My first love was a two year relationship in college and ended 10 years ago. It was the most painful breakup. I have never felt the same about someone or hurt from a breakup the same way again. It took me 5 years to start truly getting over it. The past ten years he’s been on the back of my mind through two other LTRs I am now a year out of a 5 year relationship and thoughts of my first love are coming back stronger. He is also in town visiting I see from his social media. I am debating if it would be a bad idea to just tell him the truth. Or if it will be a disruption to him, or he will think I’m crazy. I don’t know if I can prepare myself to handle the rejection which I think is the most likely outcome. From your perspective on both ends, would you want to hear this from an ex or prefer they leave you alone?