True or false - men make way too big of a deal out of a womans past?

[Anonymous]

I saw Logan Paul kissing his wife after his fight. Honestly their relationship is beautiful.

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+1 y

The haters just make it even more beautiful ngl

[Anonymous]

False. Men avoid promiscuous women because of thousands of years of human evolution have instilled in them a strong isntinct that promiscuous women make bad life partners and mothers. And science supports that instinct. Men who are serous about finding good women are wise to heed that instinct.

"Research from the Medical Institute for sexual health goes on to illustrate the importance of oxytocin when it comes to pair bonding. Casual sex leads to a decrease in this neurochemical production and interferes with further pair bonding. Repeated sexual encounters with multiple partners, neutralize the brain.

"When an individual chooses to engage in casual sex, breaking bond after bond with each new sexual partner, the brain forms a new synaptic map of one-night stands. This pattern becomes the “new normal” for the individual. When and if the individual later desires to find a more permanent partner, the brain mapping will have to be overcome, making a permanent bond more difficult to achieve."

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/influence-multiple-partners-womens-pair-bonding-naaz-fatima/

[ohsheeT]

It's called insecurity it's called control and it's called stupid if somebody is going to be hurt by what somebody else says they shouldn't ask a question or they should be grown up enough to handle that question.

[Asker]

Wdym, I seem insecure?

[ohsheeT]

I said it's called insecurity if you tell a girl you like her and everything's fine and dandy until you ask her how many times she's been f***** and then you start throwing a big deal about it and how come you even asked her then if you couldn't handle the answer

And most guys start freaking out because they find out how many guys have stuck their dick in her and then they're afraid they're not going to measure up it's called insecurity

And if they have a little dick in the first thing that it is learn how to use it

[ohsheeT]

And this is the same time it goes both ways there's women that are insecure of men that have had lots of sex because they feel that person might be a player

[Lovelailaxo]

It depends on how blown out the man makes it to be in every single relationship he has. I personally don’t think that knowing one’s past can tell a lot about who they are or were as a person. They might not necessarily be that way now but the past holds a lot of weight to why a person may have acted out, changed, or are simply the same person as before due to their experiences.

[Nikki1989]

It is pure insecurity and a huge red flag. Any man that makes a big deal over what happened in your past, will have issues with every other little thing as well. Avoid.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Contrary to a couple of posts, No it isn't insecurity. Their past can clearly give you an idea if they will be a good partner or not. For instance if they have history of infidelity, cheating, hiding sneaky links etc then its more than likely you will never have a stable relationship with this person.

There has been enough studies and articles put out that show women with extensive histories are rarely happy with a single partner and they instigate divorce at a much higher rate.

In these cases it is his PREFERENCE to only enter into relationships with women that have a better chance at a long term relationship being successful.

[TheUniqueOne96]

No.

That's just said to shame men for daring not to be attracted to a woman.

There's women on here who have no problem saying most men aren't mature enough for a relationship and shame us for having standards.

[Anonymous]

False. Men can reject any woman for any reason they want. I wouldn't be interested in someone who has had a lot of casual sex in the past becuse it suggests that she has dramatically different values than me. I'm allowed to go for the person I feel I have the best chance of being compatible with.

[Billlewis]

I'm only interested in her past because it turns me on so much to hear about her previous sexual encounters, not because I'm judging her.

[DarkLegacy]

Women make too big a deal about male behaviour in general, such as staring, pet names etc. In fact women make a big deal out of everything