Tinder match chat went great, talked on the phone but then it was her birthday weekend. No response?

[vegastrella]

I matched with this girl on Tinder last week. Our chat went pretty amazing in my opinion. I'm attaching screenshots of our interaction to analyze. We finally talked on the phone for almost 2 hours and I felt it went amazing. We had a great connection and she genuinely seemed very interested in me. She let me know it was her birthday this weekend and that's where I became concerned. The next morning I left her a voice message wishing her a happy last day of being 24. No reply. She was probably busy getting attention at work all day? Next day her birthday I wait till later in the evening to send her a video of myself singing her happy birthday in Spanish. I don't have the greatest voice but it's not terrible, it's decent. I thought it'd be a nice romantic gesture for her. No response. We're about 300 miles apart, and we'd talked about me going to see her since I have a job scheduled soon that is headed in her direction. She told me she was excited about the idea and asked about exact dates during our conversation. She also told me she had been talking to her friends about me trying to figure out a nickname in Spanish I called her. That sounds like its something a girl that would be into me would do. But suddenly I haven't heard from her and I already double texted her. I really like this girl and am willing to pursue a LDR, she even said she's had LDR before and that she believes a stronger connection can be made through LDRs than local relationships. Am I thinking too deep into this and should I give her more time? Should I send another text? I'm supposed to be headed her direction next week. Should I text her about that reminding her? Thoughts?

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For context, the last two messages were after our 2 hr phone conversation leading into her birthday weekend.

[Anonymous]

Too much texting / chat on your part. Most women are tired of guys that put them on a pedestal. She was trying to give you a chance to take her down from it but you didn't bite. Your comments that suggested you'd crawl through glass for her will not do you any favors. She's used to being inundated with attention, and her profile pics are cliche. You are saying things, and offering to do things she has not earned!

You said 'I already double texted her. I really like this girl and am willing to pursue a LDR'

Double texting is a bad move and you don't know enough about her to pursue a LDR. She's lost interest because you have not qualified her, you placed her on a pedestal, and did not pick up on her playful attempts to get you to stop doing it!

[vegastrella]

Did you read about how well our phone conversation went? I felt it was pretty balanced and I only placed her on the pedestal via text because she placed me on one and I've been told by girls that they think I'm too good looking and a bit intimidating so I wanted her to feel comfortable and confident with me. Maybe I was wrong.. what did you interpret was her playful attempt to get me to stop gassing her?

[Opinion Owner]

When she said 'are you kidding have you seen yourself' In any case, there is never a win placing any woman on a pedestal period. They are attracted to what they see as above them. The closer they see you to their equal, the less attracted they will be. It's probably an unpopular opinion, but watch and you will notice it a lot. There will be exceptions of course.

Double texting is also a attraction killer to. To be avoided at all cost!

Talking on the phone for 2 hours... much better to cut it short leaving her wanting more. That's how I see it anyway.

[vegastrella]

Good point. I'm talking to 9 girls right now on Tinder and they're all sweating me. But I'm not as attracted to them as I am to her. I only give them small doses of attention and they're the ones that end up double texting me. I guess the same rule should apply to the ones I am very attracted to even though that shit is hard as fuck lol. I'd give up all the other girls for this one lol. Thanks for your input.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. A lot of guys will find they are more successful with the girls they find less attractive for those reasons. But they don't understand why! It's good you've noticed the difference.

[Anonymous]

I agree with the other guy. You’re doing way too much. I understand you like her so much, but just look at her part. It’s like she’s talking to a friend. And she’s not a very good friend at that. I would stop caring until she puts effort, but hey, that’s just me. Good luck!

[caaarol23]

relajate!!! you’re coming off as scary and creepy. Calling her pet names when you don’t even know her…. back off. If that was you texting me i would have told you to f-off.

[vegastrella]

Geez that's rough lol yeah I realize I did that too early. She did say in a voice clip response that she googled it and couldn't find out what it meant so she asked her friend that speaks Spanish and she told her it meant doll and she was like "Aww I love that" so I don't know what to think but I do agree I assigned her a pet name way too early and feel stupid about it now.