Would it offended you if somebody rated you a 5/10?

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MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Yes, that would offend me way worse than if I was just called a 3 or a 4, because they're basically calling you an ugly sack of sh*t, but expecting a "thank you" from you, for it. Nothing irritates me more than backhanded compliments. Just call me ugly. Don't f*cking call me "not attractive" as if I'm supposed to be thrilled to hear that. Being a useless, replaceable, worthless, insignificant meat bag (average) is far more insulting to me, than someone saying I don't fit society's norms or the status quo like a 3/10. I can live with being different and standing out. But implying I'm worthless (average) really jostles my jimmies.

Yes, being called mediocre or a 5 out of 10 would offend me a lot.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Yeah I mean you can take it seriously if you don't know the person and like if you're on here and you want to be rated that's cool. But for me I I couldn't rate you because I have to be able to see you. And then I have to be able to talk to you. I rate people for who they are on the inside outside is just an extra bonus

Grownlady8 · Accepted Answer

That's their opinion. One of my college boyfriend's roommate thought I was ugly, lol. That didn't bother me because i knew I was cute and had it together. That guy was usually one of those that was used to girls falling all over him, and I was the total opposite. It's funny because my boyfriend back then kept his face in my ass and wanted people to know we were together. after we broke up c, he came to my hometown to reconnect ( there's a story involved) and I was done and that was that.
Mutual of the story, know your worth. We are all ugly to someone but their opinion of us is none of our business

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t care what people want to rate me. I don’t even think the rating system is even healthy.
I may not look as gorgeous as many girls out there but I’m learning to love myself and I know I’ll find someone that loves me for me too so idc what people have to say or rate haha.
Smh people have nothing better to do I swear! Haha.
Learn to look at yourself in the mirror, know your worth and know you’re absolutely stunning and people who are so fussed about a scale, what they say isn’t worth your time

DianaWest · Answer

no. who gives a fuck? if i like a guy and he doesn't like me, he instantly becomes invisible to me. why bother wasting energy, brain cells, and developing a wrinkle or two over a man that will never give you a second thought. billions of men on the planet. i am sure i can manage just fine if a couple of them think they're too good for me.

Cherry234 · Answer

If it was a guy I liked it would hurt a bit. If anyone else rated me a 5 I admit it would be hard for me to take but I wouldn't take it too personally. That's why I wouldn't ask anyone to rate me 1-10. I show my face on here and think I'm conventionally attractive. I'm okay with not looking like a 9 or 10 but I don't think of myself so negatively that I would rate myself as a 3 or a 4 or even a 2

HighValue · Answer

I don't care. Looks are highly subjective. Some of the girls that my friends think are 9 and 10 are a 4 in my opinion and the ones I think are a 9 and 10 they think are a 5 or 3. Yeah, the ones I usually think are a 10 are the ones they think are a 3. lol

Caliguy88 · Answer

I don't know, I feel like I’m a person some girls rate a 9 or so and some rate a 3 or so. Lol. I’m comfortable with that. I know some girls that are the same. Maybe a different look or something. Some think they are hot and some don’t see it at all. I don’t care really what people think of me. I can take 10s home sometimes. Works for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah. I know I'm average. Personally I'd rate myself a 6/10 on a good day but still in the end of the day I'm an average woman that doesn't bring anything too special to the table beauty-wise. Im just normal. So I wouldn't find it offensive no. I know most men see me that way anyway and its apparent by the fact that I've been single my entire life so.

Ukrainianbuddafly · Answer

No because they are rating by looks only and a person is so much more than that. Plus people need to realize that not everyone is going to be attracted to you just like you aren't attracted to everyone.

Whitneythegemini · Answer

Don’t take it personal , everyone finds different things attractive. Remember : if 99% of the world finds you unattractive , there’s still 75.27 million people would think you’re fucking gorgeous 🙏🏽

Buttonss · Answer

It's just facts.. id feel bad about myself but i wouldn't be upset with the person because they're just being honest about what they think, besides i wouldn't rate myself any higher than that so id know they're just being honest

jshm2 · Answer

That's called "average" deary. If you're offended, then you're trying to be "quirky" and believe yourself to be "not like other girls". Probably think you queef rainbows of something equally silly.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Not at all. Looks are beyond a certain point, wholly subjective and people are free to hold whatever opinion they wish of my looks. It does not affect me. Well unless it's a girl I fancy of course, but so far that has not occurred.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Nope, because looks are subjective. I have been rated around a 7 most of the time, but I just take it in stride. Looks fade and we all end up old and wrinkly at the end of the day.

bobalife · Answer

I would laugh. I think of myself as an average beauty. I wouldn’t say it’s offensive but I would be sad or hurt if it’s by a guy I’m interested in, dating, or with of course.

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

It offends me if someone rates me on a number system regardless of what number I get. I do not believe it is all that healthy to look for self-worth in a shallow opinion of another person.

coffeismytea · Answer

not me unless I was into you, though I'd be instantly turned-off by a woman who rates men with numbers... Make what you will with that information.

qwert1234 · Answer

People can rate me 1/10, I'll ask why and if they have constructive criticism, work to improve on that. Would I get hurt? Yes. Would I get offended? No.

Nightroads · Answer

Middle of the road, I'd be happy with that. Easier to stay hidden and not noticed. Makes it easier to surprise people. Yeah, wouldn't be offended, kind of glad not to be rated higher.

dustybiker · Answer

This week, I would need the laugh. I find joy in the most unusual places when having a lot on my mind. 🙃

Avicenna · Answer

LOL, no. People's opinions of another person's attractiveness vary AND attractiveness is multidimensional.

serious · Answer

No I will not be offended as looks, beauty, appeal and physical attractiveness are all subjective.

Daniela1982 · Answer

I would not be offended as I already know I'm not much more than a 5 at best.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Zero fucks given since 1998 about what people think about me 🤷‍♂️

Bamababe03 · Answer

I mean not really obviously I want to be pretty and seen as pretty like every other female but imma die anyways so I don’t care that much if I’m not

Mollynotgemma · Answer

It would depend on who it was and what it was about!

Nft_739 · Answer

Not at all! I’m not everyone’s favorite flavor. No one rates me but ME! Fuck that shit!

Phoenix98 · Answer

I personally don't care. Looks at the end of the day are subjective which itself makes a rating system kind of pointless.

Nomina · Answer

Pretty much the same as you. If it's someone I find hot and they see me as a 5? ouch.

Киттйлинк · Answer

not offended.  I might feel saddened if it was someone I was interested in, that’s about it.

stargazerx · Answer

I already know I'm ugly, so this doesn't surprises me in the least

jasco · Answer

Most men have been called thought by other people. I have and like yourself the only time I would take personal offence is when Its someone I am attracted to say that

GingerGuy · Answer

Based on my history and that I don't seem to attract women at all lol, a 5 is pretty good!

es20490446e · Answer

I won't take them seriously. I find myself abnormally sexy.

douride2 · Answer

At best most of us are only average so no I wouldn't be offended. In reality though who rates their friends or partner? Really?

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I’d be happy becuase that’s the best I’ll ever get. Well maybe. There is a thing where people go from a Blob Fish in High School to a Peacock afterwards

Wester1967 · Answer

No one has ever made themselves great by pointing out another’s shortcomings or flaws

exitseven · Answer

No, it is probably true and besides everyone is entitled to their opinion

ChiPaPa · Answer

Nah. I already consider myself a 2/10, so it's a compliment.

Anonymous · Answer

If a guy who is conventionally unattractive called me average I’d be more pissed off tbf

pink_and_inlove · Answer

Not the nicest response lol but I mean if I asked for a rating it wouldn’t be unexpected

ChiTown33 · Answer

No. That would make me avg. And at 6'5" I've never been avg. My entire life.

blondfrog · Answer

Depends who it was who rated me that but mostly I wouldn't care.

Ironic_Method · Answer

No. Because I dont really care what strangers think of me.

Massageman · Answer

I'll take it. Heck, in baseball a.500 batting average is awesome!

tomtom05131 · Answer

Not really. I don’t give a shit what others think. 9/10 they have their own problems

Recurrence · Answer

No, unless they said  You’re a 5/10, you ugly fuck

MrDanZa · Answer

Like you, I would feel horrible if a very pretty girl said it but if an unattractive girl said it, it would not affect me as much (or at all).

TheAfrikan · Answer

Nope because I do know that according to me I am 10/10 so I take no other people's opinions that a lot.

InferiorElegy · Answer

I only get rated as zeros and ones, I wouldn't be offended by a five but I certainly would not believe it.

Anonymous · Answer

Beauty is very subjective, someone can think I'm a 5/10 and another guy might think I'm a 10/10. I wouldn't be offended at all.

Anonymous · Answer

It would not, because I would not give a crap about it.

Guardian45 · Answer

Yes, cuz NO ONE can be summarized by a F***EN NUMBER!

Shihab91 · Answer

no... because it's different from one person to another

ecafkcuf · Answer

It's unreasonable to expect everybody to be attracted to you. I'd just move on.

Ksoshefbd · Answer

If he's rating people like pieces of meat he's an asshole i dont give a damn what he thinks of anything

The8thHorcrux · Answer

Hey, you can't let these people get in your head. Other peoples opinion don't matter as long as you're happy with yourself.

malwins · Answer

in general we look for approval from people who matter

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know if it would offend me but id feel like crap if it was genuine

Vikkrram · Answer

I have been rated 2/10 lol...

Espresso-Grande · Answer

Only if my husband rated me a 5.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Nah, even if it is a hottie. Their loss.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Nah, probably more than I deserve

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