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Does weight matter when dating?
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It does, if you are fat, there is no way you could match my life style. I know people that said that "oh I am ok with it, I am doing it also", yet they can not swim few km, walk few km and I am not even talking about bike and other things. So yeah, It pretty much matter to me, but I am not that specific, if you are not fat nor too skinny, I am ok with it.
All my exs have been different weight and race.
Weight isn't a concern, also different races are naturally built differently, some people have health issues, some generally have varying lifestyles. It's important to know that a good person is determined by their weight.
It never hurts to encourage your partner to get fitter. But it's more important to see them and love them for who they truly are first.
I don't want a guy that's dangerously skinny or morbidly obese. Neither extreme is good and is very unhealthy. But if he's chubby or even a little overweight it's not a dealbreaker. I prefer a guy that's in good shape or isn't heavy but it's not a big deal to me. He really doesn't have to have six pack abs. It's okay if he has a bit of a stomach
Yes. What's wrong with skinny couples? A skinny man for a skinny woman. Or a buff skinny man and a skinny dancer body woman.
Sound like great weight matches when dating. Complimentary even 😝
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I’m fine with dad bods but wouldn’t want to be with someone obese, not sexually attracted to it and I’m also a fairly active person and would want to do things like hiking together and my guess is not much over weight people are into doing physical activities for dates
Sorry, I'm not dating anyone who doesn't respect their body. I don't care what you say to cope, if you're morbidly obese and it's obviously within your control, that is a reflection of your character.
It's not even like I'm asking for a supermodel here, I'm just asking for basic standards. I'm not in the best shape myself, and I'm working to fix that, and that's what I expect from a partner.
It shouldn't. There's probably going to be times it does but for me that would only be if I was genuinely concerned about their health - long term survival stuff.
Unless someone is overly fat, then no.
A person's weight isn't that important to me, especially if they aren't carrying a ton of fat.
It does, have a healthy weight, don't be a skeleton or overweight, keep it in check, stay strong and healthy
I don't have a weight preference as much as I have a fitness preference. You could be a bigger guy with a squishy tummy and I wouldn't mind at all as long as you can keep up with my physically.
Yeah! If someone is unhealthy and obese I'm not going to stay and date them and watch them die
It does matter.
No woman wants to date a fat guy…but here’s what I’ve seen as well: fat girls can date any type of guy too
Depends on the man/woman and the standards they have. Hence totally subjective.
I like someone that has the same interests as me. Seeing as I’m always biking, swimming, working out, eating clean, I don’t attract many overweight women.
yeah. if we can't ride a rollercoaster together, that IS A PROBLEM.
I'm not attracted to either fat girls or really skinny girls. The actual weight number isn't a concern, it's more about how she looks.
I don't mind bigger guys as long as they don't have moobs.
as long as you're not chubby and you're just a slim or a fit guy I'm fine with it.
I don't have a problem with a woman who is a little chubby. The issue is you always wonder if she is going to get a lot bigger, which is not cool.
I worked my ass off to look as slim and sexy as I do today, I would want my woman to at least not be overweight.
a little cubby or skinny is fine. If she's bigger than my dad there is a problem
If she weighs more than 130 throw her back... if you can throw her even that is. 😅
Yes. It always matters to me.
I never give it much thought.
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