Dump him. Find a better boyfriend who won't gas light you.
There's a thing called empathy which many young horny Boyz cannot mentally understand. It's that while a blowjob feel great for them, there are NO nerve endings in your throat and does not physically 'feel good for you.'
Next time he pressures you after you say no, tell him to stick a cucumber down his throat. Oh, he doesn't think that sounds fun or pleasurable? What does he think a blow job is if you're not mentally in the mood?
You should never stay with a partner who chooses their own sexual needs over the willingness or consent of their partner.
At 15, My first boyfriend forced me once. I bit the shit out of the tip of his dick and wouldn't let go. He had to shake me off. Then he chased me and tried to kill me. Whatever. Fair game. He shouldn't have forced himself on me. And no i was never willing to give him head like you did yours. At the time i was disgusted by the thought of oral, and he thought it would be funny to randomly slam my head down on his dick while he was holding it and i was in the middle of conversating with him. Anyways, my teeth marks were in his dick for a week or so
Omg that is terrible. Did you go to police? Did he apologize? Man this is scary
How could he chase you after you bite his dick? I thought men can't do anything with such pain since it is very sensible. Some may even die- i dont whether this is true. This is so scary thst he wants to kill you
@hi_it_is_me123 i didn't go to the police. My mom had to break up the fight when she heard the ruckus. He tried to choke the shit out of me. I ran into my house and he tackled me on the bed
Wtf how old was he? He is psycho. If this happened to my daughter i would kill him
I am sorry what happened to you
@hi_it_is_me123 we were the same age. And any other time my mom wouldve tried to kill him. But she was too focused on keep her boyfriend happy. He didn't want a boy in my bedroom so when she broke us up, she didn't even realize it was a serious fight.
It is time to reconsider your relationship with this boy. You need a man who will respect you, love you and protect you. He sounds like a selfish and lousy lover. Based on your question and description, he isn't taking advantage of you. He is using you. It's time for him to grow up or for you to move on.
As an added bonus to all the men (or boys) reading this, if you want to be a wonderful lover, read "She Comes First" by Dr. Ian Kerner. Get yourself a copy, don't be a cheap ass. And take the time to learn and understand what really pleases a woman. Trust me, it will make you a better lover.
I can understand you want to suck him off to please him when he wants it. When you can't, tell him your mouth is tired and can't now and owe him later. Then surprise him with head when you are ready.
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He sounds like a douche. No offense I don't see your relationship going anywhere serious (if that is even on your mind, if it's not don't worry about it) but sounds like you guys will just date and have a bunch of sex and then eventually move on. In the meantime he'll be really disrespectful to you and you have to set boundaries for him not to treat you that way. I wonder why he treats that way? Like does he not respect women or he doesn't respect you and only sees you for sex therefore he does fucked up shit like that. Or maybe he's inexperienced and he doesn't know how to say, "Hey can you please give me a bj?" But I mean how clueless can he be? Its not hard to ask.. any way I wish you the best
Okay so if you want to go to the store how do you go to the store if you want to go to the mall how do you go to the mall if you want to go get fast food how do you go get fast food you have a car right somebody has a car look at yourself as a car put it in park take the keys out of it and it's not going anywhere until he does the right thing why isn't he going down on you I should be priority he should want to do that you should also be making it all about you and not himself what you allow that this start happening it's going to be like that throughout the whole relationship and only get worse you're the boss you need to set your foot down you need to make the rules and he needs to follow them that's the bottom line
You tell him how it makes you feel when he doesn't take your feelings into consideration. Clear communication is the only way to go. Instead of pushing your head he can ask for a blowjob. Common courtesy, really. Let him know that you matter and make him understand that he cannot use you unless you want to. Every time he wants something you decide if you want to give him active consent or say no. If he doesn't respect a no, he doesn't respect your autonomy and boundaries.
He is using you because he knows you feel this way about him.. don’t be so vulnerable.
Grow a spine love yourself first and tell him to fuck off.
Some affluent man in this world use this technique to their side chick. their wife in the house needs permission and a 2nd referral for such abuse
Both of your sex drives are different. Honesty through communication is the best way to tell him, I mean; isn't your significant other the one person you can be completely honest and personal with?
He's either gonna respect it and be cool, or say ok but in his mind he's kinda like wtf this is lame.
So it might work out, might not.
Most likely not tbh but live your life!
This sounds like he doesn't care about you at all. I'm sorry to say you bare just meat to him. No loving man would treat his woman like this. Actually I can picture him becoming physically abusive to you down the road. We're it me I'd have ghosted his ass regardless of what I felt because I know where this might lead. Also looks like a creep anyway tbh
He's not appreciative. Distance yourself "slightly" almost to where its not that noticeable, and then deny anything. If he shows any aggression, he's just insecure.
A REAL relationship will NEVER work UNLESS both parties can function separately be (independent) without each other so there is still personal self development. Lift each other up.
he's young. break up with him to put him back to reality and have him beg to take you back, do you deserve being objectified? as you get older you will find men who have learned from their mistakes and will never take you for granted from the very first date.
And who is holding a knife against your throat and forcing you to be with him? Oh, that's right. Nobody. The fact you're still with him and still doing all of that goes to show that you like this dynamic of relationship. Funny enough, this only validates the very stereotype that women give themselves to the 'badboys' and 'assholes'. So out of all the men out there who are willing to treat you well, you decided to pick him. But the nice guys are "boring", as we all know.
He is just a young horny guy and you don't know how to be a submissive for your man.
Issues will come up, like these and many other.
The mouth can be used for other things, like talking, for an example.
Talk it out to a mutually happy solution, if you can't or one breaks it, end it.
Rude af. Does he go down on you? Often? Until completion? JS if he's ever down there as he should be, clasp your hands around his head and pull him in tight and close your thighs to lock him in until he taps out for air lol. Good for the goose, good for the gander.
End things now before that turns into a slippery slop. I mean today he pushing your head down and forcing you to give him oral how long before that turns into him ripping your pants down and forcing you to have sex anytime HE wants it. Take care of yourself, there are better guys out there.
If you’re afraid he’ll leave you for refusing to please him, then there’s a power imbalance in your relationship.
Men like it when you take control sometimes. Don’t Always be a yes man. Show negative emotion sometimes.
When he tries that again literally push him off and turn your whole body away from him. Do not talk until he confesses what he did was wrong. Then make HIM give you head. Do not give up power EVERY time.
😂😂
Boy do I love it when girls love a guy who won't care how she feels as long as he's getting the good suck.
You girls are so easily manipulated and I genuinely love it, all the power to us dudes with shitty personalities but a silver tongue while you keep your tongues busy with our cocks down your throats.
Girls hate the truth so they downvote this lmao
Some people crave rough spontanous sex and find that sort of thing kinky, if you are blowing him when he does that, he probably thinks you like it. You should have a talk with him about it in the same way you did on here, if he knew it bothered you, he would probably stop.
If he is not listening to you and ignoring when you say no.
then leave him, he is an arsehole and potential rapist.
just go and drop kick him.
sounds like you need to do more jaw exercises to keep it in shape. My wife used to have the same complaint but after finding some jaw stretching exercises for her and a bit of hard training, she can now comfortably suck dick to the hilt on the daily without tiring out
And you practiced by sucking off the zoo 🐘
Next time he does that, pull a wrestling move on him and slam him to the ground.
Maybe he'll learn some respect then.
Lmaooooo
First of all, how do you know this issue is about taking you for granted? To me it seems like you just aren't putting up boundaries.
Get some stronger ones. Say no when you don't feel like doing something, that's all.
Have self-respect. I would beat the shit of him. Next time if he wants blowjob, bite his dick with all your force. Omg that makes me extrem angry. How can you let him treat you like this. Buy a strap-on dildo and tie him up when he sleeps and then tell him that he should suck the strap on dildo. Maybe then he understands it.
And who tf are the dislikers? They dislike almost every opinion
The dislikes are mostly from supporter of potential rapists aka sexual harrasser. Many opinions that disagree with your boyfriend's action get dislikes
Seriously? You don't know the difference being taken for granted and sexual abuse?
Whew thats psycho behaviour leave before he kills you. Girl just dump him if he doesn't want tk hear you out.
You stop him! You may love him and that is great! But he does not love you if he is doing that to you. So tell him that if wants you around then he needs to listen
You just need to clarify things to him that... ok i am wid you, i am in love wid you, but please respect me as an person. As i respect you... you should also respect me...
Tell him unambiguously that you will not give him a BJ when you're not feeling it. If this behavior persists, leave him.
Communication, other than dat only thing I can think of is not opening ur mouth and telling him hey I'm not in the mood right now I'm a little tired maybe later
You dump him and find a man capable of caring. Your boyfriend thinks you are a sex toy.
He's selfish with sex. He might grow out of it, but you should become more assertive with your own pleasures. Make him go down on you for a change. If he doesn't want to, then use sexual denial as a tool. You need to train him.
Clearly you don’t love yourself!
How can anybody make you do things?
Start to love yourself first! Guys later !
No man is worth for drama !
You have a sit down adult conversation outside the bedroom. That's what mature adults do. They're able to convey their needs and wants. And you own your own shit, you don't blame anything or anybody for where you're at, for your circumstances.
He sounds like a real jerk, start standing up for yourself and tell him no!
Girl, there is nothing you can do literally, if you spoke with him already and he still don’t listen.. then he gots to gooooo
If he thinks you like it then you need to explain to him that you don’t and if he doesn’t respect you then bounce out
Appeal to his compassion and be firm with your boundaries, I also like the idea of you asking for head in return - say yes if it's 69 for example
He thinks you're addicted to him. You should dissolve his illusion in this point soon as possible. He will accept that or he has to go.
Be clear about your boundaries.
If there's something you don't like, then don't accept him doing them to you.
You are waayyy too pretty and loyal to be with that psycho school shooter looking guy! I say if he can't respect you, what you do for him or your boundaries. You should dump him he is not going to change!
Something as simple as that can easily be resolved. Stop putting yourself in a spot for him to do that and stand up for yourself.
It takes two to make a relationship, both people matter. Communicate or get out.
Y'all look like high school teenagers. Tell him no, if he doesn't listen, then he doesn't care about you. Maybe sit down and talk to him, tell him how you feel. If he still doesn't listen, that's sexual abuse, so dump his ass
@t-8900 Totally agree with you. But who are the fuckers who downvoted my comment? Did I say something wrong?
@t-8900 True that. The girl needs to dump her "boyfriend." He's toxic as hell
You’re looks like he’s 12. You shouldn’t be having a boyF you goanna became exhausted of men because of getting into relationship too early on. Go focus on your school and future
Tell him no, if he refuses to listen the next time take a bite out of crime.
you are with a sex-crazed pervert who is selfish. i say find someone who will respect you and appreciate you.
Say you don't like giving him head and wouldn't do it.
If he still forces then don't do it just leave
I didn't say leave him , I said leave the room lol 🤣.
Untill he asks you why and you can make him understand
You probably love him more than you are supposed to do.
Show him that you'll leave. People tend to appreciate others when they realize that the other person will leave.
First thing to do is to regain your self-worth. Love yourself first. You'll see that you don't deserve a kind of relationship that pushes you down. Take good care of yourself and mental health. 💙
Just break up. That's how. And don't come back to him. If he's not what you want, leave him.
He doesn't respect you. Demand he goes down on you all the time and he will see what its like
End things now while you have a chance and find a new man that won't take you for granted, show respect, and love you the way you are.
I think true love is being able to take for granted that your other half will always be there. No one wants to live a life of constant tests.
You look a bit blaze/nothing special going on.
Have some meaningful pursuits in your life, something that is valuable/respected socially
Don't give him so much attention. Have a life, basically, make him miss you
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
And if he still doesn't chase you more... it's not meant to be
Leave him. If he takes you for granted, he is wrong for you.
just tell him that you have "Needs: too and that oral isn't meeting them, then take off your pants
What do you mean you tried to tell him? What did he do when you told him? Tell him how you feel and if you don't feel like doing it then ding do it when he pushes you head down JUST SAY NO!!!
Perhaps you need to become more worthy of his time. What do you bring to the relationship aside from sex?
You just need to say your mind about the way his behaving towards you that all I can say
I think it's all about him I guess he is a god of lovers he knows what you like without asking you
You can’t and it will never change so you have a decision
Tell him no and don't do a damn thing.
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