
Yes
No
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Please select your age

Can't cook? Meaning she can't prepare pancakes, noodles or fry eggs? If yes, no. The reason is, if a woman loves you, she would prepare for you even before she meets you. She would be hopeful and patient and industrious, knowing that she is going to marry a King someday. As a King, I have been building myself too. Financially, materially, mentally, spiritually, sexually and all round. I even learnt to cook so she won't have to cook for me always. I enjoy washing my clothes and have even done laundry for girls I loved. That is how sure I am that a Queen is going to be my bride.
So no. I won't date her.
Yeah, truth be told, skills like that can be learnt. As long as she's not ignorant and willing to learn then fine. Tbh my mom didn't know any cooking until she got married eithrr, dad taught her and since then she's good at it. In my family there has never been anyone who doesn't cook. My sister does so do I. So all that matters is that she's willing to learn
lmfao, I cannot cook, I burn down stuff when I do, but I'm learning! My mother wants me to be independent and not depend on anyone else for anything. Even my brother knows how to cook.
I dont think being a great cook should matter if you love her right?
i mean she could always learn how to be better at cooking... or just let the man do the cooking
Opinion
117Opinion
There is no such thing as "can't cook". Even the average child can follow a set of instructions once they can read. Now if you mean "cook really well" that is something else. I do not have high standards when it comes to food. So if we are talking about a woman who is not great at cooking but can assemble a dinner, absolutely fine. If you mean a woman who doesn't want to cook, because someone told her she can't, I would have an issue with that. But would still date and marry her after she accepts that food doesn't have to be complicated.
Very cheap yes healthy nothing is healthy in Asia! Thai people are overly obsessed with spices and sugar and when I say that I mean they cook everything with sugar and Chinese people are overly obsessed with oil the food must swim in oil. And the whole Asia continent they don’t know what eating fruits and vegetable means they eat very little fruits and vegetables and everything is cooked dehydrated damaged and most of stuff they eat is fried. With extremely poor hygienes and no state inspection.
If dating to marry, no. Especially if kids are involved. She needs to know basic cooking stuff and have a small menu of things she can prepare.
Prepared foods do not count, and are not healthy.
When the moment of truth comes, a mom that cannot cook will cost you more when she ships in all the UberEATS.
It's a red flag. All people should know how to cook basic stuff and understand basic nutrition.
She isn't my idea type considering I want to be able to cook with her, but I don't mind though I can try cooking for the both of us. But I would need her help in buying the groceries though, there is a difference in not being able to cook and just being flat out lazy.
Yes, as long as you're willing to learn.
I absolutely HATE people who refuse to improve themselves or at least learn things. My mother wanted me to download a movie app for her, I said okay, but she expected me to always navigate it for her. She refused to learn so I stopped helping and she stopped using it altogether. Laziness is disgusting
I would date a non-cook. Shoot… going out is usually to restaurants, anyway. Give me more “looking” time—I can fix my eyes on hers! More time away from dirty dishes and more time doing other (dirty) things!
Who can’t cook? Yes. Unwilling to learn? No. I’m sorry but certain things I need a woman to do to be worth all the effort I choose to put into her. To be frank if she is unwilling to take care of me and my kids I have zero interest in her.
As long as she isn't lazy yes I would. If she doesn't work, or cook, or clean, or be refreshed and ready to get freaky each and every night... well what's the point?
Yes hahaha, the picture got me. I honestly like to cook. I'd date a girl who can't cook but longterm she would have to learn for future kids.
Yeah, I would have no problems dating a woman that cannot cook. I’m not entirely a great cook myself, but I’m sure we can both learn and become better cooks overtime.
Yes, because I can cook myself and I don't need a woman to cook for me. lol However, her being able to cook is always a bonus, because cooking in the kitchen together can be fun.
Plus, if she didn't I could teach her if she was willing to learn.
I would cuz I enjoy cooking so I would cook for her as long as she is good at other things 😋
No, girls who don't know cooking also don't appreciate guys who cook, they just want rich guys who will take them out for expensive dinners. Girls who cook, also know it's hard work and needs a lot of patience. In my last, I did the cooking for months, she always liked the foods but not the time-consuming cooking. Plus cooking can be messy if you are doing it for long hours and people don't look like models doing that. Plus cooking together can be fun.
You don't really need to know how to cook for me. We can work as a team in the kitchen. I can chop and cook and you can clean the dishes. Fair enough?
Yes without a doubt. I kinda enjoy cooking and baking and would be happy to cook for us both. I would hope maybe she can cook a few things even if simple so that I can maybe get a night off cookin every so often. And I'd appreciate her helping me out so that we ccna have fun spending time together and it would make. ir a bit easier. on me.
I’m a better cook anyways. Bonus Points if she wants to duel. Bonus points and a high-five if she’s a better cook.
If she insists on not learning how to do it then no. It's something every person should learn how to do. And it says a lot when someone just doesn't want to learn it for no reason.
If she tries to then it’s good enough. But the same goes for the guy in the relationship they should also know basic cooking knowledge.
If you can boil water, you CAN eventually 'cook'...
the 'trick' lies in making it enjoyable or at least, 'tolerable' ~
Yes, I have done.
My first girlfriend asked me to teach her so I needed a cabbage shredded and steamed.
She promptly boiled a lettuce.
I never let her cook again
Sure.
Most women can't cook now so who would I date?
Her being a good cook would be a plus but it isn't a major issue.
People should be able to cook for themselves. Anywhere anytime. It's a basic skill for being an adult and saving money.
Fuck no, it's an essential life skill, a grown ass woman who can't cook also can't do a lot of other things.
Not wasting my time. It's a huge red flag! 🚩
Yes, because cooking skills are something that is gained with practice.
Intolerant I may be, no. Unless they were a soulmate I probably could not. I'm no chef either but... you know... could I really
Why not, maybe she could learn. Maybe you both could learn.
Yes because I can cook. As long as she can bring something else to the relationship (besides debt)
Yes, and you can always show her how to cook too. No biggie.
If I like her she's not that big of a deal cuz I love to cook
Yes. That’s not a problem, as long as she doesn’t expect me to cook everyday.
Anyone can learn with a good teacher which is looking increasingly easier with things like Skillshare. She doesn’t have to know before I meet her. I’d even practice with her so we could both learn.
An intelligent person can learn just about anything. I would say cooking is easier than dancing, since cooking is more about freestyling it to great taste.
Yeah, I can cook, so I can just teach her how, everyone should know how.
I can always teach lol. Or show her the basics to cook something.
As long as she can clean! LOL jk. It's not a prerequisite.
Sure but only cos I can cook. If she's willing to learn that's even better
Of course, I'd teach her if she wants to learn. I taught my ex/bby mama how to cook a bunch of things.
I love to cook so if she doesn't that is okay and if she wants to get in the kitchen with me that is even better.
She needs to be able and willing to cook or clean. I can do both, but I don't want to. So delegation or duties.
During dating it doesn't matter for the most part. Takeout going to dinner is the norm. I can cook so to me it wouldn't matter during dating or married
Women really ain’t shit nowadays to be honest. Just good for sex and being whores. Housekeep and motherly behavior is long gone.
Future generations of children will be plagued with stds
Well..
I am willing to compromise if you are anywhere as beautiful as @imthequeen
Yes, I can Miss, as long as I don't have to cook daily though. 😅😅
I can't believe how many are ready to cook for a woman who can't cook. It's a culture shock for me. Most men I know want an employed woman who does most of the housework including cooking.
Most humans can learn.
It's just a matter of attitude.
Her attitude will make her undateable/dateable.
I can cook for myself. But im not gonna cook for him lmao you can learn too my boy, it’s called give and take. 😏 f I look like your servant?
"f i look like your servant" Girls these days have a fucked up view when it comes to doing something for a guy. No one is aiming a gun and forcing you to cook for anyone.
What if you are in a realationship? You not going to cook for him, like ever?
My advice to you would be to get rid of that attitude you got, it's not a healthy way of thinking and it will probably be alone most of the time with that attitude.
Not really @YesICan I’m asexual so I don’t really care if I end up alone or not lol
@Deserter that’s fine as long as he knows how to cook for himself as well. I’m tired of the stereotypes. Thank you for your reply.
Again it’s my opinion? 😭😂 why are you guys butt hurt? There’s like billions of other women out there why so pressed about me? Just move on.
It’s so pointless y’all are just wasting your time. I’m gonna go about my day now. Have a good day.
"y'all are just waisting my time" You are wasting your own time, no one is forcing you to reply, And no one is "pressed" about you. "Just move on." You posted an opinion on a open platform, if you can't handle people disliking/disagreeing with what you have to say then why bother being online?
Boo hoo? 😭😂
Aww did I make “big boy” mad? 😂
Goofyyyyy 😂🧹
Sir I’m asexual and uninterested 😀
Yup. That would make two of us that can't cook. We'd have something in common from the get go.
I can cook, so I am expecting a partner who can as well.
can't cook? How can't you cook? How hard it to follow a recipe
Nope, I wouldn't. I'm sorry ladies but you are slowly reducing your value to just sex, and nothing more. I want a real woman who can offer more than sex. I'm not going to settle for a man with a vagina.
No.
Cooking is a basic human skill EVERYONE should be competent with.
So what does she eat then? Most likely no. It isn't that hard.. Everyone should know how. Follow instructions lol.
Maybe, id have to think about it
I think as long as she knows how to boil water without burning the house down, id be ok
Yes she can learn just like I did because I will show her.
I just will not be with any Women who will not try at lest.
God Bless
Fine with me because I can cook.
That looks so good
You Welcome
What's that brown stuff and white stuff?
Yeah, I’m a pretty good cook so that’s not an essential trait in a partner
Na, men should be able to come home after a hard days work to a beautiful woman and dinner on the table. That’s paradise right? 💯
And what do u suppose the woman would've been doing all day while your coming to this
Yes!!! I can't wait to do this for my boyfriend. <3
@Janessa2021 She may be a stay at home mom, or just a housewife. Which is in fact hard work, keeping up with the house, cleaning, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping. :)
@spookywashere duh so if she does all that especially if she's employed , whats wrong with him making his own food to eat
@Janessa2021 You are a feminist I can tell. You think you are woke or something. Its just a matter of mutual respect and understanding your partner. To show them that you care. Of course you have a choice to do as you wish. Just by the other responses you left here I can tell you have no interest in trying to understand, you just want to be bitter. Its sad...
@spookywashere u just add t want to be right lmao , im not a feminist sweetie and your assumptions of me are sending me. You clearly dont understand what I'm saying and thsts fine but assume shit about me cuz u don't know me.
Well, if a guy says "no" that pretty much eliminates 85%+ of modern women.
Fuck yeah why not. I'll just bring my microwave flowers from time to time.
If your an adult, and can't cook something is wrong with you..
Lmao why something gotta be wrong with her?
@Janessa2021 Him or her. This guy is saying cooking is a life skill, everyone should know how to do it. If you're an adult you should know how to take care of yourself. :/
@spookywashere woooow 😒 thanks for that. He's forgetting that some women were not taught to cook and clean, men aren't even groomed to do it correctly dl he can't judge a woman for that
@Janessa2021 Like I said, his response isn't exclusive to women. So stop trying to make this a gender war. ALL adults should know how to cook. If you werent taught, well too bad. Stop being lazy and learn how to cook. he's not judging women? Where are you even getting that from? You're reaching to try and find something offensive, which leads me to assume you are either a feminist or you dont know how to cook and feel insecre about that.
@spookywashere girl it's literally in the the question about women and cooking and that's how he he responded tf 😒 secondly u shouldn't judge people for not knowing the same things as u cuz everyone did not have the same experiences and both of u should know that tf , thirdly sweetie I know how to cook and clean but im not judging anyone like yo pick me ass and his childish ass. Lastly sis I'm far from lazy but I don't want any man thinking he is just gonna go to work and come home especially if I'm employed , that's simply not happening. So stop trying to be a pick me ass female and understand wtf is being said this entire convo is about WOMEN and cooking so that where i got it from like I said , pay attention
@Janessa2021 "If your an adult, and can't cook something is wrong with you.." I dont see him mentioning women anywhere here. Yes the question is in regards to women, his response is speaking in general terms. Also you are being quite a hypocrite... to call me a pick me you are judging me when in fact you don't know me at all. It's childish behavior, It's not a good look. I'm not sure why you are responding in such a hostile and defensive manner, I can only imagine it's because you feel offended in some way? Which was not my intention. I just noticed that you were being a little bit harsh here and thought I could help clear things up. You are free to your opinion, but at least try to respond in a way that doesn't make you look illogical or ridiculous. Have a nice night.
@spookywashere being a pick me has nothing to do with being a hypocrite 🙄 secondly I was defensive because I saw u judging something u shouldn't have so I spoke up simple , lastly u only responded to what u felt like responding to 😂😂 and u didn't deny i was wrong about what I said about u so u know its true , move forward with that learn to listen and understand and create your own perspective instead of agreeing with a stranger and not analyzing what's being said , take care 😘
@Janessa2021 I don't have anything to prove to you. I also don't care much for what you say about me, because this post has nothing to do with me. Somehow you still found a way to make things personal. Also you must've misread what I had said, because I called you a hypocrite. You said it's wrong to judge, then you went and judged me... as hyprocrites do. I don't know you (thank god), and I have no business with you. Good day.
Sure no problem to me.
But She can learn to cook or might know basic stuff :)
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions