True or False? Women get into a relationship when they want. Men get into a relationship when they can. True or False?

[Anonymous]

If you ask me why I think so, it's because men are the ones, who keep dating alive and make everything happen while girls sit back and do nothing more beyond looking beautiful and showing up if they so choose.

True

Sort of true

False

You are a misogynist

[numscul]

Many men simply CAN'T
Women have a wider array of choices to chose a willing partner at any given time which increases to odds of success and lowers the risk of failure which can be emotionally devastating along with the females ability attract a partner without realizing it this is partly due to the fact , it's the aesthetically pleasing female parts that males desire more vulnerable to manipulation and for the most part less for the brain and speaking parts of the female...

and it goes on and on ... but it's all for nothing bullshit if all you both want is to do is Raw Dog it and Bone down

[FunkyMonkee]

It confirms what I've always said; women can have ANYBODY they want!! It's GUYS that have to take what they can get!!

[devilish-cutie]

not true, thats misconception, when most women like a guy they put in the effort, just usually not directly likes staring at him, initiating talks etc. Only direct moves are expected of men and they only do it if they get the hints or they are just looking for sex and dont really care about the woman. Women also get rejected by men they like and we dont as well get to that someone we are crazy about, only if you are lucky. its hard for everyone. Only sex is easier to get for women while most women want more than just sex.

[Blonde401]

I find this false. I’ll have been single 7 years this summer, I’ve wanted relationships but they’ve never wanted me back 😔

[Cuminginside]

a damn shame

[Kaamraj]

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, while men are the gatekeepers are relationships. But there is a catch here; not every man is equally desirable, it's only the top 10% of men who are considered a good catch, the rest being near invisible for the average woman. So the top 10% of men have all the choices for relationships. It is upto the woman to provide value, including sex, to qualify for a relationship. Here relationship is long term or better still marriage which is the ultimate socioeconomic security for women and insurance against her declining sexual mean value (SMV) with age.

[YesIWouldLikeFries]

Marriage is nothing but a contract that benefits only the woman. So there is no reason to even bother with it.

[StephiC]

There are different types of men.
There are plenty doing one night stands/friends with benefits/situationships with women who want relationships.

Then there are those with crushing self esteem issues who don't try and then complain that women aren't interested.

Finally those with adaptive social problems. Autism, significant physical disability, obvious mental health etc who are off putting to everyone, women included. They struggle with friends as well as girlfriends.

[Apulu_3]

It isn't true. I won't choose such boy anyways as he is way too insecure and I won't date anyone knowing that they don't truly love me and are looking at me as an opportunity. According to me relationship should have love, trust and understandings. He didn't loved me and just used me as an opportunity so no Sorry he isn't a Man but he is an immature Boy. So yeah a Man won't do it. Only a boy will.

[Asker]

What's the matter? Got a little hurt or something?

[Apulu_3]

No why?

[DaveJord]

I said sort of true, but good question. I mean no descent person just gets into a relationship just because they "can". I mean you have to "want" to for some reason or another. Guy or Gal.

But its true that guys like me are not going to be chasing a women around unless she wants a relationship. So that means I am going to invest more effort into women when I "CAN" have a relationships, with a women that "WANTS" to have one with me.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I met a girl at my master's, and despite being a student with low money and not much free time, I put out a lot of effort, regular cooking food or taking care of her when she was sick, giving my share of food to her, no sleep all night as she had cold and fever. She always wanted fancier places, car rides and cheated on me with multiple rich older guys in fancy expensive hotels.
I was from a poor background and have always seen girls go for only inherently rich or exceptionally attractive guys irrespective of their own attractiveness. This particular girl was not insanely attractive but younger women will gonna have more options.
I am in grad school and will no longer date before a permanent job, that never works for men.

[Exterminatore]

Not true. Most women are pickier than they realistically should be and most men get shot down many times before finding a willing partner. These things do not make getting into a relationship easier for either gender.


However if you substitute the word sex for relationship that statement would be 100% true.

[Phoenix-gb]

I think it's sort of true, I'm in the situation that if someone expressed interest in me and there was at least mutual attraction I'd most likely jump at the chance as I'm practically invisible unless I'm considered a friend only.

[girlwithglasses01]

yes, i mean i just recieved a message from a guy on this platform day before yesterday asking me to be his girlfriend :) not knowing me not seeing me.

another one 4 days ago.

[Asker]

Yeah, they are losers and best left alone.

[Cuminginside]

Are you one of them?

[NamerOfStars]

I'm dubious. If that were the case, it'd be MEN who you'd constantly see bemoaning the lack of women who have interest in them. It's usually the other way around.

[shaysh87]

On average, i think guys are more desperate for women than women are desperate for men.

[TexasRed95]

I think this is true because for the past 7 years I haven't even tried to date at all. I have had a tremendous amount of stuff going on in my life since highschool and I didn't have time or energy to try and date.

[slimshady59]

Women have a lot easier time finding men to be with than men do women they are sort of hard to get for a lot of men. Places time resources. Hamper a lot of men.

[slatyb]

Anyone male or female can get into a relationship fast if they are willing to be with anyone at all.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not all guys are desperate for a relationship and some girls are (though definitely not all)

[Anonymous]

Men who can’t attract woman can’t see how unattractive this type of thinking is. Never see their own faults or try change.

[Neilbud]

I think their is that sector, then those those who date for a reason (sex, support, etc.), Their are those who over think everything.

[Anonymous]

Men don’t generally want relationships, they want sex. Relationships are an important unfortunate side effect of society being gynocentric.

[Asker]

Speak for yourself

[Opinion Owner]

Have you ever had a relationship?

[TheFlak38]

of course it's true. the sexual marketplace is rigged in women favour.

[Anonymous]

Men have to participate in the race while women only have to wait at the finish line. I think I know why I almost only see male homeless outside

[Anonymous]

On dating apps, girls have many more messages than guys, and a lot of guys wish they could find a relationship but can't.