Would you want to hear a confession from your first love?

Anonymous
My first love was a two year relationship in college and ended 10 years ago. It was the most painful breakup. I have never felt the same about someone or hurt from a breakup the same way again. It took me 5 years to start truly getting over it. The past ten years he’s been on the back of my mind through two other LTRs I am now a year out of a 5 year relationship and thoughts of my first love are coming back stronger. He is also in town visiting I see from his social media. I am debating if it would be a bad idea to just tell him the truth. Or if it will be a disruption to him, or he will think I’m crazy. I don’t know if I can prepare myself to handle the rejection which I think is the most likely outcome. From your perspective on both ends, would you want to hear this from an ex or prefer they leave you alone?
Would you want to hear a confession from your first love?
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