How can a women with a learning disability be sure what a guy is showing interest in when I have only been in bad relationships?

[CandaceSims201]

. only has some bad experiences with relationships with most of my ex-boyfriends.. I only had one good relationship, but it ended as well. Tried my best to keep myself true to myself in some relationships. I have nine ex boyfriends, and three of them are cheaters. Blame me for their mistakes, and blame their learning disabilities for their mistakes. Cheating is not a mistake. It is a choice. Some bad experience with some younger women trying to temp some former boyfriends.

[SteveSmith1985]

Hello🙂. I'm sorry you've had so many bad experiences with guys.

Unfortunately there is no easy answer to "how do I make sure my relationship is happy and successful. If you figure that out... The whole world will want to hear your solution.

To tell you the truth, finding a good relationship is an ongoing process of" trial and error" for everybody.

All you can do is to try and learn what you can from those bad experiences in the past. The idea is that hopefully you don't repeat your mistakes (for example, always picking the same "type" of guy who ends up not working out).

I don't really think that your learning disability is going to matter here. As long as nobody is trying to take advantage of you because of it.

The only other piece of advice would be to talk to guys with a learning disability about how THEY feel about their own disability early-on. Maybe that'll help keep you away from relationships with the guys who blame their disability for all their problems.

Good luck! 🙂

[CandaceSims201]

the i already been texting a guy with a learning disabities on facebok so far and he only been in one bad relationship that ended not well. yep i aslo ask him he is single. my flaws are being jelous and sometimes being overprocects. I bad experience with women with also has learning disabities also tried to temp guys that i did have a relationships with in college. not had sex. stay a virgin. I am not a place of candy

[SteveSmith1985]

Haha not a place of candy. Well all you can do is to try and make sure that this guy seems like a good guy while you're chatting. Unfortunately sometimes girls may try and tempt a guy away. That's nothing to do with learning disabilities. But a good guy won't be tempted.

And jealousy and overprotectiveness are both very common (I have those two flaws too). You DO have to watch yourself to make sure you keep your jealousy REASONABLE AND FAIR (fair to him).

I hope this guy turns out to be a good one🙂

[CandaceSims201]

he not talk about sex or anything do with sexting. i been asking about his like. he also like golf and he go swimming, tv you be framed. I am always confused. com. I also got some stress toys. I sometimes will fake jelous.

[SteveSmith1985]

Faking jelousy usually isn't a great idea. You cause a fight over nothing. I'm glad this guy isn't just talking about sex, but seems to want to get to know you. That's definitely a good sign🙂

[CandaceSims201]

the guys did be very rude and rejected all he sent he wasn't my type. i only ask what days he was free. that shoudn't happen if you going to get the piss off. then is going to be red flag anyway. i blocked him any way.

[jshm2]

Well... you clearly have problems learning.

Not trying to belittle you, but if you're failing at guys and don't have it in you to find better, then maybe you're lesbian?

[CandaceSims201]

I hate women too.

[Cherry234]

I'm sorry about your bad relationships. I agree that cheating is not a mistake but those men you were with should own up to their mistakes. They shouldn't be using their learning disabilities as an excuse. I hope you get into another good relationship. You have experience with bad relationships so hopefully you now know what you want and what you expect out of a relationship

[Anon621]

It's hard to learn from only negative dating experiences so sometimes I think it helps to know what to look for from people like me that have had some positive experiences. Here's some different signs when a guy likes you:
1) he talks about you with your other friends when your not around and your friends let you know
2) he does any form of PDA like taking your hand, holding your hand, putting an arm around you
3) he is direct and tells you he likes you
4) he constantly makes an effort to spend time with you
5) he remembers important days like your birthday or when someone passed if it's important yo you

[Avicenna]

It's not always clear, even to people without a learning disability. I think your problem is not recognizing interest so much as guys are taking advantage of you.

[CandaceSims201]

people on this sites kept being very rude and cybering bullying me. i am here looking for decent do not bevlive anyone who post. stop making accunts they all haters.

[jimmy2]

Wow i pray you find the one who can blindly love you that real love dear

[CandaceSims201]

thanks i not have very good time with rude user cyber bullying.

[noohair]

I have learned that to be a good partner, I have to be as good single, as I am when attached.