken soul.
It's a tough thing to be the wife of a damaged man.
I call him beautiful and bring him flowers, give him gifts and surprises small things I think he'd like. I try to make him his favorite meals and buy him the things he loves by saving over time with what little we have.
I love him when I am angry even so and make sure he is well even if I am upset with him. I constantly express my love and how he is the only one. I always show I am thinking of him.
We exist you just need to get to know us first. Some people use to think I looked angry until I spoke. They would call me a cute little teddy bear or see me as a precious thing of cuteness. Lol I'm pretty short so that part doesn't help. 😁
Hope you find what your looking for out there. Keep that chin up. She will need to see that smile of yours. ❤️
@G68o8ibv
There's no need for justification, it's just a question if he has issues they are for him to fix and work on and if I were on fire I would get smart and take care of myself. You can't rely on others overall to be good people or kind or have expectations overall of who people are. So in the end it's not for him or misogynistic people. It's for any curious mind.
They do exist you isn’t seen them because those girls don’t run the show
I’m kind , sweet , studious , I want everyone to be happy , peaceful , no tears and pain in human heart. I haven’t have sex yet! I’m also becoming a doctor. And looking for real love. What is a real love? I don’t know but I want to find someone that makes me feel like I’m home
But what’s the point… in women world the hoe wins. You have to be somehow a bitch to get what you want..
But something I can’t do because it’s not in my nature..
Here I’m in my room feeling sad reminiscing my 20e and my current life because a crush doesn’t send me a reply back! What more can I do ! Kind girls tend to be a little old fashioned however I pushed hard and I contacted the guy it still didn’t work out.
My question is whats the point of being a sweet girl a dream a guy has?
As a women that doesn’t take you anywhere!
So don’t look for that if you don’t mean it you won’t ever like a kind girls accept it ! because she doesn’t raise your penis she raises your heart.. smth a guy don’t want
Exactly! Worse when they say you are not attractive and only come to you after they hoped from different women also, and now your 2nd. These guys are crazy. Been single all my life too. Just trust God for all your needs. And his son Jesus, he is your provider, your spiritual husband. Worry not of these modern men. And put your eyes on our Lord.
@btbc92 😭❤️❤️❤️
They do exist. But you generally will not find them in the mass population of women who are very physically attractive and/or enjoy showing off their bodies.
A hard truth that many, many people don't understand - and don't really want to - is that often times the very best individuals really are those who do not fit the norm in having beautiful looks or very high sex appeal, or even in being the most socially accepted people either. Think about it: if everyone was really the great, wonderful, loving person they all claim to be then no one would ever have a problem finding anyone.
Speaking from experience, women with great looks going for them, getting a lot of attention, displaying their bodies, etc. are generally not going to be the sweet, caring types unless there is a catch to it or unless she's getting something from the other person. Although some of them are genuinely sweet, the majority place much higher value on the fact they are beautiful and can have anybody they want any time they want, which in turn usually causes them to see men as something they don't have to love and can jump around to.
The best individuals are, more often than not, the few. And they are usually going to be in the form of those who are not goddesses. Having said that, can you accept that kind of person?
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I’m loyal only when I am in love with the guy and not if I’m just attracted to him and do not yet know my final decision
Fucking whore.
men have feelings too if you not feeking it just dip
feeling
I think men and women are equal. If a man said this about a woman too i would have said the same thing.
Oh, we exist. We're just hiding from men who we know won't take care of us or appreciate us. The real question is, do you actually want us, or you're just saying that because it's the fantasy you like instead of the reality of us? Always been that person, had to hide myself from those who would come to seek my destruction. Why do you want that kind of woman? What is the purpose? If you're seeking that, and there is no logical reason, there is a reason why you don't have. I just hope and pray you are not that kind of man and is just as what you say you want. We are attracted to those who are similar to ourselves.
they exist. But I've only ever found about 3 in my whole life. And they would never leave a message like this. But I've come to the notion that there are no good people. People have good and bad in them. Your best friend could be friends with your worse enemy... But they are very rare. I don't care about anyone says. Every girl thinks she is one... Like C'mon.
@PoliteSpeaker I know I am one and I know myself. Maybe your speaking about other women who don't know themselves. But I know the real me. I know my childhood self. I know the kind of person I always have been. I gentle, keen, and kind person. Any person who have been bullied, used, abused, traumatised, basically raped through groping by men, threatened to be shot, having people accuse you fo things you never actually done, attempting to get your fired, lying on you, doing evil and wicked things to me and even others, a guy wanting you dead because of his insecure issues, threatened to be put in jail, to be starved to death, And many more. So I don't know who you are mister and the anonymous coward degrading my username. BUT you obviously need help and need a reality check. If they never leave a message like that then they are not as sensitive as I am. I am sensitive. You hate me for me, take it up with God. I am my SELF. And I refuse to be put down and told I am less because I am not like other girls. I am selective now who I desire to show my true you. IF I don't trust you, then no. I will be civil, but you're not getting lovey-dovey from me. Period.
@PoliteSpeaker So one thing you got right. The word of God says there is no one that is good, not one. I don't claim myself to be good. But I know be if i am a sinner or not the good qualities in myself. I have friends and family and people who do see the real me. They never judged me or worried why I am a certain way. At first, they judged me, and were wary like everybody else. UNTIL THEY WITNESSED IT ALL, and they never regretted looking back. They came to me. I didn't beg for my friends. They saw the light in me and we have had a fulfilling relationship for over 2 decades. Many of you can't even have marriages that long. Not even fulfilling friendships. Be mindful of the company you keep. And with your attitude, then no. You're not because you're attacking me for no good reason and you're too self-absorbed. I have changed drastically over the years and God had dealt with me in more ways than one.
We women can no longer be that because you men HATE us and anybody who have darkness in you. You literally despise us. I am a quite person. I bother nobody and because of that I deserve to be beaten up? Because I SPEAK out against things you know is wrong, not to steal, harm others, cheat, etc, I deserved to be threatened with my life? So because i chose to remain a virgin and only have sex after marriage, I deserved to be called a prude, how no man would want you. And YET, so many of you party, drink and do everything and worse you accuse these girls of? Nobody told you to hoe around. Oh, But I'm not sweet because I called you a hoe? No, I suppose you want me to call you a stud for hoping with X amount of women? NEVER would I treat a man like that so how dare you to think sweet and kind people NEVER get angry? Do not Link from Legend of Zelda get angry? Does not Zelda make sure Ganon gets handed to him? Do not good not get angry at the sight of evil? You people are wicked. No, you want to continuously bully me as my oppressors and I refuse to be depressed for the rest of my life or be oppressed by you people. Ever again. nobody, not even a good man would. And just because not everybody is sensitive, that doesn't give you the right to nearly making some of us want to commit suicide all because we are rejected by everyone. NOBODY deserves to feel that way. Not even YOU. So why do it to us? Don't call somebody out when your not prepared to be judged equally.
And by the way I am Chrisian who doesn't have premarital sex either. I dont see what tour accomplushing being so rude and calling everyone out their name except making them run from you. You are not perfect and have bad things you do and are. That is evident just in how nasty you are to people on here. So how can you be running around calling everyone out their name whn they are just asking for help on an answer site? And by the way i have anger issues and am overly sensitive and lash out a lot lately so i know i struggle with the same kind of issue. But this is how you come across. Its like a porcupine. Not the soft little cuddly mouse you think.
You people assume that abput me or anyone who have a stern voice. These men are rude, nasty, disrespectful, curses you for no reason, and think I am just going ti be nice about it? I highly suggest you stop being really biased and after stopped paying attention to what's going on around you. I am very sensitive and I am not going to have myself getting pushed over, walked over, bullied, harassed, threatened, stalked or anything else. Like I tell everybody. If you are concerned about something, you say something. You got a question, you asked. People on this site I don't know the meaning of the word respect, kindness, compassion, Etc. Very few I have found on here in the last nine years parrot you want us over how I come across a certain way, guess what? Your judgmental. And you want to call me that. That says a lot about you as a person. I don't do that to people.
If you say you have Christians, then you would know who the Holy Spirit what kind of person I am. It has nothing to do about me being perfect. If you truly have and say who you are, you would have discernment of these things. I have nothing to do with me having anger issues and I don't just go around having anger issues on everyone. You lack the discernment. You're just here to judge and accuse me of something I don't go around doing area because if you truly had two things of God in you you would understand. You are seeing from a worldly perspective. And I can tell just by your behavior towards me and you don't even know me already, it makes me really question are you really who you say you are. That behavior what you're saying is another reason why I do not hang around a lot of people especially those who call themselves Christian themselves. I know who I am. I don't think I need for you to judge me who the heck I am.
Concer about your walk. Concern about your salvation. So I know why you doing it and calling yourself a question. You're looking for the world's approval. What a God's this. You become a friend of the world, you become an enemy of him. You not no joke. It's one thing to have favor with God and with man. But you better concerned about you having favor with God more than you have a man because man is not going to care. Simply that and here you go just judging the person and you want to talk bad about the user. Firstly that using many years ago was never like that years ago. He had problems, he struggled a lot, but he didn't become that hateful. I am literally shocked at his behavior in the past 8 years. And after his troubling Behavior continue down this path, he at the a while lost my respect.
And no I don't think you actually do. The lot of things in this world spiritually you do not know. Because if you knew you would not talk to me like that actually accuse me of something I don't go around doing. You want to know why you got anger issues also? I'll tell you why? Because you probably been abused and bullied yourself when you was still young and probably still going through it yourself. Now if you'll allow others to disrespect you, that's on you. If you allow others to curse you out, that's on you. If you allow others to degrade you, that's on you, if you will allow others to judge you the way you judge me and you have no logical or rational basis to us that, that's on you. If you're choosing to judge others so you can try to fit in and say you're this and that person but meanwhile through your actions you somewhat differently and I can sense that about people, that's on you. You're saying what you're saying and you don't even know half of the stuff you're saying so that I can tell you not only are just here to just say something you like the wisdom and the knowledge of anything. Even prophets got stolen in the Bible just for speaking up. Even John the Baptist had his head cut off for speaking out against sin. A lot of you people that's calling yourself Believers or Christians have no idea how much serious trouble we are with the Lord. When I came on this site, nobody liked it me anyway because I spoke out against sin. You know what I realize a lot of lukewarm Christians don't do? Acting like the world. Doing like the world, don't want to see themselves. God knows who is who and I got one thing to say for someone like you. He is not mocked.
Why don't you tell that to Ezekiel. Why don't you tell that to Isaiah. Why don't you tell that to Moses. Why don't you tell that to Debra. Why don't you tell that to Ruth. Why don't you tell that to Esther. How about you tell that to Abraham. How about you tell that to Joseph. Tell that to Isaac, and Jacob. Tell that to the Samaritans who paved the way for Jesus to come! Tell that to the children of Israel who made it out of their way from Egypt and by the grace of God through Moses he have told Pharaoh let my people go! I have another question for you. Do you think it's worth being a believer in Christ? Is it worth it? How badly do you want it? How badly do you desire to be truly born again?
Yeah ok. So go hang out with yourself then and judge everyone and make no friends. Why bother posting on here anyway if everyone is wrong and you are the god that grts to judge everyone and put them in their place? I dont like you and neither do the misogynists. Its not just the world. Its other Christians like myself. But i doubt you are Christian either. So stop being a nasty woman. In the name of religion and making Christianity look bad. Nobody wants to be around you on here. So who exactly are you bringing to God with your nasty attitude? When I was saved I was not brought to God by nasty people who were insulting me and calling me out my name thats for sure. You are a ridiculous person who types rude judgmental essays to everyone and cannot listen to anyone. You think you are a gift tothis site. You are more like cancer.
You people ask for blessings, you people ask for spiritual gift things, you people ask for things you don't even have a desire to put the work for.
I know you don't like me I think God that finally came out. That tells me you are not truly a believer, that tells me you're not who you really said you are, that tells me you're putting in your own problems against me, and that means you got to really look at yourself. Plus the speck out of your car before you want to plug the spec of someone else's eye. You are not able to stand sound judgment. You taking offense, you don't like what I got to say, and like I said but somebody who's claiming herself to be a Christian and is Hulu claiming yourself to be you would know I got more than enough friends and I've been having friends for decades and they have no issues with me. But it's crazy how I go to any place all of a sudden you don't like me when I go where though. I don't think I'm gone. I'm not going to act like I'm gone. But thank God God uses me to speak if I am willing to speak. The rest of you don't want to do it and then you go ahead and you try to hinder the Holy Spirit from moving to people but you're expecting there to be a movement in the church
In firstly I'm not religious, I have a spiritual relationship with the Lord most high God alpha and omega beginning and the end the god of Abraham Isaac and Jacob. And you can take that rejection spirit and go out, I rebuke you in the name of Jesus!
Every curse, every defiling thing, returns back to sender. Everything you do is Bill that you want to chill with me up, you will feel about yourself what a truly in your heart what you don't have what you're jealous and envious that you so desire and don't even want for yourself.
No weapon formed against me shall prosper, and any judgment rise up against me I condemn.
@btbc92
you don't need to waste your breath on bitter, sad, angry men like @ManHater.
I have come to realize that 75% of men on this website have something against women. A lot of these men are bitter because they can't get a woman in real life so they come on GAG to trash talk the entire female gender on here. A lot of these men are society's undesirables.
@aliali8
You're right about that. But one thing you got to understand. If we don't try to reach out to them, then they're going to think nobody wants to reach out to them. I find it very unfortunate. And like I told her all the one there, he was never like this. And when you think about it a lot of people feel better about each other and their own sex. Everybody on this site have problems. That doesn't mean we have to exclude the person. This website as a whole is flat-out toxic. The thing is, it would be able to have a conversation, and able to come to a mutual understanding of each other, then we accomplished something a lot more than just shooting missiles at each other every day and that is just an analogy. I seen a lot of young people be doing the exact same thing with glasses they male or female and I try to see it from everybody's point of view before I even decide to make the decision in saying anything. I don't have to do with everybody stance, but it shows that there's a disconnect somewhere.
@btbc92
You need to understand that nothing you say to these Pathetic bitter sad angry losers will ever improve their shitty state.
There is a reason why they are so bitter and hateful towards women. It’s because they are societies undesirables. No woman wants him at all. Preaching to these undesirables will not change a thing.
I know you have been on GAG for a long time so I am sure you are aware of how much bullying That women go through on here. Do you really think such sad pathetic assholes deserve mercy and compassion?
I don't feelsorry for btbc92 NOR the woman haters. They are people who likely would not spit on you if you were on fire. They don't respect anyone but their own self importance. Its all about them and what they want. In btbc case she wants to be seen as some moral martyr saving us all by judging us with her nasty attitude and going on long rants. Who talks the most is not who wins. Someone tell her that. But it makes her feel good to talk and not listen.
I don't know who you are. Mister from Sri Lanka or whatever the hell you come from. I don't know what you want, or what you are looking for. But I remember you over a year ago stalking me on this site trying to get my name and personal information mister I don't want to go to the counselors because they told you you're mentally ill. Somebody who's so called trying to date me on this site and trying to get my information illegally.
You created with 50 accounts and you are still harassing and stalking me. Everyone on GaG. WATCH your accounts! This user is unstable and have been accused of rule breaking in the past. Another user have been notoriously stalked by this perdon and forced her to created another account.
Any user with strange username combinations, brand new to the site, no questions or opinions, or mysteriously just have mpre opinion and Xper ranking than normal is a sign and a red flag. Keep your account on private, do NOT give out your personal information. If they ask of your name, or email do not disclose it. Contact the mod and or have that account reported to the admin team. 99.9% guarantee they are the same user they are not different people.
@aliali8
If you have a desperate time understanding my post all you got to do is communicate with me and ask me. You choosing to judge me and call me a desperate aggressive fanatic says a lot about you. You judging me for my so called terrible grammer tells me a lot about you. So you are going to be in the same boat. That person you're talking to is a stalker that's been targeting me for over a year. So I'm going to give you a fair warning. If you don't like something keep your opinions to yourself. I don't care what your purse opinions are of me. But if you're going to cause more problems for other people on this site including myself and dangerous others because you wouldn't choose to feed into it. Then you're going to get blocked as well.
Because you choose to feed into it*
Plenty of posts over the years that you said that is not so kindly, disturbing, and questionable. You don't know me as a person, you don't know me as an individual, I highly suggest you keep those opinions to yourself. You don't know what the hell I've been through, and when you've been stocked on here especially for over a year and you haven't people doing stuff like that sowing Discord and Division because they got an Vendetta against me and I know a good few uses on here that's doing it behind the corners adult places on this site too so please do not call me aggressive and desperate when I know more than enough users who got eyes and ears and they're telling me in private what the heck you people do. Some even gave names. So I know there are plenty of people plotting against me and trying to run me off this site simply because of jealousy and envy alone. I pay very close attention. And if I find out you're one of those people you're going to be blocked indefinitely.
@btbc92 You are a smart woman.
There are some, but truly not very many now. The problem is that women think they are sweet, kind, loving and generous but they really aren't.
@btbc92 is a great example of that. Her response to your question here clearly indicates she thinks she has those qualities, but day after day here on GAG, her response and comments show she is the polar opposite of those things.
I know so many other women who are the same. They think they are better than they are, but the reality is very different. And it is the reality we men have to live with after all.
Very well said! Good that someone called her out on it. I've seen many comments of her's and engaged with her in the past as well as spoken to people who had engaged with her aswel. She shows obvious signs of being a sociopath and a learning disability. Not to forget to mention she throws hate at anyone who has it better than she does (i. e. having a loving relationship). Hence why at the age of 29, no man has bothered to put a ring on her finger. But as everyone can see in her comments, she shoves the blame to men instead of looking in the mirror and asking herself why she is so undesirable.
She portrays herself as "caring" while she is indeed the complete opposite. I hope men continue to stay away from women like her.
@TruthBringer Yeah, she is the classic bitter old hag. She's a single 29 year old virgin who has clearly become increasingly bitter that she has squandered her life and no man has given her the time of day. Her hatred of men shines though in almost everything she posts. Yet she sees herself as a kind , loving and generous woman. She's a classic example of the fact that someone who has gone 'round the bend is the last one to know it.
Oh it all depends on how you treat us.
I'm done with being an innocent, caring fool who will choose below average guys in terms of looks, finances and their nature. I'm as loving as a fairy.
But once I sense them betraying me, doing anything that breaks my trust, I'll become a lion and rip them apart. I'll insult them, cuss at them, mock at them, make them beg and then leave them. My exes have failed to replace me because I'm all in one. Beautiful, honest, loyal, loving and ambitious. So their loss. Now they eventually bother me but I ignore them. It was my past stupid version who choose low standard incels. Now no more.
You sound very toxic.
Honest, caring men exist. We just prefer a submissive woman. Not because we're controlling because it's genuinely feminine and attractive. Sheesh you think it's just about sex? Not for quality men. Also quality men don't care about your degree or your income. We care about the person behind the pretty face. >.>
@azura_88 that's fine but your pool is going to be more limited for long term relationships with a man. Doesn't mean they don't exist but it does mean you WILL be stuck with a beta male. And if that's the case you'll generally want to be searching for them in the computer and video game sections of a department store if you get my meaning. And I'm sure a lot of mommy boys would LOVE to wife you up. But in general the athletic types and hard physical working men don't like those traits in a woman, generally speaking. Again not saying it won't happen if thats what you are after but it's going to be a long road to finding those guys unless you are knockout gorgeous.
@azura_88 well maybe I'm misunderstanding you but the way you were talking it sounded like you wanted to control him and kind of remove his autonomy to some extent. Why else would you want a submissive man? That's generally the traits you find in them. If they are submissive it means they can't lead. How do such men adequately protect you in things like life or death decisions and altercations?
Yeah of course they do lol... there are 7.9 billion people on this earth. Almost 50% of those people being females, so logically the answer would be yes lmao. And sweet caring traits are not only present in women... there are men who are also how you described. It's trial and error but at some point you'll find a person, maybe even a group of people who are caring and loyal to you. Humans are hardwired to empathize, so this is kind of a no brainer question. There are caring and loving people all around us, it's just a question of whether or not they present that side of themselves to you.
This is just experiences talking. Every woman i know has cheated, I'm not saying every woman does.
Every girlfriend and wife i have had, my mother, sisters, every friend and friends girlfriends. We are talking over a hundred women and girls. Just in my small corner of existence.
I am sure there are others that wouldn't intentionally hurt the guys they love.
So yes, to answer your question.
Even with all of my past experiences and current knowledge about the percentage of women who hurt their guys. I still believe there are a staggering number of women out there that are loyal.
And of course, every woman i have gotten to know can be loving, kind, generous and sweet. They are not traits exclusive to loyalty.
I was curious and read all the girl answers. So many negative bad attitude responses... geez. A lot of them are women that still can't fully get over a guy or guys they were with. Many excuses too.
I've never let anyone in my life change my personality or permanently "damage" me. Dwelling from 1 woman when there's a billion other women out there is unnecessary. You have to be the stronger person, move on, accept it.
There's definitely sweet women out there. Being naturally kind and sweet is a certain kind of personality that not all people have. I've known and know a lot of sweet women. I've unfortunately met some women that were the complete opposite lol.
They never did son. You've been fed a complete line of bullshit from every woman you've ever encountered in your life. The sad and bitter truth of it all.
If you want to learn more about what makes women tick, why they do what they do, what drives them and their decisions, go here and read at least the first two years' blogs by Rollo: www.therationalmale.com
No, eventually they will all break your heart. It's built in. It is ALWAYS and ALL about the FEELZ. And those feelings are subject to change at any given moment - it's their god-given right to do so. JUST ASK THEM!!
Oh for sure.
The trick is showing up in such a way that makes us feel safe enough to let our shell down and show that sweet and caring nature.
It is a valuable trait, and one that can lead to being taken advantage of. Most of us have learned to "hide" or "save" that part of us for those who truly love and reciprocate.
So if you haven't seen it, maybe it's time to analyse what you're doing.
Yes. I'm the proof lol. I am all these things. I am not manipulative. Nor am I mean (on purpose). I do tell the truth. I am loyal. I could be insecure though. And that influences what I think and do. Sometimes I could be nervous or speak quietly cuz I'm tired or stressed. Sometimes I DO say things out of turn. I'm sure in a relationship, those things will come out, but not too often. I'm looking for the one I could spend the rest of my life loving, not fighting.
you sound awesome sara sometimes i could be nervous or speak quierly cuz i'm tired or stressed too. how was ur day?
@crazysassypaws21 hey. My day was good. How about yours?
was pretty good watch this funny movie about ghost teams can't tell yet if it go really be funny or a let down lol u sound nice sara
@crazysassypaws21 thanks. You too
ur welcome so what on ur mind tonight
@crazysassypaws21 lol. Are we really having a convo on somebody's question? You can PM me
will yes i was go pull a batman move and chat on this poor soul page but i pm u
ur go have to follow me back befor it let me message u back sorry crazy app
i'm sorry it go make me wait until u messages pm but i hope u do bc i get a feeling we could have a awesome chat
hi sara i try but it said u alone get messages from people ur following so i hope u follow me so we can keep have convos u sound pretty awesome
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@crazysassypaws21 just did
@crazysassypaws21 I didn't even know there was privacy settings like that. But that's cool 😎
ikr I don't know to sorry my odd make me something resay the same thing a lot sorry
sometimes* i sent u a message dont feel bad I don't know that was a thing too
@na2398 I think communication is key in a relationship. My mom married someone who she has no communication with and it really shows how important communication is. Yes. I like emotional guys. They're very sweet (when they show good, heartfelt emotions) and I feel I can relate to them more.
im sorry about be emotion yet day been work 13 hours shift pretty much the graveyard shift and start get to me yet day but just want say im sorry and sorry for bugging u
@na2398 Ah. No thanks. But it was nice meeting you. 🙂
Girls nowadays only seem to care about social media, onlyfans, an easy way out, which dick is bigger, sex with hot guys, flings, tattoos, drugs, partying and booze. Yet guys get shit on about how guys aren’t “men”. To girls out there who behave like that even in their 30s you aren’t women you are merely a woman trapped in a girls mind, time to grow the fuck up. Sorry if that sounds rude. It’s one thing to wear a cute dress outside to feel sexy. But to do drugs, get tattoos, party and drink are major turn offs.
It depends if you mean sweet caring girls who are STILL SINGLE or not. I know plenty of good women on this site (JosyJosy, Passion_Devil, Pink_and_inlove, NerdyAndTall) who are not single, or not hetero.
But sweet caring good woman who are SINGLE? Nah. Not a single one.
FAR AND FEW. They are out there but it takes A LOT of searching to find them. In my personal experience, there are more into head games, deceit and just plain out to get what they can and HOW MUCH than being considerate. But yes though, they ARE out there. The best way to find them is through reference; being fixed up by a friend or relative.
Yes. Its called growing some balls. You will get rejected. You will overcome. Thats how we gain experience at anything in life. It will shape you and mold you. But you keep trying because you realize giving up is for losers. And at some point you'll meet a woman who captures you and you capture her.
This is a manipulative question. You probably want a sweet girl to control & manipulative. At one point everyone was sweet until there was no choice but to not be. I always say, sweet girls get turned into a b***, they never were. And then people wonder why they're such a b***, well duh cause they were sweet enough until they couldn't & people took advantage of that
Would you say the same thing about women asking questions like "Where did the good men go?" or when they say that they want a "sweet and nice guy"? So guys wanting a sweet girl makes them "manipulative" but the other side doesn't? Women complain about asshole men all the time, but your very logic applies to men aswel. That is that good men are turned into "assholes" or "bad boys" because of women (which is very often the case). So in the end, it goes both ways. Try not to show some doublestandards next time.
@TruthBringer agree that what I was trying to say
@G68o8ibv "misogynistic trolls". If there is one thing I've learned from those who throw terms like "misogynist" around, is that they themselves often happen to be misandrists or at the very least have misandristic tendencies. But by all means, keep projecting the very thing you are onto men. All because they happen to challenge a view and stick up for themselves. Misandrism at its finest lmfao
Yes they do , but they are not much attractive as per social standards. Most attractive girls with much option are highly entitled. As a lot of men are simping for her.
But those sweet caring girls also want attractive , outspoken men. In dating women generally have most advantage , they can choose almost any guy they want. But men cannot , either he has to take what he can get or have to simp for someone which he can't get. During my school and college days I have always seen , shy kind women are running for players , they got them , got cheated on too but still wanted them. Whether shy , kind , less spoken men stayed single in high school , college.
The younger ones have mostly been ruined by the internet, feminist drivel, lgtbq, me too, the socialist party of America ( democraps) the older ones are so jaded and guarded from being mistreated by complete assholes that they will never open their heart to another guy ever.
What I mean is that they should go for the guys they like, because statistically speaking and by definition, the players are the ones you are most likely to meet. Because they go after girls one after the other, so they will approach/text 10 girls in one month, while the average 'normal' guy maybe 1. Say that 10% of men are playboys, for each guy approaching a woman 1 each 2 is a playboy, if a woman approaches a random guy, 9 / 10 are 'normal'.
@Subarugirl yup, probably!
Oh they exist all right, but they often have their own problems. Being naive, non sexual, work a lot, take your pick. People are going to have to change to be effective parents! And I can't stress that enough, if you are not wanting to be a parent you might as well just fuck around or be celibate. Relationships are for producing and raising children not helping you with your rent!
They do. I got one. It's just usually those girls don't care about spotlight, it's hard to meet them because they don't post their butts on social medias or don't go clubbing... not saying all party and social girls aren't any good, it's just most of them care about nothing but themselves. xD
I have a wonderful girlfriend who is very sweet and caring. She is however rare in today's (western) society. That's why I made sure to reel her in as fast as possible. Years have passed and our relationship is growing stronger and stronger.
Most women (and men) that I know are self-absorbed and self-centered and can't see beyond their own nose unless they want something from you. It seems to me that if they want something from you they will be sweet and caring.
Most girls I've met, dated or even was just friends with were sweet and caring, of course there are some toxic ones but that's not the majority. It also depends on your environment, if the area you live at is full of toxic people the chances are that most women are going to be toxic too.
Yes we exist. Stop talking like an incel. And as long as you don't pit younger women against older women, you'll have nothing to worry about.
@ManHater I don't understand incel language ma'am.
@ManHater This is coming from a person who's gender is known for not washing their buttholes correctly🤣🤣
Yeah they always play victim
@ElvenMr incel is not really a good insult. Being celibate when you are unwed is a good thing. So in that sense it doesn't make any sense and its a failed attempt at an insult. But if she means that he's a misogynist which i think is what incel is referring to deep down then it is what it is. If you hate women, she's just calling it.
@G68o8ibv I just don't believe these trolls are choosing to be celibate. Highly doubt it. The exceptions are the ones with religious reasons. The ones who talk like him are bitter they can't get the girls they actually want. So they attack whenever a girl says something they don't agree with.
I think misogynists wouldn't pee on us if we were on fire. But yeah they would love to use and abuse us like charismatic sociopathic charming handsome and/or wealthy men get to do to many women.
But all men who abuse us hate us. With these nutcases they are just more verbal about it. We are less than dirt to them all though.
The fake nice men are too busy being phony and flattering our egos to wring us of all we are worth to be ranting about how we are shit beneath their shoes but their actions show it. But these idiots online have plenty of time to articulate their hateful feelings and no shame to boot.
The actual good men are rare.
I believe they do exist, and are very valuable! My take on it is that they are a rare find! My late wife was one. In the 2-1/2 years since she passed, I observed how valuable that quality was in my life! I've seen too much of the opposite out there on the dating sites.
OMG, I laughed hysterically when I read the comment from @btbc92, acting as if she is a sweet caring girl. LMAO! She is like the most dark hearted, bitterly misandrist woman on this site. Sorry, that was just too comical to ignore. To answer your question, yes sweet caring girls do exist. They are just getting increasingly difficult to find. If you can find one who ACTUALLY IS a sweet, caring girl, treat her like gold, because she is a rare and valuable find indeed.
If they exist then where is one
@IcedLemonade Thanks for chiming in, Captain Obvious.
And on a related note, water is wet.
They dont exist
@IcedLemonade Sorry, I misread your comment. My bad.
They do exist because I know a few. They are just rare and difficult to find. Good luck.
I've met them. they're flexible. They're morally flexible. Study the fact that french women converted to nazism shortly after the nazi victory. And then to capitalism when the americans took over. There's no such thing as a fighting, principled woman.
Or sweet and caring. One that cares. One that's sweet. The only sweet ness in them is their readiness to suck a new cock
Yes, I'm one of them. I'd never try to break a guys heart. I'd reverse that question and ask.
"Are there guys out there who want to be with a girl for her who she is and not just for what's between our legs or under our blouse."
Ohh yes definitely, they still exist... I am one of them, but it hurts to see that guys think i might break their heart so they don't give it a shot with me.
Just treat him good and show him you care. if he's upset sit down and tell him to let it out. all guys really want is a woman who cares :). be there for him if you like him and show him he's allowed to be vulnerable around you. I'm sure at least one guy will open up to you
Thank youuu this means a lot
Awwww thank youuu
@na2398 dont fall for it. she's the same blackwidow thats using fantasies of a good woman to seduce you
@na2398 look at yourself simping. Thats how Im sure you're a to-be victim
Yes, but that doesn't mean, that they aren't already taken.
Have you checked YOUR friendzone? That is where men that fit the description usually are.
You also describe an introvert, and those aren't usually out in the wild. Try your local book store, where my now-wife hung out pretty often.
Unfortunately. Doesn't mean much though when people take advantage of it, and or you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you. I can't seem to help caring.
u They do and I think they are many. They're just drowned out by the few stupid narcissistic loudmouths who are obsessed with the false notions of women being oppressed and needing to be sexually liberated snobs.
I'm assertive around others, but i turn sweet, caring and submissive around the man I love. When I'm just dating a guy and vetting him - no reason for me to lovey-dovey if I'm not in love with him yet.
It's a give and take. Women become vulnerable around men who prove their worth, not men who can't take care and protect them properly.
No... we are all vampy black widows that lure all of you specimens in just to turn around right as your falling in love and turn you into prey!
Exactly
Best response ever.
@Tstrbrainer misogynist detected
@Tstrbrainer at least you admit it. Lowlife scum.
I'm a proud misogynist, not a pathetic person who can't accept truth lol😂
They never existed in the first place. Like unicorns. Women are great chameleons and can fake caring and love until they get the ring on their finger and are guaranteed a lifetime annuity. Modern skanks don't even pretend anymore. And too many pussy thirsty simps are willing to wife them up anyway.
I see guys constantly being manipulated by fake kindness from a woman
I am. I date one guy at a time, and my inbox is not full of guys romancing me because I would not allow it.
I think is easier to break my heart than the other way around.
Yes they do but they are hard to find. I think because they aren't found in places we expect them to be. I haven't found any yet but some of my friends have... I think.
Yes they do exist. I'm not proud over myself but I have this female friend who is really sweet and scolds me like mom when I do something stupid lol.
I am but i'm just gonna do me. Just be yourself because at the end of the day these men are douchebags and they don't know what they want. Because if a man really wants you he will pursue you so dont waste your time with a man unless he he serious about you.
As long as guys still be royal and sweet so where’s the sweet / caring gonna go? Myself used to be really sweet and caring then guys cheated on me after that I have really cold heart even he gonna cry in front of me I’m still laughing
You're a little girls
This question is such baloney you should like that one guy... whats his name? the one who thought his soulmate was a 2D ghost girl from Danny Phantom and then thought HE was a 2D ghost girl from Danny Phantom.
anyways the answer to your question is probably... I don't know idc i just want a girlfriend so i can know what all this babbling is about and if this relationship shit is really worth it.
My girlfriend is one of them. Sweetest girl that gives her all and is my biggest support pillar I have.
I'm loyal to people and I've never broken anyone's heart. People tell me that I'm too kind and that I need to put my needs before others.
The way the world it today makes it incredibly hard to stay that way.
i believe they do just like us sweet caring guys still out there we just not find each other yet, but it happen can't give it crazy but sooner or later the right people for each other will meet each other
Some of the male responses are really sad. I hope they all find a kind and caring girlfriend!
well i get told im sweet and caring
but thats subjective (●´ω｀●) ゞ
Yes but generally ignored and looked over for the women who make themselves heard
What exactly do you mean by that?
Sweet caring girls, women or people in general are usually quiet and reserved so don't stand out and don't catch the attention of others quite as easily as the more outgoing and noticeable girls, women or people do.
Don't know, but you'd probably have to pan through a load of dross to find one!
Where you find a girl, a sweet 🧁🎂, caring 🤗, girl exist, waiting for the opportunity to say hello💃!
They never existed dude.. it was always just an illusion.
In my experience, no, women who are sweet and caring do not exist.
Calculating and predatory would be more accurate, in many cases.
Yeah, they do.
They are just obscured by the transgender ones, outvoiced by the angry, abused by the nasty and generally get a hard time living with all of it. Or are in a really good place (tell me where so I can move there!)
Yes there are still sweet caring girls.
I found that special someone in my wife
My girlfriend certainly meets the definition, so yes. You just have to find them
Yes they do still exist... but the real question is Do they exist in men still?
Wow you got users such as @btbc92 trying to convince people they are "sweet and caring" while after checking out her activity (the way she talks to people), she contradicts herself massively. Lady, you have issues. Quit projecting your problems on other people on this website. Instead of blaming men for the fact you're single, why don't you look in the mirror. There lies the problem and the answer to why no man has put a ring on your finger. Do us all a favor and piss off.
we do exist but we aren't always in the model packing most guys want
yes they do but they already hiding away or change into a bad ass because of how many times they got hurt by boys
i wouldn’t if i got paid $10 an hour to be in love with u
How much for a week slut?
No and they never did. We were all only acting that way😘 but nice guys are also acting nice until u tell him I won’t give it up
Exactly
Dont justify your existence to these idiot misogynists who wouldn't give you a piss if you were on fire but ve the gall to ask you to explain yourself to them by asking stupid selfish effeminate questions like Do caring girls still exist.
To btbc92 who i can't reply to anymore
Lol is this person still ranting at me? Please leave me alone. I would love to know wbo here will come forward and claim you helped them and are their friend. Because as of yet i see that you are someone who rants at people calls everyone out their name and then when anyone has anything to say to or about you, you claim blamelessness and like you are a wounded martyr whos on here to gift everyone with your wisdom. Get a grip. Nobody respects you.
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