Would you want to hear a confession from your first love?

[Anonymous]

My first love was a two year relationship in college and ended 10 years ago. It was the most painful breakup. I have never felt the same about someone or hurt from a breakup the same way again. It took me 5 years to start truly getting over it. The past ten years he’s been on the back of my mind through two other LTRs I am now a year out of a 5 year relationship and thoughts of my first love are coming back stronger. He is also in town visiting I see from his social media. I am debating if it would be a bad idea to just tell him the truth. Or if it will be a disruption to him, or he will think I’m crazy. I don’t know if I can prepare myself to handle the rejection which I think is the most likely outcome. From your perspective on both ends, would you want to hear this from an ex or prefer they leave you alone?

[boggboss]

What is the truth tho that u still want to be with him yet you don't even know him anymore

[Asker]

it would basically be that he's my first love and I’ll never forget him. No expectations to try and date again but I just can’t decide if he should know this or I should continue on with my life stuffing that down. So would you rather someone not tell you?

[boggboss]

If thats all u wanted to say I would say probobly like meh cool thanks I guess but it's not somthing I personly would care about

[Asker]

What about sleep with him? 😂

[boggboss]

If hebis available sure but the only person that gets hurt is u in that situation

[Asker]

Yeah you’re right. Well thanks for the opinions!

[TurningGraves]

I think you need what they call “closure.”