yes and no. imagine if love & care were currencies... the guy is giving her Dollars. She's giving him pesos. He says, "I gave you $100". She says,"yeah and I gave you 100 pesos" with a straight face. Ignoring that her 100 pesos is only worth $5. Why? Men and women have many biological differences which manifest as different needs/desires. For example, he needs to feel like her protector. He's willing to take a bullet for her. Her version of this is needing to feel like he protected her so being really good at using him as a human shield or expecting him to have a life insurance policy that pays her when he gets killed. I have even seen hardcore "independent" feminists with high paying jobs say... "a man needs to give me things so that I know he loves me." Replace things with "whatever I want" and it means the same thing.
If she's a good mom she can find $100 in her piggy bank for that child tho. Then she can give 1000%.
I'm not hating on women here. Just saying we don't think the same way. Her patience is typically less for certain things to. If a guy was half as emotional as her he'd be "too much trouble". Some guys say... don't bother with women. I say, just be very, very careful who you choose (pick higher quality) and be careful what you give. If "less is more" doesn't work for her then she's not the right one. The "princess" types are the worst.
Yes I am one, though with all that I am also fiesty.
I am a very strong willed person who loves helping and giving. If it makes you smile my heart is filled with warmth best gift I could receive. I am very confident and love debates which is why I'm fiesty. Lol So I can be quiet intimidating. But you ever meet me you'd know in an instant how much love I have to offer.
Since I am all these things I have been taken advantage of and it's been tough trying to stay away from those who do not respect me because they seemed to be good friends until I knew the truth.
I am also a taken heart to a broken soul.
It's a tough thing to be the wife of a damaged man.
I call him beautiful and bring him flowers, give him gifts and surprises small things I think he'd like. I try to make him his favorite meals and buy him the things he loves by saving over time with what little we have.
I love him when I am angry even so and make sure he is well even if I am upset with him. I constantly express my love and how he is the only one. I always show I am thinking of him.
We exist you just need to get to know us first. Some people use to think I looked angry until I spoke. They would call me a cute little teddy bear or see me as a precious thing of cuteness. Lol I'm pretty short so that part doesn't help. 😁
Hope you find what your looking for out there. Keep that chin up. She will need to see that smile of yours. ❤️
They do exist you isn’t seen them because those girls don’t run the show
I’m kind , sweet , studious , I want everyone to be happy , peaceful , no tears and pain in human heart. I haven’t have sex yet! I’m also becoming a doctor. And looking for real love. What is a real love? I don’t know but I want to find someone that makes me feel like I’m home
But what’s the point… in women world the hoe wins. You have to be somehow a bitch to get what you want..
But something I can’t do because it’s not in my nature..
Here I’m in my room feeling sad reminiscing my 20e and my current life because a crush doesn’t send me a reply back! What more can I do ! Kind girls tend to be a little old fashioned however I pushed hard and I contacted the guy it still didn’t work out.
My question is whats the point of being a sweet girl a dream a guy has?
As a women that doesn’t take you anywhere!
So don’t look for that if you don’t mean it you won’t ever like a kind girls accept it ! because she doesn’t raise your penis she raises your heart.. smth a guy don’t want
They do exist. But you generally will not find them in the mass population of women who are very physically attractive and/or enjoy showing off their bodies.
A hard truth that many, many people don't understand - and don't really want to - is that often times the very best individuals really are those who do not fit the norm in having beautiful looks or very high sex appeal, or even in being the most socially accepted people either. Think about it: if everyone was really the great, wonderful, loving person they all claim to be then no one would ever have a problem finding anyone.
Speaking from experience, women with great looks going for them, getting a lot of attention, displaying their bodies, etc. are generally not going to be the sweet, caring types unless there is a catch to it or unless she's getting something from the other person. Although some of them are genuinely sweet, the majority place much higher value on the fact they are beautiful and can have anybody they want any time they want, which in turn usually causes them to see men as something they don't have to love and can jump around to.
The best individuals are, more often than not, the few. And they are usually going to be in the form of those who are not goddesses. Having said that, can you accept that kind of person?
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I’m loyal only when I am in love with the guy and not if I’m just attracted to him and do not yet know my final decision
Oh, we exist. We're just hiding from men who we know won't take care of us or appreciate us. The real question is, do you actually want us, or you're just saying that because it's the fantasy you like instead of the reality of us? Always been that person, had to hide myself from those who would come to seek my destruction. Why do you want that kind of woman? What is the purpose? If you're seeking that, and there is no logical reason, there is a reason why you don't have. I just hope and pray you are not that kind of man and is just as what you say you want. We are attracted to those who are similar to ourselves.
There are some, but truly not very many now. The problem is that women think they are sweet, kind, loving and generous but they really aren't.
@btbc92 is a great example of that. Her response to your question here clearly indicates she thinks she has those qualities, but day after day here on GAG, her response and comments show she is the polar opposite of those things.
I know so many other women who are the same. They think they are better than they are, but the reality is very different. And it is the reality we men have to live with after all.
Oh it all depends on how you treat us.
I'm done with being an innocent, caring fool who will choose below average guys in terms of looks, finances and their nature. I'm as loving as a fairy.
But once I sense them betraying me, doing anything that breaks my trust, I'll become a lion and rip them apart. I'll insult them, cuss at them, mock at them, make them beg and then leave them. My exes have failed to replace me because I'm all in one. Beautiful, honest, loyal, loving and ambitious. So their loss. Now they eventually bother me but I ignore them. It was my past stupid version who choose low standard incels. Now no more.
Yeah of course they do lol... there are 7.9 billion people on this earth. Almost 50% of those people being females, so logically the answer would be yes lmao. And sweet caring traits are not only present in women... there are men who are also how you described. It's trial and error but at some point you'll find a person, maybe even a group of people who are caring and loyal to you. Humans are hardwired to empathize, so this is kind of a no brainer question. There are caring and loving people all around us, it's just a question of whether or not they present that side of themselves to you.
This is just experiences talking. Every woman i know has cheated, I'm not saying every woman does.
Every girlfriend and wife i have had, my mother, sisters, every friend and friends girlfriends. We are talking over a hundred women and girls. Just in my small corner of existence.
I am sure there are others that wouldn't intentionally hurt the guys they love.
So yes, to answer your question.
Even with all of my past experiences and current knowledge about the percentage of women who hurt their guys. I still believe there are a staggering number of women out there that are loyal.
And of course, every woman i have gotten to know can be loving, kind, generous and sweet. They are not traits exclusive to loyalty.
I was curious and read all the girl answers. So many negative bad attitude responses... geez. A lot of them are women that still can't fully get over a guy or guys they were with. Many excuses too.
I've never let anyone in my life change my personality or permanently "damage" me. Dwelling from 1 woman when there's a billion other women out there is unnecessary. You have to be the stronger person, move on, accept it.
There's definitely sweet women out there. Being naturally kind and sweet is a certain kind of personality that not all people have. I've known and know a lot of sweet women. I've unfortunately met some women that were the complete opposite lol.
They never did son. You've been fed a complete line of bullshit from every woman you've ever encountered in your life. The sad and bitter truth of it all.
If you want to learn more about what makes women tick, why they do what they do, what drives them and their decisions, go here and read at least the first two years' blogs by Rollo: www.therationalmale.com
No, eventually they will all break your heart. It's built in. It is ALWAYS and ALL about the FEELZ. And those feelings are subject to change at any given moment - it's their god-given right to do so. JUST ASK THEM!!
Oh for sure.
The trick is showing up in such a way that makes us feel safe enough to let our shell down and show that sweet and caring nature.
It is a valuable trait, and one that can lead to being taken advantage of. Most of us have learned to "hide" or "save" that part of us for those who truly love and reciprocate.
So if you haven't seen it, maybe it's time to analyse what you're doing.
Yes. I'm the proof lol. I am all these things. I am not manipulative. Nor am I mean (on purpose). I do tell the truth. I am loyal. I could be insecure though. And that influences what I think and do. Sometimes I could be nervous or speak quietly cuz I'm tired or stressed. Sometimes I DO say things out of turn. I'm sure in a relationship, those things will come out, but not too often. I'm looking for the one I could spend the rest of my life loving, not fighting.
Girls nowadays only seem to care about social media, onlyfans, an easy way out, which dick is bigger, sex with hot guys, flings, tattoos, drugs, partying and booze. Yet guys get shit on about how guys aren’t “men”. To girls out there who behave like that even in their 30s you aren’t women you are merely a woman trapped in a girls mind, time to grow the fuck up. Sorry if that sounds rude. It’s one thing to wear a cute dress outside to feel sexy. But to do drugs, get tattoos, party and drink are major turn offs.
It depends if you mean sweet caring girls who are STILL SINGLE or not. I know plenty of good women on this site (JosyJosy, Passion_Devil, Pink_and_inlove, NerdyAndTall) who are not single, or not hetero.
But sweet caring good woman who are SINGLE? Nah. Not a single one.
FAR AND FEW. They are out there but it takes A LOT of searching to find them. In my personal experience, there are more into head games, deceit and just plain out to get what they can and HOW MUCH than being considerate. But yes though, they ARE out there. The best way to find them is through reference; being fixed up by a friend or relative.
Yes. Its called growing some balls. You will get rejected. You will overcome. Thats how we gain experience at anything in life. It will shape you and mold you. But you keep trying because you realize giving up is for losers. And at some point you'll meet a woman who captures you and you capture her.
This is a manipulative question. You probably want a sweet girl to control & manipulative. At one point everyone was sweet until there was no choice but to not be. I always say, sweet girls get turned into a b***, they never were. And then people wonder why they're such a b***, well duh cause they were sweet enough until they couldn't & people took advantage of that
Yes they do , but they are not much attractive as per social standards. Most attractive girls with much option are highly entitled. As a lot of men are simping for her.
But those sweet caring girls also want attractive , outspoken men. In dating women generally have most advantage , they can choose almost any guy they want. But men cannot , either he has to take what he can get or have to simp for someone which he can't get. During my school and college days I have always seen , shy kind women are running for players , they got them , got cheated on too but still wanted them. Whether shy , kind , less spoken men stayed single in high school , college.
The younger ones have mostly been ruined by the internet, feminist drivel, lgtbq, me too, the socialist party of America ( democraps) the older ones are so jaded and guarded from being mistreated by complete assholes that they will never open their heart to another guy ever.
Oh they exist all right, but they often have their own problems. Being naive, non sexual, work a lot, take your pick. People are going to have to change to be effective parents! And I can't stress that enough, if you are not wanting to be a parent you might as well just fuck around or be celibate. Relationships are for producing and raising children not helping you with your rent!
They do. I got one. It's just usually those girls don't care about spotlight, it's hard to meet them because they don't post their butts on social medias or don't go clubbing... not saying all party and social girls aren't any good, it's just most of them care about nothing but themselves. xD
I have a wonderful girlfriend who is very sweet and caring. She is however rare in today's (western) society. That's why I made sure to reel her in as fast as possible. Years have passed and our relationship is growing stronger and stronger.
