
She ghosted me because I didn’t care enough. Was this a decent last message?


Well, you call it 'playing games'. Meybe she simply lost interest and you with your minimal effort did not even deserve a text in her mind. Then you acused her of playing games and afterwards 'half apologized'. I mean, WTF?
As for the apology, I think it is good enough, but it will not change anything. If you were going out for 2 months and met online without having known each other before with no common friends, she will quickly move on and forget about you.
You should learn to appreciate the things others do for you and not start acting like little child when they start treating you the same way you treat them.
We met at a bonfire while watching fireworks on the 4th of July and have a common friend
First off this doesn't show the whole context of the situation. Secondly, why are you wasting your time trying to explain yourself to a woman who ended it because of your behavior?
Learn from what happened and stop wasting your time. She will not waste her time on you any more if she has any self respect, because as of now you are coming off as a needy jackass.
How is it needy to apologize for what I did? I’m not even asking for her back lol
Because you are still reaching out to her and she is still ignoring you. Why are you wasting any of your time on her now? No amount of apologies will undo what happened and it will not make her see you any differently.
I only reached out to clear my conscience because I really fucked her over.
She drove 2hrs to see me whenever I wanted and I never even asked if she got home safe once. Or called her, sent good morning texts, held her hand, etc…
Although I paid for all 4 dates
Well, sounds like you have your answer and you know what you did wrong. Frankly, you framed yourself as a real piece of shit
It’s because she goes to college 2 hours away, but I met her in summer break. It made me keep my walls up the whole time.
i didn’t vote either cause if you totally dragged her through the dirt and was completely horrible to her than, no. but if y’all simply had a falling out over something not too bad i think sure.
She started ghosted me left and right, waiting 24 hours to respond to my invite just to say she’ll be busy, never initiating, so I said “we’re not doing this. Just be straight up with me”
However she would drive 2 hrs to see me every weekend and I’ve never even called her, offered to drive to her, sent goodmorning texts or asked if she got home safe. It kinda looked like I was playing her
But I paid for all 4 dates
then i think you did fine.
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Yeah, they regularly do. Unless you can figure out your own end game, don't bother getting involved, they'll always feel hurt (the whiny/insecure ones we fall for/try to protect playing white knights)
Someone chooses to ghost on you, you do not owe them an apology.. They took the cowards way out.
I apologized because she would drive 2 hrs to see me every weekend and I did basically nothing for her
I wouldn’t even sent that text. You lowered yourself.
I would’ve been out and approach other hotter girls
I sent it because I actually did treat her like shit. She drove 2 hrs to see me whenever I wanted her to and I did nothing for her. Not even a “did you get home safe?” text
And if you look at the context of the text, you could tell that I had the upper hand in the relationship
What did you even just say? Lmao
You don’t know how to speak dude
I don't know how many times I have read this written in so many ways by you.
It will be discarded because she is over you.
It's a good apology.
Now download tinder my friend
So u know what u did
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