What do you prefer: looks and body or personality?

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Doctadeek · Accepted Answer

It's been scientifically proven that men are more visual creatures, we have to be because we work in the same way bees pollinate a flower... A flower jus sits there looking all pretty with it's nice petals... To attract the bee over to wanna pollinate it... Girls are the flowers men are the bees... So I think a lot of men here are lying to be "politically correct" or "nice people"

Me, I don't give a shit bout whether I'm liked or not.. IL be honest I don't give a crap about girls personality jus want their body... That's jus how I am

MuddyMole · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I find that the two go together more often than not.
The most attractive girls I've met have all been lovely, and often very intelligent too. The stereotypical dumb, bitchy cheerleader seen in every high school movie, just isn't a thing. On the other hand...

I mean, *maybe* she has a great personality, but I kind of doubt it...

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Accepted Answer

So ideally, you'd need to have both. The better question would be is which one do you need to have, and for me that's the personality. Because I don't just wanna look at a pretty face all day. I need someone with substance. Someone that has vibes and energy that mesh well with my vines and energy. Someone that I can hold a conversation with. Someone that has a sense of humor that understand my sense of humor. Looks only gets you to the door. Your personality is what gets you the invite inside and closes the door behind you.

lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

I need a good personality but I bloody need someone I can stand looking at.
There are some men that will challenge you mentally and spark interest over the phone. But when they lean in for a kiss it suddenly feels uncomfortable and rather unwelcomed.
Unfortunately if we were blind we'd stand a better chance at dating.
Since personality, smell and the taste of their saliva would probably be more powerful.
I won't lie and say I'm not a Sucker for a pretty face.
It's my weakness and my greatest downfall.

Apulu_3 · Answer

I have seen many people who are terrible even though they have good looks. But very few good looking people were kind. In fact ugly were also ugly inside and few were good. I thought that personality reflects on looks but hey it is all genes so I don't trust good looks. For me at first comes behavior and habits. If someone have control over their mind and can change their bad habits then it says that they are trustable but those who are the slaves of their mind aren't good people from what I know. And I ain't just faking the importance of "personality" but for me good people look good by themselves so from one side I depend on looks too. If I want a long lasting friendship then personality comes first and looks aren't in my list.

tilmyheadblows · Answer

In most cases its "looks draw me in but personality is what keeps me" but honestly? I met my husband online and when we met irl neither of us knew what the other looked like; but since I saw him for the first time I've thought he was the most attractive person in the world. (Not that he believes me -- I'm bi leaning women preference so he thinks I still find women more attractive but this mf doesn't understand I still like him more and that is like the HIGHEST honour... 😭) infatuation does weird things to your heart and whatever.

Anonymous · Answer

Nobody is going to be completely satisfied with all of one and not the some of the other. Fit men are highly unlikely to fall in love with obese women no matter how awesome their personality is. Men will also will also take only show much abuse from a very attractive yet extremely bitchy woman.

Also women will struggle with dating a 5ft bald chubby guy no matter how funny and smart he is. They will give very good looking guys an initial chance but if he has a personality like a turnip he’s unlikely to get past 3 dates.

I admit I was one of those good looking yet boring/weird guys when I was younger. I almost never had girls turn me down if I asked for their number. Even if they had bfs they still would more often then not hand out their digits.

I also had a 95% chance of getting a date but I didn’t have game and often screwed it up. Then in my late 20s and early 30s I learned a few tricks and I got action left and right.

snowgirl123 · Answer

LOOKS FUR SURE, but I mean, a body without a soul, is a crystal cup without water to a thirsty soul. it depends on the type of person and the type of soul. sometimes the person is so beautiful inside, that no matter what they look on the outside they will always shine to me

Anonymous · Answer

Preferences mean nothing because at the end of the day we end up falling for someone who is completely the opposite sometimes lol. Personality is reasonable because you need to be compatible enough for a balance relationship. Looks are just vanity, they come and they go ALWAYS. Body is also vanity, a physically attractive body comes and goes within time. You can be 60 years of age whether you’re a male or a woman you’re going to have saggy tits and skin everywhere regardless. So personality is preferable.

Anonymous · Answer

I am unfortunately only attracted to tall average looking white/middleeastern/Asian men. I can't control. I tried dating a guy who did not attract me but he left me since he noticed it somehow. But the personality is still very important. I reject tall men with terrible personality for example and their personality ruin their looks in my opinion
So personality and looks to an extent are both important except you are ok with someone who dates you for your personality but is not attracted to your looks.

420Rachel · Answer

The face is the first thing you see before getting to know someone. So I would argue that looks are what hooks a person into becoming interested at first. However once you become more involved with a good looking person they start to show they're true colors, and if they have a bad personality then the relationship won't last.

BCA6010 · Answer

It would be better to be a middling mix of both than being all and nothing with either.

I voted personality however, because while looks carry initial interest, longevity in the relationship just simply isn't there if they're stupid, annoying, b*tchy, etc.

AviatorTom · Answer

Prefer for what?

If I'm only looking for sex (one-night stand, friends with benefits), looks and body.
If I'm looking for a relationship, personality first, looks and body second.

by the way, I'm not looking for sex... my SO has plenty of looks and personality for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I tend to find neither matter for me, my interest happens completely by random…haven’t noticed any trends. But in the scenario of choosing one I’d choose looks. Sole reason being I get along with everyone. I think I’d be able to match myself with any person. So having that perk of them being good looking is just a bonus I guess.

NumberOneStunna · Answer

It’s funny how 90% voted personality when most men are with women they don’t like because of looks!

TexasRed95 · Answer

I have known several women back in highschool that thought were gorgeous. But once I got a little time to actually meet them I actually found them extremely unattractive. There could be a woman that looked just like them physically that I found attractive. Yet I would feel none at all for them.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Well it has to be a balance of the two. If she has a cute face and hot body but awful personality to me, it will be very short or not even approach. But if she is not that great looking but has a good personality it'll not work if I'm not physically attracted to her.

Cherry234 · Answer

All of them are important to me. Why do I have to choose one over another?

dreammy · Answer

I think personality is better, because how do you know someone with good looks may have a kind heart, they can be mean or heartless so no one has to be good looking to be kind, they're looks doesn't matter but what inside they're heart matters.

bpking · Answer

Physical attraction gets your foot in the door. What comes next are can I trust this person? Is she being honest with me? Does she have intellectual curiosity? Is she altruistic or Machiavellian or a little bit of both? Then comes body chemistry. Smell, taste, tactile feel.

I am of Irish and Spanish ancestry and I definitely like the physical beauty of Mediterranean women. Dark hair, brown eyes, dark skin.

sparkyx_ · Answer

I prefer both good personality and good looks, please , can have one without the other…

But if it was life and death , I would rather have a bad beautiful as fuck bitch than Gollum’s good personality girl.

Yes internet I know Gollum is a dude , just imagine him as a Gollumsy the girl

FTnWo · Answer

Looks are for a fling if your looking for something serious you gotta go for personality because the person that is most beautiful on the outside could still be a disgusting ugly person... I know I been their.

Mahalia827 · Answer

For me I like to get to know them for who and how they are, if I like their personality and think they look attractive then it is all set for me

jekyllhyde · Answer

Too much of anything is bad. Gotta have a good balance on both. You wouldn’t want a troll with boils on their face for a girlfriend/boyfriend would you? And then again you wouldn’t want a model with nasty attitude.

Anonymous · Answer

Personality is a lie, hot guys with zero can get countless women, women date for personality only after 30. Same for men too. In the dating market attractiveness is the only key. People will put up with bad if attractive but not with ugly and bad or ugly and good.

devilish-cutie · Answer

Both, can't have one without another for me Byeee

Squeakin000 · Answer

Ideally both but looks will naturally deteriorate over time, personality and sense of humor are usually longer lasting so I think that's more important

friendlypelican · Answer

im dating someone i dont usually find attractive right now because of his personality. definitely personality.

ZackBan · Answer

You can never have enough of both.  Glad most people were honest instead of saying some bs line about how looks don't matter

Shiningtempest · Answer

@petercharie1991 Anyone who prioritizes looks & body over personality will experience painful dating failures.

lovelyhoneybones · Answer

If it’s a hook up definitely body but if it’s a partner personality

crybaby1111 · Answer

I literally do not give a single shit as long as ur taller than me cuz I myself im tall. Personality all the fucking way. Laugh me into bed

nice-girl · Answer

Of course personality. Looks and body can't be compared to the important of a good personality.

GoldenCage · Answer

A balance of both but personality gets the heavier weight

Stoner710 · Answer

Looks, a girl like Candace Owens Kaylee McEnany or Tommy Laren personally similar to Candice Owens

qwert1234 · Answer

All. I am attracted by looks first ofcourse. It's one's personality that'll make me stay.

Miristheiss · Answer

There is no preference. Must have both. If both aren't there then it can't go anywhere.

t-8900 · Answer

Both. Compromise on either reasonably. But completely? I'll stick to single life tyvm

lilaccc · Answer

all these choices can follow, but "manners" is first and important thing for me 🙃

loveslongnails · Answer

If you have a great personality you can always mold your looks and your body. It doesn't work the other way around! LOL

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I definitely want a personality on a girl first, she is can be a sexy looking knock out but if she is stuck up and rude, I don't want it.

constantine15 · Answer

Looks and body.  I can help mold her personality to how I like.  not all girls can have a good body though. Once girls get past a certain age, her looks decrease significantly. 😕

butterfingersaredope · Answer

Through experience, his personality was complete trash but u could not get enough of him fvckin me

ChiPaPa · Answer

Looks gets you attracted but personality keeps you. I doubt someone would choose the less attractive person if both have similar personalities.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

These two things are like Groudon and Kyogre. You can’t have just one. BALANCE

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I think it's 50/50. If you want it to last you should be attracted to her, but also you don't want her to be a witch.

magneto912 · Answer

People will always prefer body and looks over personality... Even if they do not admit it.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

A My character isn't perfect and I don't demand something I can't offer by myself.

MountAverage · Answer

Um, what? Why would there be a need to choose? People have both.

okeydoke · Answer

I don’t want one without the other. Attraction for me is an equal combination of both.

msc545 · Answer

Personality... looks and body with a shitty personality are worth nothing to me.

blondfrog · Answer

You need all 3. It's like gas, water, and liquid. You need all that are essential for life lol.

Deserter · Answer

Both have to be there. I'd take a 7 out of 10 that treats me right over a 10 that's a bitch anyday

damaster · Answer

Both are important but personality is more important to me. Her looks and body won't mean anything to me if her personality is bad.

domenico07 · Answer

The way a person carries themself and how they treat others

H3LLBRING3R · Answer

Being really hot does not excuse being a massive twat

cookiecrusher · Answer

Looks and body are more important. While personality is a reason to stay.

MrJMM · Answer

Personality because sorry but toxic assholes are just waiting for me to dump them in their place.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

Mix of both. Let's be real both matter. How much each matters will depend on each person.

Paul09 · Answer

Hard to answer. Definitely looks and body first, but next is personality. All are important.

noohair · Answer

If you can't stand the person, looks does not help.

boxxie2002 · Answer

The looks draw you in, but if they have a shit personality, they don't look that good for long

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Personality always impress me more Looks matter in the beginning

notwoke · Answer

all women are insane so at least get a good looking one

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