True or False: Date a handy, marry a blowie?

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Exterminatore · Accepted Answer

As per usual I will digress from my point in the beginning of my response in order to make what is probably an unrelated point in regards to the question, but also state something near and dear to my heart.

I prefer a good hand job to a blow job pretty much always. In the past I was a major man whore and have gotten blown many times by many different girls. Frankly, most girls blow job game leaves a lot to be desired. They seem to have this mentality of like…I’m sucking it and I’m an attractive girl so that should be enough to make you blow your wad or at least be driven mad with desire. Meanwhile I’m all: Yeah, I like hot girls sucking my wang…but this girls BJ game isn’t impressive as is the case with 97% of girls. I’m ready for it to be in one of her other hoIes now and it’s only been 5 min.

However, I think I’m different from most guys and I think most guys probably prefer a BJ to a HJ.

So to answer the question I think you’re asking, the answer is TRUE. If I were single I’d want to marry a giver. I want the girl who is willing to go the extra mile consistently for my sexual satisfaction rather than the girl who does only enough to be content with and no more consistently. Chances are if she enjoys sucking it more than jerking it she’s probably giver in most other areas of life rather than a taker or lazy in regards to you. She’s already of the mind set that she’s happy to turn the sexual volume up a notch regularly. She’s showing me that she really wants me to be happy and that she really wants to be with me, as opposed miss HJ who’s just settling for me. Everyone has a thermometer for how they feel about whoever their seeing. For sone girls sometimes that thermometer is at the level where the other person is good enough keep around, but is replaceable, or is maybe kind of someone to fill in gaps between guys or at best good enough to settle for. Yeah the girl cares about him, and all, but she’s not head over heals in love, and isn’t often driven wild with lust by the guy. It’s a guy she settled for. This guy gets the HJs, because when all other factors in life are taken into consideration, sex is often a thermometer for how the girl feels about you. The guy that’s just ok and doesn’t consistently captivate her attention, and she isn’t madly in love with, or on her way to being so, and doesn’t drive her wild with desire frequently is going to only get what’s good enough to make things work in both sex and most other areas of a relationship. You don’t want to marry the girl that thinks you’re good enough. Her thermometer towards you is only at 70 degrees and that’s as high as it gets. Her behavior towards you will correspond to exactly how much she digs you. It will likely only go down from there over the long run. When it gets to 50 degrees it’s time to calculate alimony and child support. The girl who’s thermometer is at 100 and has been for the last few years you’ve been dating before marriage is going to be way more giving in the bedroom, again as with all I’m saying, generally speaking, and is going to be way more enthusiastic about you as a person, how she treats you and will be much more giving in other areas of life. She wants you as opposed to is settling for you. Also she will likely argue with you less, will likely make less demands and will require much less maintenance. Yeah, her thermometer will likely go down over the long haul but it’s got way further to go down before she drops your ass and further down before she treats you like someone who is just good enough to keep around but not good enough to want to go out of her way for. So, if I’m understand the question correctly, yeah, marry the girl whose sucking you off and swallowing your load like a champ because she’s probably gonna be better in bed and more enjoyable to be in a relationship than miss HJ.

cth96190 · Accepted Answer

What is a blowie? Here in Australia, blowie is slang for blow fly.

Gwenhwyfar · Accepted Answer

I’ve never heard that but yeah probably true. My standards for who goes down on me (and vice versa) are definitely higher than for hand stuff.

NathanDavis · Answer

I have no idea of what that even means... lol

tatianamay · Answer

Huh? What does it mean?

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

What do you mean by handy? The guy or the girl?

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

You can't date. A blowie?

Relux47 · Answer

What the freak does that even mean?

DmMeNow · Answer

Well yeah if u have me u have to blow me lol

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I’d still want a blowjob even if we were dating

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

False

Iron_Man · Answer

I am a handy guy

msc545 · Answer

a what?

legalboxers · Answer

yeah... no...

Tim-loves-it · Answer

Yes! absolutely!

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