I'm starting to get depressed because I am having no luck with a decent guy because I'm just getting approached by players and married men?

[Anonymous]

[sage2021]

Hold on to your boot straps b cause you're in for a bumpy ride. That is all that is out there to pick from. That's why you run into those types. It is not you! Most if not all guys play stupid games, including the married one's! Maybe one day you will find a guy to love and loves you back. Still, there are no guarantees in a love relationship.

[Asker]

Yeah I had a guy that askes me to move in as "friends" what the age of 29 absolutely all kinds games played here I eventually just blocked him

[Asker]

What at the age of 29**

[Rizack]

I agree with the approaching first.
A lot of us, even though I speak more from experience, is that we are "scared" of doing the first step.
Even a simple act of kindness may be seen as tricky, we walk on mine fields every time we think of asking a girl out, simply because there's this "fear" of getting misinterpreted, like misinterpret girls signals (like don't get them or see one where there are none).

We (or me at least) are very simple, if you ask me out I will be honest, even happy to be approached, it is a boost to the self-esteem too

[horatiohornblower]

Where are you meeting men? Because if you want a certain type of man. You need to spend time in places you're likely to meet that type of man.

[Medhat-M]

Well if you're always approached by the wrong people i guess the only solution is that you start approaching and picking the right one for yourself?

[Anonymous]

That's why I always suggest to women to do the approaching. Because like you are finding, it's usually only these types of guys that approach you.

[Yourfriend2021]

You're not alone, lots of people feel like that.

[Anonymous]

Heheh how about me? I'm a very decent guy.