I can't believe how many are ready to cook for a woman who can't cook. It's a culture shock for me. Most men I know want an employed woman who does most of the housework including cooking.
"f i look like your servant" Girls these days have a fucked up view when it comes to doing something for a guy. No one is aiming a gun and forcing you to cook for anyone. What if you are in a realationship? You not going to cook for him, like ever?
My advice to you would be to get rid of that attitude you got, it's not a healthy way of thinking and it will probably be alone most of the time with that attitude.
"y'all are just waisting my time" You are wasting your own time, no one is forcing you to reply, And no one is "pressed" about you. "Just move on." You posted an opinion on a open platform, if you can't handle people disliking/disagreeing with what you have to say then why bother being online?
can't cook? How can't you cook? How hard it to follow a recipe
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Nope, I wouldn't. I'm sorry ladies but you are slowly reducing your value to just sex, and nothing more. I want a real woman who can offer more than sex. I'm not going to settle for a man with a vagina.
There's also tons of women who just pretend not to cook because they're lazy but they suddenly know how to cook when they need to do something for their own special family events. Guys need to beware.
@Janessa2021 Him or her. This guy is saying cooking is a life skill, everyone should know how to do it. If you're an adult you should know how to take care of yourself. :/
@spookywashere woooow 😒 thanks for that. He's forgetting that some women were not taught to cook and clean, men aren't even groomed to do it correctly dl he can't judge a woman for that
@Janessa2021 Like I said, his response isn't exclusive to women. So stop trying to make this a gender war. ALL adults should know how to cook. If you werent taught, well too bad. Stop being lazy and learn how to cook. he's not judging women? Where are you even getting that from? You're reaching to try and find something offensive, which leads me to assume you are either a feminist or you dont know how to cook and feel insecre about that.
@spookywashere girl it's literally in the the question about women and cooking and that's how he he responded tf 😒 secondly u shouldn't judge people for not knowing the same things as u cuz everyone did not have the same experiences and both of u should know that tf , thirdly sweetie I know how to cook and clean but im not judging anyone like yo pick me ass and his childish ass. Lastly sis I'm far from lazy but I don't want any man thinking he is just gonna go to work and come home especially if I'm employed , that's simply not happening. So stop trying to be a pick me ass female and understand wtf is being said this entire convo is about WOMEN and cooking so that where i got it from like I said , pay attention
@Janessa2021 "If your an adult, and can't cook something is wrong with you.." I dont see him mentioning women anywhere here. Yes the question is in regards to women, his response is speaking in general terms. Also you are being quite a hypocrite... to call me a pick me you are judging me when in fact you don't know me at all. It's childish behavior, It's not a good look. I'm not sure why you are responding in such a hostile and defensive manner, I can only imagine it's because you feel offended in some way? Which was not my intention. I just noticed that you were being a little bit harsh here and thought I could help clear things up. You are free to your opinion, but at least try to respond in a way that doesn't make you look illogical or ridiculous. Have a nice night.
@spookywashere being a pick me has nothing to do with being a hypocrite 🙄 secondly I was defensive because I saw u judging something u shouldn't have so I spoke up simple , lastly u only responded to what u felt like responding to 😂😂 and u didn't deny i was wrong about what I said about u so u know its true , move forward with that learn to listen and understand and create your own perspective instead of agreeing with a stranger and not analyzing what's being said , take care 😘
@Janessa2021 I don't have anything to prove to you. I also don't care much for what you say about me, because this post has nothing to do with me. Somehow you still found a way to make things personal. Also you must've misread what I had said, because I called you a hypocrite. You said it's wrong to judge, then you went and judged me... as hyprocrites do. I don't know you (thank god), and I have no business with you. Good day.
@Janessa2021 She may be a stay at home mom, or just a housewife. Which is in fact hard work, keeping up with the house, cleaning, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping. :)
@Janessa2021 You are a feminist I can tell. You think you are woke or something. Its just a matter of mutual respect and understanding your partner. To show them that you care. Of course you have a choice to do as you wish. Just by the other responses you left here I can tell you have no interest in trying to understand, you just want to be bitter. Its sad...
@spookywashere u just add t want to be right lmao , im not a feminist sweetie and your assumptions of me are sending me. You clearly dont understand what I'm saying and thsts fine but assume shit about me cuz u don't know me.
@Grubhub lmao I am not harsh ❤ I just don't agree with with what @spookywashere and the other dude was of thinking and spooky don't even know what she tryna say she hurt wants to be right
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I am willing to compromise if you are anywhere as beautiful as @imthequeen
Yes, I can Miss, as long as I don't have to cook daily though. 😅😅
I can't believe how many are ready to cook for a woman who can't cook. It's a culture shock for me. Most men I know want an employed woman who does most of the housework including cooking.
Most humans can learn.
It's just a matter of attitude.
Her attitude will make her undateable/dateable.
I can cook for myself. But im not gonna cook for him lmao you can learn too my boy, it’s called give and take. 😏 f I look like your servant?
Why do you assume that having the ability to cook is the same thing as being required to cook all the meals?
"f i look like your servant" Girls these days have a fucked up view when it comes to doing something for a guy. No one is aiming a gun and forcing you to cook for anyone.
What if you are in a realationship? You not going to cook for him, like ever?
My advice to you would be to get rid of that attitude you got, it's not a healthy way of thinking and it will probably be alone most of the time with that attitude.
It's just a labor of love.
Not really @YesICan I’m asexual so I don’t really care if I end up alone or not lol
@Deserter that’s fine as long as he knows how to cook for himself as well. I’m tired of the stereotypes. Thank you for your reply.
Again it’s my opinion? 😭😂 why are you guys butt hurt? There’s like billions of other women out there why so pressed about me? Just move on.
It’s so pointless y’all are just wasting your time. I’m gonna go about my day now. Have a good day.
"y'all are just waisting my time" You are wasting your own time, no one is forcing you to reply, And no one is "pressed" about you. "Just move on." You posted an opinion on a open platform, if you can't handle people disliking/disagreeing with what you have to say then why bother being online?
Boo hoo? 😭😂
"I’m gonna go about my day now."
Aww did I make “big boy” mad? 😂
Guys stfu 😂
Not really, but judging by the way you express yourself you wish you did.
Goofyyyyy 😂🧹
Can't disagree on that one, trying to talk to a ignorant and dull person really was a goofy move from my side.
You're both goofy, just fuck already
Sir I’m asexual and uninterested 😀
Yup. That would make two of us that can't cook. We'd have something in common from the get go.
I can cook, so I am expecting a partner who can as well.
can't cook? How can't you cook? How hard it to follow a recipe
Nope, I wouldn't. I'm sorry ladies but you are slowly reducing your value to just sex, and nothing more. I want a real woman who can offer more than sex. I'm not going to settle for a man with a vagina.
No.
Cooking is a basic human skill EVERYONE should be competent with.
So what does she eat then? Most likely no. It isn't that hard.. Everyone should know how. Follow instructions lol.
Maybe, id have to think about it
I think as long as she knows how to boil water without burning the house down, id be ok
Yes she can learn just like I did because I will show her.
I just will not be with any Women who will not try at lest.
God Bless
Fine with me because I can cook.
That looks so good
Thank you.
You Welcome
What's that brown stuff and white stuff?
Yeah, I’m a pretty good cook so that’s not an essential trait in a partner
Well, if a guy says "no" that pretty much eliminates 85%+ of modern women.
Yes... but you can't date everyone so that's okay.
@hahahmm True. I can cook. My mother always said "if you can read, you can cook". There is no excuse for not knowing the basics of cooking.
Also, a woman who can't cook likely spends a huge amount of money eating out and buying prepared foods.
There's also tons of women who just pretend not to cook because they're lazy but they suddenly know how to cook when they need to do something for their own special family events. Guys need to beware.
@hahahmm Interesting, I wasn't aware of this.
Yup. They won't be A+ level cooks but good enough that they should've been cooking for their man.
If your an adult, and can't cook something is wrong with you..
Lmao why something gotta be wrong with her?
@Janessa2021 Him or her. This guy is saying cooking is a life skill, everyone should know how to do it. If you're an adult you should know how to take care of yourself. :/
@spookywashere woooow 😒 thanks for that. He's forgetting that some women were not taught to cook and clean, men aren't even groomed to do it correctly dl he can't judge a woman for that
@Janessa2021 Like I said, his response isn't exclusive to women. So stop trying to make this a gender war. ALL adults should know how to cook. If you werent taught, well too bad. Stop being lazy and learn how to cook. he's not judging women? Where are you even getting that from? You're reaching to try and find something offensive, which leads me to assume you are either a feminist or you dont know how to cook and feel insecre about that.
@spookywashere girl it's literally in the the question about women and cooking and that's how he he responded tf 😒 secondly u shouldn't judge people for not knowing the same things as u cuz everyone did not have the same experiences and both of u should know that tf , thirdly sweetie I know how to cook and clean but im not judging anyone like yo pick me ass and his childish ass. Lastly sis I'm far from lazy but I don't want any man thinking he is just gonna go to work and come home especially if I'm employed , that's simply not happening. So stop trying to be a pick me ass female and understand wtf is being said this entire convo is about WOMEN and cooking so that where i got it from like I said , pay attention
@Janessa2021 "If your an adult, and can't cook something is wrong with you.." I dont see him mentioning women anywhere here. Yes the question is in regards to women, his response is speaking in general terms. Also you are being quite a hypocrite... to call me a pick me you are judging me when in fact you don't know me at all. It's childish behavior, It's not a good look. I'm not sure why you are responding in such a hostile and defensive manner, I can only imagine it's because you feel offended in some way? Which was not my intention. I just noticed that you were being a little bit harsh here and thought I could help clear things up. You are free to your opinion, but at least try to respond in a way that doesn't make you look illogical or ridiculous. Have a nice night.
@spookywashere being a pick me has nothing to do with being a hypocrite 🙄 secondly I was defensive because I saw u judging something u shouldn't have so I spoke up simple , lastly u only responded to what u felt like responding to 😂😂 and u didn't deny i was wrong about what I said about u so u know its true , move forward with that learn to listen and understand and create your own perspective instead of agreeing with a stranger and not analyzing what's being said , take care 😘
@Janessa2021 I don't have anything to prove to you. I also don't care much for what you say about me, because this post has nothing to do with me. Somehow you still found a way to make things personal. Also you must've misread what I had said, because I called you a hypocrite. You said it's wrong to judge, then you went and judged me... as hyprocrites do. I don't know you (thank god), and I have no business with you. Good day.
Sure no problem to me.
But She can learn to cook or might know basic stuff :)
If i like her i will and she can learn, not big deal
Na, men should be able to come home after a hard days work to a beautiful woman and dinner on the table. That’s paradise right? 💯
And what do u suppose the woman would've been doing all day while your coming to this
Yes!!! I can't wait to do this for my boyfriend. <3
@Janessa2021 She may be a stay at home mom, or just a housewife. Which is in fact hard work, keeping up with the house, cleaning, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping. :)
@spookywashere duh so if she does all that especially if she's employed , whats wrong with him making his own food to eat
Damn janessa you’re harsh. I don’t want a woman who makes me make my own food. I wanna be taken care of. I scratch her back, I scratch hers
@Janessa2021 You are a feminist I can tell. You think you are woke or something. Its just a matter of mutual respect and understanding your partner. To show them that you care. Of course you have a choice to do as you wish. Just by the other responses you left here I can tell you have no interest in trying to understand, you just want to be bitter. Its sad...
@spookywashere u just add t want to be right lmao , im not a feminist sweetie and your assumptions of me are sending me. You clearly dont understand what I'm saying and thsts fine but assume shit about me cuz u don't know me.
@Grubhub lmao I am not harsh ❤ I just don't agree with with what @spookywashere and the other dude was of thinking and spooky don't even know what she tryna say she hurt wants to be right