Do good and sweet girls even exist?

[Anonymous]

Good and sweet to people not just to hot looking guys. I am a average looking guy and I have never seen in my 25 year life a sweet talking , kind girl (irrespective of girls attractiveness)

They behave nice to attractive guys only. The one behave nicely in front , trashed talked behind my backs (which other friend informed me about much later). Or sometimes they were nice because they wanted some help with something.

I have never behaved rudely to badly to anyone irrespective them being guy/girl and their attractiveness.

Pretty girls are the rudest ones to even talk to. Even for normal conversations or casual talk the behave condescendingly. I have never sent creppy or explicit texts to anyone.

Do kind, polite , sweet pretty women even exist? 🤔

[Mia-Wallace]

I think you mean respectful.

I think there are a lot less respectful people today in general, regardless of their gender. The reason is that culture is now bottom-up instead of top-down.

Everyone is imitating behaviours that up until 50 years ago only existed in the ghettos, and very few people are adopting the high-culture and atttitudes that was associated with the nobility and then the bourgeoisie.

Read Spoilt Rotten: The Toxic Cult of Sentimentality.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/8563216-spoilt-rotten

[misscommunication]

I like to think they do- with dating apps and the social standards being so low these days, I think it’s much trickier to find someone who is genuine and willing to be vulnerable. I try to stay as true to myself (& others) as possible, hoping that one day that will land me in the right relationship. Unfortunately, with today’s attitudes, it leads to me (23F) getting taken advantage of or just being plain naive about the goodness of others that I try to see.
Maybe limit where you find them- I’m not doing dating apps anymore- it sends out the wrong message & breeds a particular sample of men who do not fit my standards.
Keep your head up, she’s still out there!

[Asker]

I am not necessarily talking about dating but also in general, it's even hard to have normal conversations. You are considering the plight of being younger but from what I have seen it's the younger ones that are way ruder. Older women are much nicer...

[misscommunication]

You’re right. You never know what you’re going to get. Younger ones can be more rude but some older ones can be too. More likelihood of mature social engagement from older women

[Massageman]

Avoid dating apps. Maybe look in your local churches, gals working at Food Pantries or Animal Rescues or as Hospital Volunteers: these are people who aren't afraid to give of themselves, not just a doppelgänger on the internet.

[BobbieBoy666]

Yes they exist just hard to find. 💞