Girls, Do you normally care if your partner is bald or not? If a guy is clearly balding, should he just shave it all off?

[UndeniablyBillie]

I know a lot of guys get insecure about this
I was just curious what the female perspective is
does it matter to you?

[LovingLoverReturned]

Partner? If he is long term... i have to guess cause I never had a balding guy... lol you are also pretty young to worry about this... i kind of go for men who genetically don't bald.. but... if I were to guess... it depends how it is looking, I might prefer he keeps it... if I like a guys face... him becoming bald shouldn't be a problem, but then, if I think of the guy I like now. I accepted him with an average body... it would be better if he compensates with health in another place... lost his hair health... gain body health... but if I love him it wouldn't be a problem... i just worry losing attraction... I'm honest

[petitedollbabee]

Most guys don’t start balding until their mid 30’s and I don’t date guys who are that much older than me, so I wouldn’t know. But if I met a guy in his 20’s who was bald or super noticeably balding, then I would care. I like my man to have hair on his head for me to play with.

[UndeniablyBillie]

Hmm alright, so lets say you are in your 30s, and guys in their 20s are too young?

Would you care then?

[petitedollbabee]

Don’t know, I’m not in my 30’s lol. My taste in men could completely change in another 10 years. But right now, I do not like bald men or men who are balding.

[UndeniablyBillie]

okay :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

My husband started balding in his early 20's and yeah he decided to just shave it then... We were together 20 years so obviously I had no issues with it.

[Medicalbug]

Hair is not important - the face definitely is as baldness can even bring out someone’s eyes and highlight the bones in the face. I do prefer bald over receding, patchy hair - it’s aesthetically just more pleasing. Patchy hair only works if you keep it really short, so no combovers or fuzzy patches growing out the side of the head.

[Cherry234]

I don't really care that much if a guy I like is bald. While I prefer a guy with a full head of hair, him being bald is definitely not a dealbreaker.

[UndeniablyBillie]

So what is a dealbreaker?

[Cherry234]

A guy being shorter than me and obesity

[Kittycurious]

I personally don't care. If I'm with a partner. It won't be for his hair. It would be up to him as to shaving it all off. Such a personal decision. I would just be supportive. And make him feel cared for

[howhigh420]

I sont really care but i must say some guys do need the propr face to have things like that like being a skinhead or diffrent hair styles but some skinheads are hot they just need the right face to match

[Aerissa_Jade]

Hair is the least of my concern, I've seen guys go 100% grey in their 20's and others go completely bald.

[UndeniablyBillie]

So what matters most to you?

[Aerissa_Jade]

personality and how well we mesh together, the more I like him the more attractive he gets to me.

[AddictedGirl]

We do care in general. But sometimes it doesn't matter. when you actually love your man it doesn't matter if he goes bald or grow tummy or something like that.

[LingyRolls]

If he's balding, it can actually be an attractive trait if he's clean cut, in shape, and just shaves it all off. Think "ultra clean cut"

[Emilymaybebabys]

Tbh idc. Hair is hair or no hair lol. It dosent matter to me

[Lowiu]

I realy like nice hair but like its not the most important thing in a relationship