Agreed to meeting but changed my mind?

[Anonymous]

I have problems sometimes with impulsivity and finding it hard to say no, always try to be nice.

I agreed to meeting up with a guy from a different country, I don’t really know him much, but I just realised he is not my type at all.. I already tried to cancel him a day ago, he missed the flight, he took a bus now. He’s on the way here but I’m really not feeling it, he booked the hotel but he pays at the check in.

What should I do? Its too late to reject him since he’s on the way. I know it’s very bad thing to do but I could go mia, block him. He isn’t coming for me anyways, I would probably just be a hookup..

Someone help?

Ghost him

Tell him

[Flower7]

Since he’s already started traveling, you might as well just meet him now. Plus, whether you tell him before he checks in or not, he’ll most likely still have to pay for the hotel either way. If it’s been a long trip, he’ll want to rest before returning to his home country. So I feel like it’s too late to try to save him any expense by telling him you’re not interested before he pays for the room. You might as well at least give him what he came there for, which is a date with you. Just try to have fun and don’t see him again if you’re still not into him after the date.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think she can if she wants to. But she's not obligated to.

[Jamie05rhs]

Just tell him you changed your mind. It's not that complicated.

[Kareem_z21]

Be honest and tell him