Guys do you give flowers on the first date? (Page 2)

[Dinosaursandanime65]

That seems super cliche and sort of insulting. Like, “you’re a girl, so you’re supposed to like this”. If she’s interested in paleobotany then sure but in any other situation….. It just seems weird.

[Asker]

It's not insulting... I know especially older women would appreciate getting flowers. I don't know what's wrong with today's generation. Women are not ladies therefore men are not gentlemen either 🤷‍♀️

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yeah, they’re really weird, and a bunch of Douche Clowns.

[Ailito]

I'm not a guy, but no. I've never given flowers on a first date.

Giving flowers to a partner has bad memories for me, so I just avoid it.

[genericname85]

no. that's cringy as fuck. and also coming on way too strong. first date you barely know. quite out of place to show "that much affection" with someone you don't know yet...

[RichSD]

First date flowers are a little desperate sounding, and they set the bar high very quickly. I did it a time or two though in my less experienced days :)

[ArrowheadSW]

No I don't. The thought of it wouldn't even occur to me. Just seems weird and clingy.

[spartan55]

No, not the first date. That's a bit too Tryhard for me.

[Adam1978]

No I don't do that on a first date. It's to much in today's society.

[DaveJord]

Not in today's world... but I mostly only been online dating. But I would with the right women.

[EssenceOfLight]

No. I buy flower to different occasions for women, if I want say sorry, to birthday and specific annual days but I think red roses are a overkill to first date.

[Paul09]

This isn't the 50s that very weird. And why does that woman get showered with gifts for? Man gets what? Woman isn't interested walks away with free meal and gifts?

[Relux47]

I would honestly be as a dumb as a rock since I have never been on a date. I would probably ruin my chances of a 2nd date by giving her something expensive

[Fireguy17]

I have, not a hundred dollar bouquet, but just a little something to let her know she is special.

[Kabluie]

Sometimes. The best is when you pick her up from the airport with flowers.

[MrNameless]

on a first date you'd pick her up from the airport? wtf l

[Kabluie]

@MrNameless Yep, we had known each other and flirted for awhile and our first date ended up her flying to see me. The best first dates.

[crazy8000]

Nope.
Reserved to someone that I have a loving and working relationship with.

Do you give flowers on the first date?

[Slayerrrrrrr]

hell to the no, love. They gotta earn those flowers

[Massageman]

I don't think I ever did- on the first date.
Any time it was dance, etc., absolutely.

[scooogy]

The first and only time I did so, she was first shy to accept them, but then both of us were confused where to leave them as we were meeting outside.

[king-dom1]

I did back then but not anymore, they are such trashy women now that all you need to do to get a girls attention is being popular online and condoms

[Jamie05rhs]

Hell no. I ain't no chump. I don't know who dat bitch is.

[okeydoke]

I do not. I love giving flowers, but a first date is too soon.