Girls, Why did she keep looking me in the eyes?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl training in the gym. I went to set up my squat rack for squats.

she asked me for some weights , so I passed them to her she was quite friendly. But then throughout my workout , I started to find her quite attractive. So I looked at her a few times.

when I left to go to another room , she started always looking at me. Then she would make eye contact like every 5 minutes.

I left to walk out , she made eye contact again , then I was on a machine and she walked up to the machine next to me and looked me right in the eyes whilst walking up because of the intense eye contact I assumed she was going to say something but she didn’t.

then twenty minutes later , before leaving I was on a machine. She was facing the other way on a treadmill. Then when she got off , she walked passed me look me in the eyes again and then looked in my bag because it was open.

why she keep making intense eye contact? Then 3 weeks later I was shopping on my own. Turns out she works there and walked passed me. I think she noticed me because she kept looking at me and then when I was loading up my car she was outside and she watching me.

[snowgirl123]

because she wants you deeply and is waiting for you to approach her, which is a man's job. do you like her? if you want to be with her, make your move before she's no longer interested, before the sparkle is gone. some girls are too shy to approach a man. I personally would start with eye contact first, and if he does not talk to me, in my mind he is not truly interested or even mocking me to make himself feel wanted, and then later to gather with his friends and laugh at me. if you like her approach her, if you want to of course.

[Asker]

Yeah but why she make such intense eye contact. Like it first started me checking her out and I was thinking damn she’s nice.

Then she walked up to the machine next to me whilst looking me into the eyes without looking away or smiling. Then I though she was going to say something and didn’t.

Then afterwards she didn’t know I was behind her training when she was on the Tredmill. She walked passed me when finished and looked me in the eyes again and then looking in my bag when passing.

It was only 4 week after , I went for food at the store and we passed each other I recognised her. Do you think she recognises me?

Also when I was getting in my car she was outside having a break and kept looking.

But why in the gym 4 weeks ago she making intense eye contact without smiling? She stares into my eyes like 2 times without looking away when passing.

[snowgirl123]

because she likes you, she wants you to talk to her, but she's most likely shy. for example, I have low self esteem. if I see a very handsome man i like I will look at him, but not approach, I will just wait. maybe you should try saying hi, be kind to her, be a gentleman, maybe the two of you can develop something special.

[Asker]

True , but if she was shy why would she stare into my eyes when walking up to a machine next to me but not smile.

Then she done it again , walked passed look me in the eyes and looked in my bag that was open lol

[snowgirl123]

I think that if she did not want you to approach her, she would not even look at you. she's flirting with you.

[Asker]

Yeah , she made some serious eye contact with me lol. Like didn’t even look away at one point

[snowgirl123]

that's so nice! way to go! I suppose you like her flirting with you

[Asker]

Yeah I do

[snowgirl123]

then you should talk to her, if you want to of course