Men (and woman): true or false?

[Alyssa_11]

‘Everyone wants to date a pretty girl until she goes out with her friends’

Saw this quote and thought damn I wonder what men have to say about this...

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

This sounds like something teens repost on Tumblr or Tiktok without any understanding of the behavioral nuances actually involved. As men we do of course worry sometimes about our other halves being "lured away" by other men. Humans are a predator species, so if you don't know when you're the 'prey' in a situation (ie: the guy getting imminently cheated on), then you're a fool. But if your relationship is tight and solid at a structural level, then you should be able to trust your partner on the basis of the solidity of that structure. And frankly, pretty girls may have more *opportunity* to cheat, but I see no evidence that they're any more likely to have the inherent desire to stray. Cheating requires desire, opportunity, and follow-through, and remove just one of those from the equation, and cheating will not occur. Having a pretty girlfriend may raise the opportunity risk factor, but the desire and follow-through factors are more an effect of her character and her behavior over time. And you should know your partner's character and their proclivities to impulsive/destructive/deceptive behavior (or lack thereof) as you build the relationship from Day One.

[bamesjond0069]

I mean there's a truth to it but its not about pretty really. Girls who go out on girls nights clubbing, just no. I won't date someone like that. My girlfriend is sexy but she hates clubs and stuff like that. She would rather be home knitting or cooking at her friends house for a girl night in. Thats why she's my girl.

[Alyssa_11]

Awwww

[DizzyDesii]

I think that goes both ways. I dont like dating dudes whose friends are always around. They get on my fckin nerves and sometimee even get in the way. A lonewolf is much hotter

[DizzyDesii]

Friends are good to have when you need someone to cockblock

[Кураж]

What's even the implication here, that she may get hit on?

Such a concern never occurs to me.
Other people's actions towards my partner are of no concern to me, it's how my partner will react to said actions.

So how much attention she may get as a result of her attractiveness is irrelevant.
Definitely won't discourage me from pursuing someone who is particularly attractive lol, that would be silly.

[Sonorous]

Even though the accuracy can be debated, I prefer the quote:

"Behind every beautiful girl is a man tired of her shit."

[Alyssa_11]

This reminds me of one of Malumas songs

[Sonorous]

dayum I didn't know the gigachad could sing

[Alyssa_11]

Looool

[Honest-Matt]

If I cannot trust her when she goes out, we should not be together. I let a girlfriend hangout with friends, she slept with one of them. I'm not responsible for her loyalty and mine, if she ruins a relationship, that's on her.

[MCheetah]

I can't say if it's true or not. I've only dated one pretty girl in my life.
But considering most pretty girls are mean-spirited B's, I'd say it's probably true.

[AndrésC64]

I disagree. As long as I trust her there's no problem. And if I don't trust her oh, then I wouldn't be with her.

[Alyssa_11]

Perfect answer I’d say

[AndrésC64]

Thanks

[MrtoddsWildRide]

I don't get jealous easily, so I say let her have fun.

[Alyssa_11]

Nice

[spartan55]

I don't care if she goes out with her friends. If I didn't trust her I wouldn't be with her. Her level of attractiveness is not relevant here.

[Danny_dan92]

Not entirely true. There’s missing context here.


If I have a girlfriend and she’s attractive I would only be suspicious or question her activity if she acts questionably

[RealMarek]

I think it depends on the man’s preferences, the woman, and her friends. I don’t have any problem with it in my case.

[loveslongnails]

False, except if you're an insecure male. Hmm, come to think of it, with as many as there are, it could be true! LOL

[echoecho1234]

Sometimes a girls friends can be a negative influencer on her decisions.
It really depends on how much she values the relationship vs her friendships.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand what that means exactly. What are they trying to imply?

[Hellraiser1984]

Don't know. Maybe her friends are mean and judgmental of him.

[Waldoe]

I don't understand... " until she goes out with her friends"?

[Kingofkings1992]

No. That sounds like a female projecting her insecurities onto men. Women don’t the way the male brain works.

[Kingofkings1992]

Understand *

[Anonymous]

Well the bottom line is we want loyalty and it’s very hard to find especially if the girl is attractive

[Anonymous]

I just don't trust women in general HOT OR NOT

thats why I stay single :)

[SladeTannon]

Nah, only if he's really shallow or insecure.

[Wise4myage]

False, makes no sense to me.

[In_Trance]

yeah, some would say that's spot on