Do you agree it’s unfair if one partner shaves while the other never shaves at all?

[Anonymous]

I would leave my partner if he refuses to shave. I’m someone who grooms therefore I do it to look good and I expect him to shave his beard.

[Anonymous]

I think it's fine to have preferences, but you should also respect their preference to their own body as long as it doesn't absolutely appall you. I think it's fine to have standards, and that both partners should respect that.

I think if you find it a minor annoyance, then you should be fine with them growing it out while maybe trimming it to look nice. It might even grow on you. But if it's something that would really bother you, then I think you shouldn't feel forced to continue the relationship if they refuse to shave. It should be a mutually beneficial partnership after all.

[Asker]

I agree with you

[ChrisMaster69]

Nah, it’s their option.

I wax every 5-6 weeks or rather the spa I go to waxes me lol.

I would not expect my girlfriend to do the same thing just because I do.

[Little_Bumblebee]

No, it isn't unfair.

As long as both prefer to either shave or not and are okay with the other doing what they prefer.

However, if a partner expects me to shave, that's another story.

[ChrisMaster69]

@Little_Bumblebee exactly

[Barry88]

Depends on the preferences of both partners.

[dudeinohio]

Not unfair... its all what the person prefers

[Hangry06]

It is unfair

[Wise4myage]

Makes sense to me.