If you meet someone, you fall in love with them and their trans, would you date them?

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Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

OK. Meeting someone is the first step. SOMEWHERE along the line during the first several dates, you'll have to run into the issue of sexuality, etc... An honest person will tell you, pretty much OFF THE BAT, that they're transsexual.

There are lovely transsexual people all over the world. I could be friends with many of them. Haven't met any yet. But am open to new people of any ilk and hope I could be a good friend. But I'm biologically female and heterosexual. I'm not bisexual, transsexual or hermaphroditic. I would certainly be flummoxed by a female presenting person with a penis! Holy moly! I'm not that flexible.

So, I don't think you could "fall in love" or STAY in love with someone NOT knowing that about them. And if I found out about that, I'd feel lied to. What if a lesbian woman dated a straight man and never told him she was a lesbian? Or a gay man dated a straight woman and never told her he was gay? That is a cheat and isn't forgiveable.

Your sexuality and physical situation has to be up front with someone you're seriously dating. I keep hearing people who say they don't tell someone they're trans. That really should be in people's profiles. THEN, people who want to date trans people will CHOOSE them. That's the most reasonable and fair situation of all. Then, it's only about whether your personalities match. NOT anything else.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm not transphobic and I have a trans friend. The "someone" and I would have sex when we get into a relationship, right? Before marrying? An HONEST person would tell me that they were trans BEFORE even getting into a relationship. A transman is a biological female. I'm not into dating biological females. I would wish them well, break off the relationship at that moment and move on with a straight, biological male who is not trans

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

No.

You find a beautifully packed and delicious food, but you understand it's been there for over a week as you're about to eat it, would you still eat it?

I'm into biological females. In such case, I'd share sympathy with their gender dysphoria, express my frustration about how they could not tell me earlier, wish them well and move on.

Apraxia · Accepted Answer

I would hope if that occurred I wouldn’t mind, but again if that happened I don’t know, maybe I would be put off by it, maybe them lying to me would put me off, or I’d use it as an excuse to be out off. I hope I would still love them but 🤷 I don't know.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Unlikely, but I don't rule it out. They'd have to be really convincing behaviour wise, as well as looks, etc.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Fck no. Moment i find out they’re trans, we’re over. And i’d be tempted to beat their ass. Shit, might find another tranny to beat their ass so they can feel like i granted them equality. Fck them

slatyb · Answer

I don’t fall in love with people until I know them well enough to know whether they are transsexual.

It’s hard to say. AFAIK I have never met a trans woman that could pass. I’ve met many that were pretty obviously trans.

Anonymous · Answer

No. i date to marry, and when married, i want children. A transgender man (biological woman) cannot have sperm, so no, i would not date them. we are sexually incompatible.

RichSD · Answer

Straight people wouldn't. Only bi people might. It is an illusion to think otherwise.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not... Im not gay. and im not interested in someone that has severe mental disorders and has a fetish for drug use (testosterone) and bodily mutilation.

Anonymous · Answer

Voted C.  Because realistically, they'd have odds set against them by a lot. But it's technically possible.

Anonymous · Answer

No despite the fact that they are Trans. They lied! They didn't tell me they were Trans. It's unforgivable.

exitseven · Answer

I am sorry but no- I could not get past it.

DaveToo · Answer

I'm not into dick dating.

Sabretooth · Answer

some look simply beautiful.

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

XXblack88 · Answer

No. sorry

Anonymous · Answer

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