Ghosted after 2 months and I’m devastated?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this girl every weekend for 2 months and everything was going great and now she’s gone. She even hinted at a relationship last weekend when we last met, and this week she’s ignored both of my texts. My last text to her was “Hey. I hope you’re doing ok” how do you ignore something like that?

There’s nothing I can do now since I’ve already double texted. I just have to move on, but it hurts like hell. Neither of us had social media, so now we’ll both fade away until neither of us remember what the other looks or sounds like. It’s like we never even happened.

Updates

+1 y

We were a perfect match too. We had the same interests and have already made so many wild memories together

[Aurora1010]

It hurts now, but you'll get over it. It may help you to use tinder or add cute girls on Instagram to remind yourself that there are many cute and cool girls and she isn't the only one. I don't know, it's your decision, but it's a suggestion. You're right though, eventually you will forget her.

[Aurora1010]

I'm not saying to start dating if you're not ready, but it's good to see the possibilities and new women

[Anonymous]

If you did not double text, then this could have been different. You need to learn the self control to override what you feel like doing emotionally, and instead do what needs to be done logically. Also, if things were 'too perfect' and you were 'too nice' that would be enough reason for her to leave.

However, what would have provided more results would have been to not text her at all...

[Asker]

I felt like double texting because I think she thinks that I don’t care about her because I’ve never called her or even sent a “did you get home safe?” text

[Asker]

So I wanted to sprinkle in a little bit of care

[Opinion Owner]

Most women respond more to the opposite, as you will learn...

[Asker]

I know, but I’ve been the opposite for awhile, which I think might have pushed her away

[Opinion Owner]

Yet only after you started to show care did she pull away...

[Asker]

False, she pulled away before I showed care

[Anonymous]

Let this be a lesson: she ain't your girl if she won't you stick your dick in her

[Asker]

We’ve already fucked lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well shit mang =/

[Asker]

She responded again

[Opinion Owner]

Thats wassup, go meetup with her

[Asker]

I’m gonna wait for next week to invite her over again. I didn’t like her behavior this week

[Anonymous]

She's testing you, don't try to get her back, let her come back

[Asker]

I had the same thought

[Opinion Owner]

That's how it works

[Asker]

Although it’s been 5 days since she last talked to me, which was in person at my place

[Opinion Owner]

YES, if she's interested she'll come back if you don't chase her

[kaylealealea]

try a third time tbh

[Asker]

Seriously? Hell no